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randomman

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2,215 posts

218 months

Thursday 12th February 2009
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Bit of background. Girlfriend's sister likes attracting attention/sympathy. So she posted up a load of rubbish on a social networking site about how her sis (my GF) had let her down.

I was having a bad day up to that point, and perhaps I should have let it slide, but I didn't. I commented on her petulance. Unfortunatley the little sis has spent the last week spouting rubbish about ME to her parents. I wasn't fussed, until I realised there were actually taking it seriously! Now they hate me and wont even grace me with a hello - so god knows what she's beeing saying. Also they seem to be holding it againt the GF now as well.

Unfortunately my GF is cooking for me tonight and I'm currently round their house. I'm 22 this month FFS I just want to go downstairs and palm em, ut that would upset the GF (probably)

So does anyone have adivce for keeping calm in awkward situations?


skip_1

3,514 posts

219 months

Thursday 12th February 2009
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Ask the little sis outright infront of her parents why she is spreading lies and rumours about her sis and yourself?

hornetrider

63,161 posts

234 months

Thursday 12th February 2009
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My advice is to stop bleating on the internet in your mrs' house, grow a pair, get down there and sort them out

Papoo

3,974 posts

227 months

Thursday 12th February 2009
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randomman said:
Bit of background. Girlfriend's sister likes attracting attention/sympathy. So she posted up a load of rubbish on a social networking site about how her sis (my GF) had let her down.

I was having a bad day up to that point, and perhaps I should have let it slide, but I didn't. I commented on her petulance. Unfortunatley the little sis has spent the last week spouting rubbish about ME to her parents. I wasn't fussed, until I realised there were actually taking it seriously! Now they hate me and wont even grace me with a hello - so god knows what she's beeing saying. Also they seem to be holding it againt the GF now as well.

Unfortunately my GF is cooking for me tonight and I'm currently round their house. I'm 22 this month FFS I just want to go downstairs and palm em, ut that would upset the GF (probably)

So does anyone have adivce for keeping calm in awkward situations?
Punch her in the face. Or just marry into a better class of people.

okgo

42,071 posts

227 months

Thursday 12th February 2009
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Get your own place, forget the rest.

mik.ross

254 posts

224 months

Thursday 12th February 2009
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skip_1 said:
Ask the little sis outright infront of her parents why she is spreading lies and rumours about her sis and yourself?
What he said.

I am near 39 and still get this st from the OH younger sis outlaws.

mcflurry

9,188 posts

282 months

Thursday 12th February 2009
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You can't please 100% of the people 100% of the time. If she doesn't like you then c'est la vie smile
(or she secretly fancies you for herself)

C8PPO

20,836 posts

232 months

Thursday 12th February 2009
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Didn't know trailers had an "upstairs"?

bigandclever

14,334 posts

267 months

Thursday 12th February 2009
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Look, your girlfriend's parents hated you anyway, you're doinking their daughter. Now, apparently, there's another reason. Whoop-de-do.

Papoo

3,974 posts

227 months

Thursday 12th February 2009
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C8PPO said:
Didn't know trailers had an "upstairs"?
hehe

Wait for the engagement party, and invite the Rooneys.

Chris_w666

22,655 posts

228 months

Thursday 12th February 2009
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I suggest that you get your OH drunk then when she passes out give the sis a good seeing to. That will perk her up and you get your cake and eat it.

Romanymagic

3,298 posts

248 months

Thursday 12th February 2009
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Is it as warm as people make out?

Chairman LMAO

666 posts

224 months

Thursday 12th February 2009
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Papoo said:
randomman said:
Bit of background. Girlfriend's sister likes attracting attention/sympathy. So she posted up a load of rubbish on a social networking site about how her sis (my GF) had let her down.

I was having a bad day up to that point, and perhaps I should have let it slide, but I didn't. I commented on her petulance. Unfortunatley the little sis has spent the last week spouting rubbish about ME to her parents. I wasn't fussed, until I realised there were actually taking it seriously! Now they hate me and wont even grace me with a hello - so god knows what she's beeing saying. Also they seem to be holding it againt the GF now as well.

Unfortunately my GF is cooking for me tonight and I'm currently round their house. I'm 22 this month FFS I just want to go downstairs and palm em, ut that would upset the GF (probably)

So does anyone have adivce for keeping calm in awkward situations?
Punch her in the face. Or just marry into a better class of people.
rofl just spat out my tea...

Steamer

14,172 posts

242 months

Thursday 12th February 2009
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randomman said:
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So does anyone have adivce for keeping calm in awkward situations?
Chill - its half term next week.

Papoo

3,974 posts

227 months

Thursday 12th February 2009
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Chairman LMAO said:
Papoo said:
randomman said:
Bit of background. Girlfriend's sister likes attracting attention/sympathy. So she posted up a load of rubbish on a social networking site about how her sis (my GF) had let her down.

I was having a bad day up to that point, and perhaps I should have let it slide, but I didn't. I commented on her petulance. Unfortunatley the little sis has spent the last week spouting rubbish about ME to her parents. I wasn't fussed, until I realised there were actually taking it seriously! Now they hate me and wont even grace me with a hello - so god knows what she's beeing saying. Also they seem to be holding it againt the GF now as well.

Unfortunately my GF is cooking for me tonight and I'm currently round their house. I'm 22 this month FFS I just want to go downstairs and palm em, ut that would upset the GF (probably)

So does anyone have adivce for keeping calm in awkward situations?
Punch her in the face. Or just marry into a better class of people.
rofl just spat out my tea...
You're too kind.

That said, how about taking over a couple of bottles to the family as a peace offering?


Or seek professional help. Take her family, along with an audit trail of paternity testing, fake marriage certificates and council housing affidavits to this man. I hear he is the TOP GUN of lower class matrimonial dispute:


Edited by Papoo on Thursday 12th February 21:46

mitzy

13,858 posts

226 months

Thursday 12th February 2009
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No happy ending in Chav Land

Next!


Romanymagic

3,298 posts

248 months

Thursday 12th February 2009
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Steamer said:
Chill - its half term next week.
Yay less traffic on the morning commute!

randomman

Original Poster:

2,215 posts

218 months

Thursday 12th February 2009
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Well that was interesting...

Been ages since I had a good argument! And the best part about it is that it wasn't with my parents! Probably a few things I shouldn't have said, probably a few more things I should. But one thing is for certain, they've backed down from the GF now, which is all I ever wanted in to first place.

Pistonheads - Family matters

rich1231

17,340 posts

289 months

Thursday 12th February 2009
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PH - emotional crutch to the perfect tards matters

Papoo

3,974 posts

227 months

Thursday 12th February 2009
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rich1231 said:
PH - emotional crutch to the perfect tards matters
Don't pretend you weren't once in his shoes, before going to see Jeremy.