Turning to religion
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YoungTom

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176 posts

216 months

Sunday 25th January 2009
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Just wondered if anybody had turned to religion to help sort their troubles ? Currently in a rather large hole and i would prefer this to drink ...

Snake the Sniper

2,544 posts

230 months

Sunday 25th January 2009
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Given that I think it's all a load of nonsense, I'm afraid I wouldn't be able to. Although I can see how in tough times it could help. Do you have any close friends you can talk to about your problems?

OllieWinchester

5,700 posts

221 months

Sunday 25th January 2009
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TBH I personally would have to be very desperate to see that as some sort of option.

deevlash

10,442 posts

266 months

Sunday 25th January 2009
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Wouldnt a ladder be better?

Puggit

49,789 posts

277 months

Sunday 25th January 2009
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nono

Invisible friends don't fix problems, but nor does booze!

deevlash

10,442 posts

266 months

Sunday 25th January 2009
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join us, you too can be touched by his noodly appendage

Fittster

20,120 posts

242 months

Sunday 25th January 2009
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So which religion are you going to pick? I think I'd go for voodoo

Fittster

20,120 posts

242 months

Sunday 25th January 2009
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Puggit said:
nono

Invisible friends don't fix problems, but nor does booze!
However Catholics get both, can't be bad.

TheEnd

15,370 posts

217 months

Sunday 25th January 2009
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Although as an atheist i'd say no, i can see where the guidance and advice might be good, but i don't think sitting around praying will cure your problems.
There is the CAB for most of the usual stuff, you aren't the first person to be having a tough time so there is help and understanding about for anything

HarryW

16,013 posts

298 months

Sunday 25th January 2009
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Nothing wrong with a one to one chat with your local priest if that is what's needed imho. They were offering the emotional crutch long before social workers and 'trick cyclists' were invented and they are much better at it.





(unless its an old school 'fire and brimstone' priest in which case what's your poison he'll join you hehe.)

wadgebeast

3,856 posts

240 months

Sunday 25th January 2009
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Booze is probably less damaging to your health and long term happiness than church.

use your friends / family and talk things through with. The right friend will do all the do=gooders in the church will, but without the ulterior motives.

deevlash

10,442 posts

266 months

Sunday 25th January 2009
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church of the flying spaghetti monster!
http://www.venganza.org/

Glassman

24,931 posts

244 months

Sunday 25th January 2009
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Puggit said:
Invisible friends don't fix problems
clap

Steamer

14,173 posts

242 months

Sunday 25th January 2009
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When the proverbial has hit the fan I might have been known to mutter the odd quiet word to 'the big man' (who or whatever 'the big man' might be I'm still not sure).

But I can also tell you I don't really feel the need to go to a freezing cold church on a Sunday morn to do that!

Ordinary Bloke

4,559 posts

227 months

Sunday 25th January 2009
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deevlash said:
Wouldnt a ladder be better?
He's right you know! But once you have a ladder, why not try religion. It's been around for a while, many people find it useful, give it a go. Nothing to lose, unless you're thinking of joining a sect...

Good friends are sometimes not the right people, because they know you (or think they do). When you're deep in it, the advice of strangers can sometimes be the most useful.

Or you could tell all of PH about your problems and get ripped to shreds in public wink

deevlash

10,442 posts

266 months

Sunday 25th January 2009
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Ordinary Bloke said:
deevlash said:
Wouldnt a ladder be better?
He's right you know! But once you have a ladder, why not try religion. It's been around for a while, many people find it useful, give it a go. Nothing to lose, unless you're thinking of joining a sect...

Good friends are sometimes not the right people, because they know you (or think they do). When you're deep in it, the advice of strangers can sometimes be the most useful.

Or you could tell all of PH about your problems and get ripped to shreds in public wink
you reckon he blew a few grand on strippers?

allnighter

6,663 posts

251 months

Sunday 25th January 2009
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YoungTom said:
Just wondered if anybody had turned to religion to help sort their troubles ? Currently in a rather large hole and i would prefer this to drink ...
If religion helps you in times of trouble, go for it!
If counselling helps, go for it!
If posting on PH helps, read on!
If going for a run early in the morning helps, do it!
Whatever you do , stay off the booze.

Ordinary Bloke

4,559 posts

227 months

Sunday 25th January 2009
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deevlash said:
Ordinary Bloke said:
deevlash said:
Wouldnt a ladder be better?
He's right you know! But once you have a ladder, why not try religion. It's been around for a while, many people find it useful, give it a go. Nothing to lose, unless you're thinking of joining a sect...

Good friends are sometimes not the right people, because they know you (or think they do). When you're deep in it, the advice of strangers can sometimes be the most useful.

Or you could tell all of PH about your problems and get ripped to shreds in public wink
you reckon he blew a few grand on strippers?
Either that, or he left a big banner in the bedroom around Christmastime...

deevlash

10,442 posts

266 months

Sunday 25th January 2009
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Ordinary Bloke said:
deevlash said:
Ordinary Bloke said:
deevlash said:
Wouldnt a ladder be better?
He's right you know! But once you have a ladder, why not try religion. It's been around for a while, many people find it useful, give it a go. Nothing to lose, unless you're thinking of joining a sect...

Good friends are sometimes not the right people, because they know you (or think they do). When you're deep in it, the advice of strangers can sometimes be the most useful.

Or you could tell all of PH about your problems and get ripped to shreds in public wink
you reckon he blew a few grand on strippers?
Either that, or he left a big banner in the bedroom around Christmastime...
or peed in the kettle again...

Penny-lope

13,645 posts

222 months

Sunday 25th January 2009
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Ordinary Bloke said:
Good friends are sometimes not the right people, because they know you (or think they do). When you're deep in it, the advice of strangers can sometimes be the most useful.
Talk to your doctor...he/she may be able to suggest a counselling service where you can talk to someone about your worries/troubles/thoughts.

I never thought it would help...but talking to a stranger means they only know what you want them to know. They can also be very honest, and say things as they see it (ie another point of view)....something your family and friends sometimes can't do. I've have had several sessions, and it does help to clear your head (for a short time anyway)

Edited by Penny-lope on Sunday 25th January 22:56