Scarf-wearing etiquette!
Scarf-wearing etiquette!
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MitchT

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17,158 posts

240 months

Monday 19th January 2009
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The OH tells me that it’s fashionable for a bloke to knot his scarf these days. This is achieved by folding the scarf so it’s half as long as normal and then, starting at the back of one's neck, passing the looped end around one side of one’s neck and the not-looped end around the other side and then passing the not-looped end through the looped end at the front of one’s neck. That seems easy enough. However, given that shirts, coats, etc. all overlap from the left if you’re a man and from the right of you’re a women (as seen from the wearer’s perspective), is there a similar rule with scarves when knotting them? In other words, is there a specific side that each end should be passed around at the beginning of the scarf-installation process depending on whether you’re a man or a woman, to give a ‘male’ or ‘female’ appearance when worn?

Salgar

3,285 posts

215 months

Monday 19th January 2009
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I personally, have never thought about any of that for that long.

MikeyT

18,477 posts

302 months

Monday 19th January 2009
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FFS!

madala

5,063 posts

229 months

Monday 19th January 2009
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FFS..... +1

kambites

71,646 posts

252 months

Monday 19th January 2009
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You wear a scarf?

Manc Dwarf

155 posts

257 months

Monday 19th January 2009
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Never thought of that. Its an idea though.

Main thing is to make sure that the scarf is long enough to be able to do said knot. One of mine isn't.

james_tigerwoods

16,347 posts

228 months

Monday 19th January 2009
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I'm a Northerner. I don't wear a scarf. Or a Jacket. I'm 'arrrd.

Actually, I'm a big girl and I tend to just loop it back once around my neck


Plotloss

67,280 posts

301 months

Monday 19th January 2009
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I'd go with the knotted approach, nice and tight.

That way, its easier for a passing, large, right thinking chap to garot you with.

HTH

Yertis

19,738 posts

297 months

Monday 19th January 2009
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I do wear my scarf in the manner described, but hadn't thought at all about any left/right bias according to gender.


Something else for me to wory about I guess.

bigandclever

14,411 posts

269 months

Monday 19th January 2009
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Manc Dwarf said:
Main thing is to make sure that the scarf is long enough to be able to do said knot. One of mine isn't.
That's a tea towel.




And that's wimmin's stuff too

spitfire-ian

4,251 posts

259 months

Monday 19th January 2009
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I always thought it was women who did that with scarves.

HundredthIdiot

4,477 posts

315 months

Monday 19th January 2009
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Women do this with scarves.

Men do without, or use a slip-knot.

fathomfive

11,250 posts

221 months

Monday 19th January 2009
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Or you could just do your coat all the way up. wink

trumpet600

3,527 posts

262 months

Monday 19th January 2009
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things to worry about......

15th Jan - GB's ideas on how to cripple the country further
16th Jan - Gaza ceasefire
17th Jan - weekend, how much to drink
18th Jan - weekend, how much to drink
19th Jan - how shall I knot my scarf?
20th Jan - US pesident inaugaration (sp) how will the new prezy affect the UK?




Edited by trumpet600 on Monday 19th January 09:45

changingman

672 posts

215 months

Monday 19th January 2009
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The only scarf etiquette I'm aware of is don't wear it in the away end!!!!!

beanbag

7,346 posts

272 months

Monday 19th January 2009
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Is your OH another man? rolleyes

JJCW

2,449 posts

217 months

Monday 19th January 2009
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Gayest thread ever

VetteG

3,236 posts

275 months

Monday 19th January 2009
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Sounds like the OP is unsure of his sexuality!laugh

G

Buzz word

2,028 posts

240 months

Monday 19th January 2009
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I bought a scarf recently and faced the same dilema and wondered the exact same thing. On asking I was suggested the same knot. I even googled how I was supposed to wear it. I found that that style is called a european loop but there seems to be no mention of orientation.

There are more important things to worry about for sure but if you took the approach to only asking questions about the big stuff it would be an odd world. Imagine a news reader with a scarf tied round his head in a rambo style running vox pops because its inaugeration day dontcha know! I bet he would wish hed asked.

john_r

8,354 posts

302 months

Monday 19th January 2009
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Buzz word said:
I bought a scarf recently and faced the same dilema and wondered the exact same thing. On asking I was suggested the same knot. I even googled how I was supposed to wear it. I found that that style is called a european loop but there seems to be no mention of orientation.

There are more important things to worry about for sure but if you took the approach to only asking questions about the big stuff it would be an odd world. Imagine a news reader with a scarf tied round his head in a rambo style running vox pops because its inaugeration day dontcha know! I bet he would wish hed asked.
rofl

loser