Would you tell your boss you've got an interview?
Would you tell your boss you've got an interview?
Author
Discussion

paulm1979

Original Poster:

7 posts

192 months

Tuesday 24th May 2011
quotequote all
I'm a contractor at the moment and have been looking for a new job recently. I've got an interview soon and I have no idea whether to tell my boss. I get on well with him and he's apparently looking to get me a proper role with the company, but I'm not confident he can pull that off. I'm not well paid at all and don't consider that I'm in a position that's at all stable, although the role I'm in is pretty vital.

So, is the done thing to tell a boss you're looking for other work or keep it quiet until you have a firm job offer?

Marf

22,907 posts

269 months

Tuesday 24th May 2011
quotequote all
I'd do nothing until I had a letter confirming my acceptance of a new role.

thetapeworm

13,695 posts

267 months

Tuesday 24th May 2011
quotequote all

I suspect only you have enough knowledge of your relationship with him to answer this properly but from my own point of view I'd probably have that chat with him and pretty much say exactly what you've said here.

Ultimately most of us work in the hope it pays the bills and offers an element of security, if we can enjoy it a little at the same time then that's a bonus - you have to do what's best for you, just make sure the boss understands this.

MEATANDCHEESE

409 posts

195 months

Tuesday 24th May 2011
quotequote all
No, FFS No.yikes

Olivera

8,698 posts

267 months

Tuesday 24th May 2011
quotequote all
Are you mid contract or coming to the end of your term? If the former I'd keep quiet as you'll need to negotiate your way out, if the latter why should your employer care as it's obvious you'll be looking for work?

944fan

4,962 posts

213 months

Tuesday 24th May 2011
quotequote all
MEATANDCHEESE said:
No, FFS No.yikes
This. Nothing good can come of telling him. Dont mention anything until you have firm offer and are ready to resign.

Carrot

7,294 posts

230 months

Tuesday 24th May 2011
quotequote all
944fan said:
MEATANDCHEESE said:
No, FFS No.yikes
This. Nothing good can come of telling him. Dont mention anything until you have firm offer and are ready to resign.
yes

It is amazing how quickly a good relationship changes if one party feels let down by the other.

oldcynic

2,166 posts

189 months

Tuesday 24th May 2011
quotequote all
I would see how the interview goes. I'm in a very similar position and had to admit I was looking after the second interview as the notice period was going to give me problems with getting a particular job. Of course I negotiated down on my notice period and have heard nothing back from the interview 3 weeks ago.

I've now been given 6 weeks notice, although that was pretty much inevitable anyway given that the work I do has all but disappeared.

Sheets Tabuer

21,296 posts

243 months

Tuesday 24th May 2011
quotequote all
Telling your boss you have an interview is in many ways like telling the wife you've just had a blow job behind the pub hehe

paulm1979

Original Poster:

7 posts

192 months

Tuesday 24th May 2011
quotequote all
I think it's beginning to look like I won't be telling him...

gareth.e

2,071 posts

217 months

Tuesday 24th May 2011
quotequote all
Sheets Tabuer said:
Telling your boss you have an interview is in many ways like telling the wife you've just had a blow job behind the pub hehe
hehe

pretty much this.. It can only end badly

ChairsWithHairs

24,125 posts

222 months

Tuesday 24th May 2011
quotequote all
If you hire contractors, you should be prepared to replace them quickly if necessary. I was in exactly this situation and said nothing until I had the signed offer. Past experience was that the "budget" for a role I had even been verbally offered fell through.

I offered to work a reasonable notice above required of me, and actively helped recruit a replacement- I think this approach is fair enough, especially as I could have had my contract terminated within a week.

thetapeworm

13,695 posts

267 months

Tuesday 24th May 2011
quotequote all
paulm1979 said:
I think it's beginning to look like I won't be telling him...
Indeed and I think I might have learnt a lesson too smile

Rude-boy

22,227 posts

261 months

Wednesday 25th May 2011
quotequote all
No.

No.

No.

In the nicest possible way the first inkling your boss would get is when you take a couple of short notice holiday days or similar and then call for a quick chat once you have made up your mind you are accepting a position elsewhere.

Contract workers might apply different rules as it could be part of negotiation for an extension.

Little good comes telling them any earlier and in the unlikely event you gain Brownie points or get made an offer you can't refuse to stay on a question will always be exist over your commitment to your employer.

944fan

4,962 posts

213 months

Wednesday 25th May 2011
quotequote all
I worked for someone once who was a bit of a nutter. Someone told him they were going for an interview. He went mental and started digging for reasons to fire the person. Found a reason in the end and fired them.

Stu R

21,605 posts

243 months

Wednesday 25th May 2011
quotequote all
Just to confirm what others have said, HELL NO!


bigandclever

14,322 posts

266 months

Wednesday 25th May 2011
quotequote all
paulm1979 said:
I'm a contractor at the moment and have been looking for a new job recently. I've got an interview soon and I have no idea whether to tell my boss. I get on well with him and he's apparently looking to get me a proper role with the company, but I'm not confident he can pull that off. I'm not well paid at all and don't consider that I'm in a position that's at all stable, although the role I'm in is pretty vital.

So, is the done thing to tell a boss you're looking for other work or keep it quiet until you have a firm job offer?
Are you actually a contractor or are you a pseudo-permy?

russ_a

4,720 posts

239 months

Wednesday 25th May 2011
quotequote all
I'm a permie and have a couple of interviews lined up. I was thinking of telling my boss tomorrow and why I was looking to leave..

The hope being a better role is offered without having the ball ache of all the interviews first!

Mattt

16,664 posts

246 months

Wednesday 25th May 2011
quotequote all
russ_a said:
I'm a permie and have a couple of interviews lined up. I was thinking of telling my boss tomorrow and why I was looking to leave..

The hope being a better role is offered without having the ball ache of all the interviews first!
Interesting way to play it, not the way I'd go personally.

Mr POD

5,153 posts

220 months

Wednesday 25th May 2011
quotequote all
I'm contracting and my boss keeps suggesting going permanent, and that fact alone is enough to make me start looking to move sooner rather than later.

But anyway, I had an approach from an agency about a contract in a different division of the same company about a mile away but on 'considerably' more than my current rate. Given that the hiring manager is bound to contact my current hiring manager, I'm not even going there. When my contract is up for renewal in 2 months, and I've got a written contract ready to sign. Then I'll get out the job spec that includes the rate and suggest a rate increase. In the meantime I'm now telling any agency that contacts me that I'm looking for the higher of the 2 rates, and they go all quiet, so I suspect that there's an agency battle going on.