Ties
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AndrewTait

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1,849 posts

223 months

Thursday 29th January 2009
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I am in my mid 30's, so don't consider myself to be old, but have noticed something over the last few months, which suprises me.

First of all, a few months ago I went to a Christening of a friends baby. Held at the local Catholic church, and the majority of blokes were wearing suits, and smart shirts, but no ties. Ok, I accept that most of these said blokes were in their late 20's, and that they may have been dressed more for the party afterwards, than for the actual church service.

However, earlier this week, I attended the funeral of a friend, and found again, the majority of blokes were not wearing ties. This time, even those 60+ were sans tie.

Now, as I've said, I don't consider myself old, but have been brought up to believe that on formal occations such as weddings, christenings and funerals, a tie is a must.

I also conceed that a large number of companies are not as strict on the wearing of ties with suits at work these days, which again, I would never entertain, unless there is a health and safety reason, or a uniform which does not warrant the wearing of a tie (company polo shirts for instance).

If this is becoming a trend, why do we not hear of the tie industry suffering due to changes in fashion in the same way we hear about the nylon industry suffering due to women wearing trousers more than skirts.

So over to you, what are your thoughts on the wearing or otherwise of ties.

ipwn

2,920 posts

220 months

Thursday 29th January 2009
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IMO, if you want to be taken seriously, wear a tie. Car salesman do the whole no tie thing imo.

Simond001

4,519 posts

306 months

Thursday 29th January 2009
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I stopped wearing a tie about 5 years ago. Hasnt affected my business, although I was told (by mother) to wear one to my nieces christening.

These footballers wearing ties with knots the size of their wives implantys kinda killed the tie as far as smart workwear, and made it an Essex fashion statement.




GingerWizard

4,721 posts

227 months

Thursday 29th January 2009
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Only the Wimps and wkers take off their jackets and ties. Its a British institution. Keep them on and suffer. Its the only way. Even my bosses feel uneasy when they do it in my company. ( I have some pretty important bosses) I am but a scrubber mind...., but immaculatly dressed (unlike my spelling!)

Pferdestarke

7,192 posts

216 months

Thursday 29th January 2009
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Corporate nooses. And there's nothing worse when hung over than your top button and a tie!

Yack!

matc

4,736 posts

236 months

Thursday 29th January 2009
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ipwn said:
IMO, if you want to be taken seriously, wear a tie. Car salesman do the whole no tie thing imo.
OOOOOHHHHHH look...... another jibe at car salesmen, and the threads not even got the usual title of 'why are car salesmen all st/s/wkers etc. etc. etc.'!! Perhaps PH could start a clu-clux-clan style group against all car salesmen?? Seriously it does get a bit boring.... and no I'm not a salesman.

FWIW I've never seen any main dealer car salesman not wearing a tie....except on the odd promotional weekend.

ad551

1,502 posts

242 months

Thursday 29th January 2009
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Well, I'd wear a tie to a funeral. Weddings and Christenings - only if I was forced to.

I think ties are old-hat and stuffy these days. I understand in certain professions it is still expected, but I think a lot of companies these days only ask people to wear ties because they're clinging to the past.

captainzep

13,306 posts

221 months

Thursday 29th January 2009
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ipwn said:
IMO, if you want to be taken seriously, wear a tie.


Yeah.

Plotloss

67,280 posts

299 months

Thursday 29th January 2009
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anonymous said:
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Do you meet clients/have them in your office?

I'm largely a believer in formal situations require formal dress however I do think its taken too far in some office environments.

I appreciate that there is an argument that suggests there is a link between casual dress and a casual attitude but there are some very smart companies (in intellectual terms) that are casual from Director to Cleaner.

Plotloss

67,280 posts

299 months

Thursday 29th January 2009
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Oh sorry, my mistake, you must work in one of those rarefied commercial environments which exists without clients.

GingerWizard

4,721 posts

227 months

Thursday 29th January 2009
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anonymous said:
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And i think thats as it should be. If you go into a place of work and they are all dressed in open shirts, they are either all mugs or millionaires..... If it is the latter you should be in a tie; if the former then your about to unsettle them.... ergo... get what you want

AJS-

15,366 posts

265 months

Thursday 29th January 2009
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ipwn said:
IMO, if you want to be taken seriously, wear a tie. Car salesman do the whole no tie thing imo.
Definitely





Edited by AJS- on Thursday 29th January 00:55

AJS-

15,366 posts

265 months

Thursday 29th January 2009
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Seriously though, some people do, some people don't. It's knot something I'd worry about.

mitzy

13,858 posts

226 months

Thursday 29th January 2009
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anonymous said:
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Them stars must clash with your tie.

mybrainhurts

90,809 posts

284 months

Thursday 29th January 2009
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AJS- said:
Seriously though, some people do, some people don't. It's knot something I'd worry about.
Pull yourself together, man, and stand up straight....

drivin_me_nuts

17,949 posts

240 months

Thursday 29th January 2009
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matc said:
ipwn said:
IMO, if you want to be taken seriously, wear a tie. Car salesman do the whole no tie thing imo.
OOOOOHHHHHH look...... another jibe at car salesmen, and the threads not even got the usual title of 'why are car salesmen all st/s/wkers etc. etc. etc.'!! Perhaps PH could start a clu-clux-clan style group against all car salesmen?? Seriously it does get a bit boring.... and no I'm not a salesman.

FWIW I've never seen any main dealer car salesman not wearing a tie....except on the odd promotional weekend.
For the record it's KKK not CCC, but a reasonable rant never the less and in part somewhat true.


kenny Chim 4

1,604 posts

287 months

Thursday 29th January 2009
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In December 2007, I read that John Lewis reported a 17% increase in neck tie sales. This manifested itself in the south east (ie London) but gave a clue as to what was about to happen in the city environment as employees tried their best to weather the coming storm that, to them, seemed (was} inevitable.

okgo

42,075 posts

227 months

Thursday 29th January 2009
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In most working atmospheres I find them pointless, and of late devalued.

I used to have to wear a full suit and tie to work each day, no biggie, I didn't mind, keep it tasteful and its fine. Now I am expected just to wear a shirt and suit trousers its great.

jnm23

2,894 posts

217 months

Thursday 29th January 2009
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In the mid 90s dotcoms took off and they tended to be quite casual is terms of dress code.

The banks and (especially) management consultancies decided to copy the trendy dotcoms, so they brought in dress down; polo shirts and slacks. I guess they were matching what a lot of their new clients wore.

Then in the mid-00s hedge funds were the trendy thing, so banks went back to smart: suits and ties. Most hedge funds based in Mayfair y'see.

Edited by jnm23 on Thursday 29th January 01:15

AJS-

15,366 posts

265 months

Thursday 29th January 2009
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mybrainhurts said:
AJS- said:
Seriously though, some people do, some people don't. It's knot something I'd worry about.
Pull yourself together, man, and stand up straight....
Ah I didn't manage to get the puns flowing. Oh well, you windsor you lose some I guess.