Still a horrible world
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matt21

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4,383 posts

233 months

Friday 2nd January 2009
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Just heard a friend of a friend has killed himself because he was gay and suffering homophobic abuse. hung himself new years eve. was 19.

dont know the whole story of course, but it shocks me at he amount of prejudices that are still there still in 2009, whether they be homophobic, racist, sexist etc. frown

ahdguy

279 posts

236 months

Friday 2nd January 2009
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Sorry to hear about that is terrible to hear. Never good for those left behind.

Exoticaholic

1,087 posts

241 months

Friday 2nd January 2009
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matt21 said:
Just heard a friend of a friend has killed himself because he was gay and suffering homophobic abuse. hung himself new years eve. was 19.

dont know the whole story of course, but it shocks me at he amount of prejudices that are still there still in 2009, whether they be homophobic, racist, sexist etc. frown
Terrible news to say the least, hope he rests in peace.

Romanymagic

3,298 posts

248 months

Friday 2nd January 2009
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matt21 said:
Just heard a friend of a friend has killed himself because he was gay and suffering homophobic abuse. hung himself new years eve. was 19.

dont know the whole story of course, but it shocks me at he amount of prejudices that are still there still in 2009, whether they be homophobic, racist, sexist etc. frown
Sorry to hear of the loss of your friend. It is a shame that such attitudes continue to cause so much upset and destruction.

May your friend RIP.

leeb

1,074 posts

272 months

Friday 2nd January 2009
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bad times, sorry to hear that mate.

Those who caused it will know, rest assured of that.

RIP.

Geoffers

889 posts

282 months

Friday 2nd January 2009
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What a waste of a young life
may he RIP

agric

367 posts

213 months

Friday 2nd January 2009
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Stupid waste, theres nothing that can't be talked through

sorry for your mate

gj88

1,961 posts

223 months

Friday 2nd January 2009
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agric said:
theres nothing that can't be talked through
+1

Sorry for your friends loss. Fingers crossed the people who caused it realize it.

kit80

4,764 posts

216 months

Friday 2nd January 2009
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frown

It is very sad this stuff still happens. Hope your friend RIP.

Daston

6,148 posts

232 months

Friday 2nd January 2009
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yep the modern world is truly messed up.

What makes me laugh is all that sort of stuff was accepted with open arms 2500 years ago

minimatt1967

17,381 posts

235 months

Friday 2nd January 2009
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That's terrible, a real waste!

matt21

Original Poster:

4,383 posts

233 months

Saturday 3rd January 2009
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thanks guys but I dont know him personally. when my mate told me though tonight it did bring a tear to my eye, that rarely happens frown

i think as a culture lots are partly to blame. lots of us joke and laugh about these things but never think about the consequences. apparently he was abused and brushed it off and just didnt let it show but obviously hurt him.

just makes you think.

RIP Ryan

batfink79

2,999 posts

239 months

Saturday 3rd January 2009
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RIP Fella




Finkers

ih8thisname

2,699 posts

229 months

Saturday 3rd January 2009
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May he RIP..

This world is really not becoming a nice place to live at all..

BlueCello

6,225 posts

236 months

Saturday 3rd January 2009
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That is truly awful frown It's sad to think that people are still being driven to this sort of thing.

shouldbworking

4,801 posts

241 months

Saturday 3rd January 2009
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Tis a shame, although methinks that when people go for suicide around that age its more to growing pains than specific issues.

A friend of mine came out at around that age and his biggest drama was that hed been fretting over it for years and we werent at all bothered.

Callan.T89

8,422 posts

222 months

Saturday 3rd January 2009
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My condolencies for you, the mans family and RIP for your freind, at least the people who taunted him will have to face themselves for the rest of there lives.

Tunku

7,703 posts

257 months

Saturday 3rd January 2009
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My sympathies etc. Don't like to hear about a human life being taken, and all that. Hovever, I am fed up with gay people being shoved down our throats.

Jasandjules

72,580 posts

258 months

Saturday 3rd January 2009
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Just 19? That's a real shame.

When I hear of fat kids hanging themselves due to school bullies etc.. I would wish that those bullies are publicly whipped.

Brown and Boris

11,838 posts

264 months

Saturday 3rd January 2009
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Seems it is socially still OK to bully over being Gay/Lesbian (note that PH stamp all over racist remarks but largely ignore all the gay jibes?).

In fact the latest reaserch shows that Gay/Lesbian groups are now the target of more prejudice tham ethnic groups.