How much deformity is enough?
How much deformity is enough?
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308mate

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13,758 posts

251 months

Monday 12th January 2009
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Ok, I reckon this thread is subtley different enough from the two that prompted it (and doubling up on threads seems to be de-rigeur tonight).

How badly deformed/unhealthy does a unborn child have to be, before Doctors make the decision and say "This is not a healthy example of our species, it has little chance for survival, if it does it will will have poor quality of life and be an unfair burden on the state. You cant have it Im afraid."

The two-headed baby has to be an example of this? Save for any speculation you want to make about the parents, what are they hoping to achieve? And if they persist with it and the child(ren) dies after 6 mega-expensive months in intensive care, why do I have to pay for it?

If I was the mother/father of a healthy unborn with every chance of survival and there was one tiny little shortfall in the care/service received because resources are being directed to this situation, there'd be a fookin riot.

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mybrainhurts

90,809 posts

284 months

Monday 12th January 2009
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I made it....

Nobody You Know

8,422 posts

222 months

Monday 12th January 2009
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it doesn't matter how deformed you are, just look at Gordon Brown......

mybrainhurts

90,809 posts

284 months

Monday 12th January 2009
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Nobody You Know said:
it doesn't matter how deformed you are, just look at Gordon Brown......
Flappy jaw..? No thanks...

mattley

3,035 posts

251 months

Monday 12th January 2009
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At the point where doctors recommend termination then termination should be the treatment. IMO it's part of the social contract. OK if you want to break that contract make sure you can pay all costs incurred privately.



parakitaMol.

11,876 posts

280 months

Monday 12th January 2009
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308mate said:
How badly deformed/unhealthy does a unborn child have to be, before Doctors make the decision and say "This is not a healthy example of our species, it has little chance for survival, if it does it will will have poor quality of life and be an unfair burden on the state. You cant have it Im afraid."
Doctors do not make judgements based on potential "burdens to the state" (and it is only potential burden as you can never be sure of the outcome, cure or quality of life).


s3fella

10,524 posts

216 months

Monday 12th January 2009
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308mate said:
The two-headed baby has to be an example of this? Save for any speculation you want to make about the parents, what are they hoping to achieve?
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Two lots of child benefit?

"My Two headed Cherub hell" "Freak's mum puts down Monster Munch to speaks to the Sun from her Lazyboy!" ....


Surely the right to life and rights of the unborn baby also extend to a right to a dignified and painless death?

308mate

Original Poster:

13,758 posts

251 months

Monday 12th January 2009
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parakitaMol. said:
308mate said:
How badly deformed/unhealthy does a unborn child have to be, before Doctors make the decision and say "This is not a healthy example of our species, it has little chance for survival, if it does it will will have poor quality of life and be an unfair burden on the state. You cant have it Im afraid."
Doctors do not make judgements based on potential "burdens to the state" (and it is only potential burden as you can never be sure of the outcome, cure or quality of life).
Ok, fair enough. Doctors dont declare what lives and what dies. But should they be empowered to make a decision that is in the best interests of the public, the unborn and the parents? And at what stage is that?

Missing a finger - no problem.

Conjoined - well past history shows that its going to be a waste of money and lot of heartache for nothing.

And somewhere in between lies the the point at which its "beyond economic repair".

Really, its a gravy train, lets be honest.

Who would like to bet that if the press werent allowed to pay for a story, this unborn would have been terminated as per the doctors recomendations?

funk odyssey

1,983 posts

258 months

Monday 12th January 2009
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I fear Godwin's Law may be approaching

Carpie

1,119 posts

224 months

Monday 12th January 2009
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If I was informed of a major disability with an unborn child of mine, I'd have it terminated. That includes mental disorders and anything that would prevent the child leading a normal happy life like any other, such as paralysis, being conjoined or having no legs.

It might seem heartless, but I'd rather adopt a healthy child and give an already living child a good life than introduce and raise one which doesn't lead a full life.

Simpo Two

92,695 posts

294 months

Monday 12th January 2009
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308mate said:
The two-headed baby has to be an example of this? Save for any speculation you want to make about the parents, what are they hoping to achieve? And if they persist with it and the child(ren) dies after 6 mega-expensive months in intensive care, why do I have to pay for it?
Quite. I saw this on the news. The mother seemed rather simple and said it was a 'gift from god'. Not my idea of a gift, but there you go.

M3CHA-MONK3Y

6,095 posts

224 months

Tuesday 13th January 2009
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Regarding the thread title, I think having 5 arms and 47 sets of eyelids but only one eye would be considered an adequate amount of deformity.
Of course even this person, with enough deformity, could still acquire a job as a Avon Mascara product tester.

Parrot of Doom

23,075 posts

263 months

Tuesday 13th January 2009
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308mate said:
The two-headed baby has to be an example of this? Save for any speculation you want to make about the parents, what are they hoping to achieve? And if they persist with it and the child(ren) dies after 6 mega-expensive months in intensive care, why do I have to pay for it?
If your child were diagnosed with a terminal disease, cancer say, and had only a 1% chance of survival - would you call it quits? Or would you fight until the last, spending NHS money like there were no tomorrow, in a vain attempt to save the life of your child?

Why should I pay for that?

Frederick

5,893 posts

249 months

Tuesday 13th January 2009
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M3CHA-MONK3Y said:
Regarding the thread title, I think having 5 arms and 47 sets of eyelids but only one eye would be considered an adequate amount of deformity.
Of course even this person, with enough deformity, could still acquire a job as a Avon Mascara product tester.
Imagine the noise of 47 sets of eyelids blinking at once!

(well, I assume 47 eyelids, if the freak deformed gift from God actually does have only one eye)

glazbagun

15,345 posts

226 months

Tuesday 13th January 2009
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funk odyssey said:
I fear Godwin's Law may be approaching
My first thought. yes

plasticpig

12,932 posts

254 months

Tuesday 13th January 2009
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Well these two seem to be doing ok.




http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/article2...


308mate

Original Poster:

13,758 posts

251 months

Tuesday 13th January 2009
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plasticpig said:
Well these two seem to be doing ok.




http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/article2...
yikes

The Sun - fountain of all knowledge said:
"...and they even hope to marry one day."

NDA

25,572 posts

254 months

Tuesday 13th January 2009
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As my granny used to say, 'two heads are better than one'.

thehawk

9,335 posts

236 months

Tuesday 13th January 2009
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plasticpig said:
Well these two seem to be doing ok.




http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/article2...
I wonder if they kiss with tongues while it frigs itself.

JJCW

2,449 posts

215 months

Tuesday 13th January 2009
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I don't get how this 2 headed thing works...

Do both heads have separate control of arms/legs? Could you have a sort of mental arm-wrestle where one head wants to do one thing and the other another?

Does one use left side of body and the other right?