Baby won't eat!
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miniman

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29,993 posts

291 months

Monday 16th February 2009
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Plenty of PH parents around, hopefully one of you will have come across this and can offer some advice; our daughter (9 months) is getting increasingly picky about food. A few weeks ago, she would scoff down pretty much anything. This week, she will only eat sweet things. She has learnt the "swap over the spoons" manouver and just gobs out anything she doesn't like. She has plenty of energy, sleeps 7pm - 8am, and is drinking ok. Any ideas? I figure she is too young for the tough love approach.

eldar

25,240 posts

225 months

Monday 16th February 2009
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miniman said:
Plenty of PH parents around, hopefully one of you will have come across this and can offer some advice; our daughter (9 months) is getting increasingly picky about food. A few weeks ago, she would scoff down pretty much anything. This week, she will only eat sweet things. She has learnt the "swap over the spoons" manouver and just gobs out anything she doesn't like. She has plenty of energy, sleeps 7pm - 8am, and is drinking ok. Any ideas? I figure she is too young for the tough love approach.
If she is hungry she will eat... assuming she is healthy. Part of a power struggle, and you really don't want to lose!

juice

9,855 posts

311 months

Monday 16th February 2009
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Bacon Sandwich ? No one can resist a Bacon Sandwich...

mechsympathy

58,535 posts

284 months

Monday 16th February 2009
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As long as she's drinking and not losing much weight I wouldn't worry. Minimechs occasionally does this and we just let him have as much as he wants and not force the issue (After initially trying to bribe him, but we figure you're just making a rod for your own back that way.)

miniman said:
sleeps 7pm - 8am
You lucky, lucky bd!

castrolcraig

18,073 posts

235 months

Monday 16th February 2009
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mechsympathy said:
miniman said:
sleeps 7pm - 8am
You lucky, lucky bd!
+1

anyway, its normal, mini cc is very picky and has been since around a yera old, shes now 4.


as long as they drink plenty your ok, as already said she will eat in fits and spurts.

miniman

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Monday 16th February 2009
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mechsympathy said:
miniman said:
sleeps 7pm - 8am
You lucky, lucky bd!
Sorry paperbag She has done since about 8 weeks paperbagpaperbag

Penny-lope

13,645 posts

222 months

Monday 16th February 2009
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Just stop giving her the sweet option, or just make sure it is always fruit.

But as long as she is still putting on weight, and seems bright and happy, then really is no need to worry.

My son went through phases of liking, and then hating certain food types, to only love them again 4 years on rolleyes

The important thing is to keep introducing new foods to her, as well as old favs...nothing worse than a child who will only eat smilies, beans, and angel delight (I work in a school, so I know sadly this is very common)

off_again

13,917 posts

263 months

Monday 16th February 2009
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eldar said:
If she is hungry she will eat... assuming she is healthy. Part of a power struggle, and you really don't want to lose!
Yep. 100% correct.

Currently, at around that age, its difficult to over eat. So its a case of filling up to the full level and then letting it drain out from there. As they get older, they get picky and start to try and dictate what to eat. Their appetite will vary widely and of course they want the sweet, sugary stuff since its full of energy. Stick to your guns and work from there - vary the diet as much as you can though, you might end up throwing away a lot of food, but its worth it in the long term.

mechsympathy

58,535 posts

284 months

Monday 16th February 2009
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miniman said:
mechsympathy said:
miniman said:
sleeps 7pm - 8am
You lucky, lucky bd!
Sorry paperbag She has done since about 8 weeks paperbagpaperbag
No worries, so did Minimechs but he's stopped recently for reasons we can't fathom. He's not unhappy, just awake at 5.30banghead

HRG

72,863 posts

268 months

Monday 16th February 2009
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eldar said:
miniman said:
Plenty of PH parents around, hopefully one of you will have come across this and can offer some advice; our daughter (9 months) is getting increasingly picky about food. A few weeks ago, she would scoff down pretty much anything. This week, she will only eat sweet things. She has learnt the "swap over the spoons" manouver and just gobs out anything she doesn't like. She has plenty of energy, sleeps 7pm - 8am, and is drinking ok. Any ideas? I figure she is too young for the tough love approach.
If she is hungry she will eat... assuming she is healthy. Part of a power struggle, and you really don't want to lose!
Absolutely... Kids seem to go on a three day cycle when it comes to eating.

If you are concerned, weigh her without letting on why and then keep an eye on her weight and make sure it stays within the scope of the usual charts. Unfortunately though it's what she needs. Drink is more important than food yes Keep her watered and she'll eat when she's properly hungry.

miniman

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291 months

Monday 16th February 2009
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Thanks all! beer