That's it, I'm at rock bottom
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Well, I lost my job at the end of September, haven't been able to find another since.
My 3 year old son is being moved away, meaning I shan't see him for up to three weeks at a time.
My fiancée has been ill on and off for 6 months, on huge amounts of drugs, and no one seems to know the root cause of her illness.
I am f
king skint in the extreme.
Just to put a cherry on top of this stinking turd, I was due to get married yesterday (Saturday) at coombe abbey in Coventry, but had to cancel due to the lack of finances and fiancée health.
All in all a st time all round, but at least one of us has our health I guess.
I have just spent quite literally my last ten pounds on 3 very lovely Morgan spiced & coke, based on the fact that a tenner is neither near nor there in the overall scheme of things, and the vain hope of getting more than the three hours sleep a night I have been getting for the last month.
Rant over.
At least I can only go one way from here I guess
My 3 year old son is being moved away, meaning I shan't see him for up to three weeks at a time.
My fiancée has been ill on and off for 6 months, on huge amounts of drugs, and no one seems to know the root cause of her illness.
I am f
king skint in the extreme.Just to put a cherry on top of this stinking turd, I was due to get married yesterday (Saturday) at coombe abbey in Coventry, but had to cancel due to the lack of finances and fiancée health.
All in all a s
t time all round, but at least one of us has our health I guess.I have just spent quite literally my last ten pounds on 3 very lovely Morgan spiced & coke, based on the fact that a tenner is neither near nor there in the overall scheme of things, and the vain hope of getting more than the three hours sleep a night I have been getting for the last month.
Rant over.
At least I can only go one way from here I guess
Ruskie said:
We should have a chat and compare st life top trumps....
Game on.t life top trumps....Number of properties to be reposessed: 1
Number of pounds in bank: 0
Number of children moving 200 miles away 1
Number of visits to dr for fiancée. 38
Weekly hours of sleep. 18-20
Weight loss in last 3 months. 4.5 stone
Over to you.....
TVR Moneypit said:
Pied Piper said:
Sheets Tabuer said:
Well when you are at the bottom the only way is up, everything from now will be good.
Trust me on this
He is quite right. Trust me on this
Had to change up all my pennys and some euros I found in an old wallet just to put petrol in the car to see my dying Dad.
It will get better.
To the OP you've hit the bottom now you will start bouncing back.
Emsman said:
Ruskie said:
We should have a chat and compare st life top trumps....
Game on.t life top trumps....Number of properties to be reposessed: 1
Number of pounds in bank: 0
Number of children moving 200 miles away 1
Number of visits to dr for fiancée. 38
Weekly hours of sleep. 18-20
Weight loss in last 3 months. 4.5 stone
Over to you.....
Still living: 1
Have a healthy life: 1
Ability to get on the net : 1
Ability to get over it: 1
Emsman said:
Ruskie said:
We should have a chat and compare st life top trumps....
Game on.t life top trumps....Number of properties to be reposessed: 1
Number of pounds in bank: 0
Number of children moving 200 miles away 1
Number of visits to dr for fiancée. 38
Weekly hours of sleep. 18-20
Weight loss in last 3 months. 4.5 stone
Over to you.....
Number of properties bought off plan which company has gone into admin - 1
Number of properties sold due to money owed to ex - 1
Moving back in with mum and dad after 8 years
Debts mounting monthly
Number of court cases pending to gain access to my daughter who lives 100 miles away - 1
Number of court cases pending to sort finaces out with ex -1
Cant match you on weight loss only 3/4 of a stone!!
I instantly thought of this song from your thread title: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zdXdsF08SWQ
Give it a play, it's chilled me out over the years when life gets sh*t.
Give it a play, it's chilled me out over the years when life gets sh*t.
HunchBack said:
I instantly thought of this song from your thread title: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zdXdsF08SWQ
Give it a play, it's chilled me out over the years when life gets sh*t.
Good call. Songs contains the truth.Give it a play, it's chilled me out over the years when life gets sh*t.
I had a fking horrific year last year. My dad died after a painful couple of years from cancer, even though in those couple of years his heart caused him almost as much trouble. My dog who has never been ill died a month or so later, from cancer. My mum has had cancer as well and now I have a lump so I am bricking it (not for the first time). I'm not doing much with my life, I do some IT work from home. I am intelligent enough to be doing much more, but I just can't be arsed.
