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JamesNotJim

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755 posts

215 months

Monday 15th April 2013
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One of my colleagues has had a request from a new member of management that seems very petty.

Said colleague always wears a beanie hat. He doesn't look like the great unwashed, fairly well presented but not a trendy in any way. He has 5+ years service in his role, never had any issue, performs in his job very well and hasn't unsettled the boat in anyway.

This week he's had a request from a new operations manager to remove his hat whenever he is in the building and when he goes into meetings with clients to remove his piercing's (a couple of very inoffensive spacer earrings).
This request was first aimed at his line manager (who is technical MD of the company) who just laughed it away, the new OPs manager is now going directly at the employee with this request.

Is our employer aloud to demand this? He's not up for rocking the boat but we are unsure if he needs to comply with such demands.

2 sMoKiN bArReLs

32,000 posts

264 months

Monday 15th April 2013
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Grey area, any mention of dress code in contract of employment?

crazy about cars

4,454 posts

198 months

Monday 15th April 2013
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How can a manager make a request to a MD? Something smells fishy here.

Depending on the role I certainly would not like my client facing staff to interact with clients with spacer ear rings and a beanie hat.

JamesNotJim

Original Poster:

755 posts

215 months

Monday 15th April 2013
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crazy about cars said:
How can a manager make a request to a MD? Something smells fishy here.

Depending on the role I certainly would not like my client facing staff to interact with clients with spacer ear rings and a beanie hat.
That was my first thought. Why try to go around the department MD and straight at the employee.

It is a client facing role, but only to other technical peeps at the clients company.

The new Op's manager has ruffled alot of feathers... I mean a lot. 4 Employees with 20+years service and a handful of others are leaving at the end of the month because of how this new manager is going about his work. (One of them employees being myself)

I will consult the employees hand book tomorrow with regards to company policy. I will be amazed if there is anything regarding clothing. It's not that sort of company. (No uniforms or ties.... unless you're a Op's manager or Finical director with you head up your arse)

STW2010

5,918 posts

191 months

Monday 15th April 2013
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JamesNotJim said:
It is a client facing role, but only to other technical peeps at the clients company.
I agree with the operations manager then. Wearing a beanie hat to meetings with anyone outside of the company just looks unprofessional.

T1547

1,239 posts

163 months

Tuesday 16th April 2013
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He's being paid by the company to represent them - why wouldn't he comply with what seems like a very reasonable request?

Wills2

29,517 posts

204 months

Tuesday 16th April 2013
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I've always thought wearing a hat inside is bad manners.

Ear rings? Well as long as they're not to offensive.



Edited by Wills2 on Wednesday 17th April 12:19

Gargamel

16,349 posts

290 months

Wednesday 17th April 2013
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If the company was happy with his appearence in years 1-5 of his service, then it is unreasonable for them to complain now.

If they bring in a new dress code policy of course, then that might be different.


Odie

4,187 posts

211 months

Wednesday 17th April 2013
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Surely it depends on the type of business and your colleagues role within it.

crazy about cars

4,454 posts

198 months

Wednesday 17th April 2013
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Wills2 said:
Ear rings? Well as long as they're not to offensive.


Edited by Wills2 on Wednesday 17th April 12:19
I think OP meant ear spacers ?



andy-xr

13,204 posts

233 months

Wednesday 17th April 2013
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Personally, wouldnt care - I've taken techies to meetings who've been wearing shorts and Docs. We met with CTOs and senior managers of tech companies. No-one batted an eyelid, didnt lose any business over it. I'd rather have a slightly weird techie who was awesome at their job than someone ste who wore a collar and tie and yesman'd all the time

Wills2

29,517 posts

204 months

Wednesday 17th April 2013
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crazy about cars said:
Wills2 said:
Ear rings? Well as long as they're not to offensive.


Edited by Wills2 on Wednesday 17th April 12:19
I think OP meant ear spacers ?

redcard

Wills2

29,517 posts

204 months

Wednesday 17th April 2013
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andy-xr said:
Personally, wouldnt care - I've taken techies to meetings who've been wearing shorts and Docs. We met with CTOs and senior managers of tech companies. No-one batted an eyelid, didnt lose any business over it. I'd rather have a slightly weird techie who was awesome at their job than someone ste who wore a collar and tie and yesman'd all the time
Joking aside, yes this is correct.

Results matter.

menguin

3,781 posts

250 months

Wednesday 17th April 2013
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Wills2 said:
redcard
You'd prefer them taken out? biggrin

Cyberprog

2,323 posts

212 months

Wednesday 17th April 2013
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IMHO it would be acceptable to ask the beanie hat to go, but not the piercings.

JamesNotJim

Original Poster:

755 posts

215 months

Wednesday 17th April 2013
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Pretty much what I've had with everyone I've spoke to about this, seems to be a real split in opinion.
The guy still wears a shirt, trousers and smart shoes. As I said, he isn't the great unwashed. His earring spacers are very small (5p size with a very small hole).

I've consulted the company handbook. There is very little towards dress code outside our site lads (Boots and Hi-vis clothing bla bla bla). Company wide there is no dress code for office staff, but people still dress smart. (apart from dress down fridays).

Just seem like to me it's the new OPs manager trying to force his own opinion onto every department.

odyssey2200

18,650 posts

238 months

Wednesday 17th April 2013
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Wills2 said:
I've always thought wearing a hat inside is bad manners.
yes

STW2010

5,918 posts

191 months

Wednesday 17th April 2013
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JamesNotJim said:
The guy still wears a shirt, trousers and smart shoes.
Yet wears a beanie hat at all times? Perhaps the new manager is taking a more polite approach than simply telling this guy that he looks like a tt.

Office staff often don't have a dress code. But office-dress is widely accepted to be shirt, trousers and shoes. Ties and suit jackets depending on the place, but a fking beanie hat????

z4chris99

12,515 posts

208 months

Wednesday 17th April 2013
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weird ear thinggys and a hat inside.....

the ear things are plain stupid

and the hat inside is rude


2 sMoKiN bArReLs

32,000 posts

264 months

Wednesday 17th April 2013
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z4chris99 said:
weird ear thinggys and a hat inside.....

the ear things are plain stupid

and the hat inside is rude
yeshehe