Women who go After Married Men
Women who go After Married Men
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Pferdestarke

Original Poster:

7,192 posts

216 months

Sunday 4th January 2009
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I call them home-wreckers and don't understand why anyone, man or woman, would want to break up a family unit for their own gain.

I'm not talking from experience but did once have a brief relationship with someone who seemed to specifically target men who were either married or in serious relationships.

Your thoughts?

Pork

9,455 posts

263 months

Sunday 4th January 2009
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Afraid of commitment?

Like the saftey of someone who is already taken?

IMO its not the single persons concern, its the married person who needs to check their priorities.

Penny-lope

13,645 posts

222 months

Sunday 4th January 2009
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They maybe fell for them, before finding out they were in a relationship scratchchin

I mean not everyone is honest when you first met them.....sadly

fathomfive

11,218 posts

219 months

Sunday 4th January 2009
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The challenge?

Steamer

14,174 posts

242 months

Sunday 4th January 2009
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Pferdestarke said:
I call them home-wreckers ....
Your thoughts?
I call them reserves wink

Glassman

24,936 posts

244 months

Sunday 4th January 2009
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Steamer said:
Pferdestarke said:
I call them home-wreckers ....
Your thoughts?
I call them reserves wink
Like subs?

fathomfive

11,218 posts

219 months

Sunday 4th January 2009
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Glassman said:
Steamer said:
Pferdestarke said:
I call them home-wreckers ....
Your thoughts?
I call them reserves wink
Like subs?
The sandwich or undersea ship?

Steamer

14,174 posts

242 months

Sunday 4th January 2009
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Glassman said:
Steamer said:
Pferdestarke said:
I call them home-wreckers ....
Your thoughts?
I call them reserves wink
Like subs?
yes Just keeping them on the side lines incase your main player throws a wobbler!

jimmyb

12,254 posts

245 months

Sunday 4th January 2009
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It's because woman want want they cant have maybe to prove to themselves they are desirable maybe just out of selfishness who knows.

Pretty pathetic imho.Anyone who cheats or breaks p a family unit is pathetic and selfish.

Glassman

24,936 posts

244 months

Sunday 4th January 2009
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Steamer said:
Glassman said:
Steamer said:
Pferdestarke said:
I call them home-wreckers ....
Your thoughts?
I call them reserves wink
Like subs?
yes Just keeping them on the side lines incase your main player throws a wobbler!
and do they perform that much better in the hope that they become automatic selection (but deep down they know that this is an on-loan spell and once they get some miles on the clock, someone else will come in and bid for them)?

SS HSV

9,646 posts

287 months

Sunday 4th January 2009
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Always find it odd that people who don't have a family think it's socially acceptable to have an affair with someone that does.

When the little people have to be sat down and told that mummy and daddy are splitting up because 'x' couldn't be faithful it is a bit different to the version of how cool they are down the pub cos they are shagging someone elses partner.

Families are for life not for Christmas. Just because he/she wants a bit it doesn't make it right and it takes two to tango.

Think before you get involved with someone elses partner, the havoc and destruction that follow lasts for many years yes

martinnitram

244 posts

230 months

Sunday 4th January 2009
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I'm not talking from experience but did once have a brief relationship with someone who seemed to specifically target men who were either married or in serious relationships.



You must be talking from experience as you stated you had a -
"brief relationship with someone who seemed to specifically target men who were either married or in serious relationships"

Are you saying you are married/in a serious relationship and had a bit on the side,
Or are you saying that the woman/man you were having a brief relationship with liked married men ( you not being a married man )and thats why it was brief?

confused
Anyway were are all these women, dont think ive got a problem with it!
biglaugh

NWTony

3,002 posts

257 months

Sunday 4th January 2009
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Surely it's the married person who is doing wrong in this situation?

Slagathore

6,224 posts

221 months

Sunday 4th January 2009
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jimmyb said:
It's because woman want want they cant have maybe to prove to themselves they are desirable maybe just out of selfishness who knows.

Pretty pathetic imho.Anyone who cheats or breaks p a family unit is pathetic and selfish.
Yes!

They probably get a kick out of it! Thinking that because he's left his wife/partner and children, she's obviously that much better! It makes them feel good and wanted.

It goes both ways, though! I know blokes that wouldn't think twice about getting involved with married women!

jimmyb

12,254 posts

245 months

Sunday 4th January 2009
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sgathore said:
jimmyb said:
It's because woman want want they cant have maybe to prove to themselves they are desirable maybe just out of selfishness who knows.

Pretty pathetic imho.Anyone who cheats or breaks p a family unit is pathetic and selfish.
Yes!

They probably get a kick out of it! Thinking that because he's left his wife/partner and children, she's obviously that much better! It makes them feel good and wanted.

It goes both ways, though! I know blokes that wouldn't think twice about getting involved with married women!
Also true but its a trait much much more prevalent in woman.

Best way to describe it is if you as a guy are single you HAVE to put in the effort to find a woman as they wont simply flirt with you and SHOW any interest. However if you are down the pub with your mates and abviously girlfried/wife woman are much more likely to actively flirt with you and show interest. I have been chatted up more when in a relationship than when single.

andy400

11,619 posts

260 months

Sunday 4th January 2009
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SWT who only want what they can't have?

Simpo Two

92,707 posts

294 months

Sunday 4th January 2009
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My ex-bird had a history of affairs with older married men. In fact I think I was the only partner she had who was single!

Anyway, she eventually left to carry on yet more secret relationships with old married men - in a way she would be perfect mistress material... I put it down to insecurity and the fact she grew up not knowing her real father - so she's been trying to find a father figure ever since who will love her and look after her. She was a bloody good liar too, but then, she'd had plenty of practice. Last I heard of her she'd wrecked three marriages.

Edited by Simpo Two on Sunday 4th January 14:09

groucho

12,134 posts

275 months

Sunday 4th January 2009
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Simpo Two said:
My ex-bird had a history of affairs with older married men. In fact I think I was the only partner she had who was single!

Anyway, she eventually left to carry on yet more secret relationships with old married men - in a way she would be perfect mistress material... I put it down to insecurity and the fact she grew up not knowing her real father - so she's been trying to find a father figure ever since who will love her and look after her. She was a bloody good liar too, but then, she'd had plenty of practice. Last I heard of her she'd wrecked three marriages.

Edited by Simpo Two on Sunday 4th January 14:09
A chance for me after all then.

Mobile Chicane

21,984 posts

241 months

Sunday 4th January 2009
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Affairs are the symptom of relationship problems, not the cause.

Momentofmadness

2,371 posts

270 months

Sunday 4th January 2009
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NWTony said:
Surely it's the married person who is doing wrong in this situation?
+1

I'm never sure how the 3rd party person becomes the bad one, surely it is up to the person in the relationship not to sucomb to temptation?



Edited by Momentofmadness on Sunday 4th January 14:51