That's the thing with life, unless you are extremely lucky, sometimes it is very very st. I now have another dog that could never replace Jasper but still makes me smile every time I see him. I have (and always have actually) some great friends and I know that if I just put my mind to it I can do a lot better. Sometimes it's worth just looking at the positives. As D:Ream said; Thiiiiiiiiiiings can only get bettteaaarr.
king horrific year last year. My dad died after a painful couple of years from cancer, even though in those couple of years his heart caused him almost as much trouble. My dog who has never been ill died a month or so later, from cancer. My mum has had cancer as well and now I have a lump so I am bricking it (not for the first time). I'm not doing much with my life, I do some IT work from home. I am intelligent enough to be doing much more, but I just can't be arsed. That's the thing with life, unless you are extremely lucky, sometimes it is very very s
t. I now have another dog that could never replace Jasper but still makes me smile every time I see him. I have (and always have actually) some great friends and I know that if I just put my mind to it I can do a lot better. Sometimes it's worth just looking at the positives. As D:Ream said; Thiiiiiiiiiiings can only get bettteaaarr.moleamol said:
I had a fking horrific year last year. My dad died after a painful couple of years from cancer, even though in those couple of years his heart caused him almost as much trouble. My dog who has never been ill died a month or so later, from cancer. My mum has had cancer as well and now I have a lump so I am bricking it (not for the first time). I'm not doing much with my life, I do some IT work from home. I am intelligent enough to be doing much more, but I just can't be arsed.
That's the thing with life, unless you are extremely lucky, sometimes it is very very st. I now have another dog that could never replace Jasper but still makes me smile every time I see him. I have (and always have actually) some great friends and I know that if I just put my mind to it I can do a lot better. Sometimes it's worth just looking at the positives. As D:Ream said; Thiiiiiiiiiiings can only get bettteaaarr.
Beautiful Integrale king horrific year last year. My dad died after a painful couple of years from cancer, even though in those couple of years his heart caused him almost as much trouble. My dog who has never been ill died a month or so later, from cancer. My mum has had cancer as well and now I have a lump so I am bricking it (not for the first time). I'm not doing much with my life, I do some IT work from home. I am intelligent enough to be doing much more, but I just can't be arsed. That's the thing with life, unless you are extremely lucky, sometimes it is very very s
t. I now have another dog that could never replace Jasper but still makes me smile every time I see him. I have (and always have actually) some great friends and I know that if I just put my mind to it I can do a lot better. Sometimes it's worth just looking at the positives. As D:Ream said; Thiiiiiiiiiiings can only get bettteaaarr.-Z- said:
moleamol said:
I had a fking horrific year last year. My dad died after a painful couple of years from cancer, even though in those couple of years his heart caused him almost as much trouble. My dog who has never been ill died a month or so later, from cancer. My mum has had cancer as well and now I have a lump so I am bricking it (not for the first time). I'm not doing much with my life, I do some IT work from home. I am intelligent enough to be doing much more, but I just can't be arsed.
That's the thing with life, unless you are extremely lucky, sometimes it is very very st. I now have another dog that could never replace Jasper but still makes me smile every time I see him. I have (and always have actually) some great friends and I know that if I just put my mind to it I can do a lot better. Sometimes it's worth just looking at the positives. As D:Ream said; Thiiiiiiiiiiings can only get bettteaaarr.
Beautiful Integrale king horrific year last year. My dad died after a painful couple of years from cancer, even though in those couple of years his heart caused him almost as much trouble. My dog who has never been ill died a month or so later, from cancer. My mum has had cancer as well and now I have a lump so I am bricking it (not for the first time). I'm not doing much with my life, I do some IT work from home. I am intelligent enough to be doing much more, but I just can't be arsed. That's the thing with life, unless you are extremely lucky, sometimes it is very very s
t. I now have another dog that could never replace Jasper but still makes me smile every time I see him. I have (and always have actually) some great friends and I know that if I just put my mind to it I can do a lot better. Sometimes it's worth just looking at the positives. As D:Ream said; Thiiiiiiiiiiings can only get bettteaaarr.
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