Protocol for disciple for behaviour outside of work?
Protocol for disciple for behaviour outside of work?
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Z064life

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1,926 posts

277 months

Wednesday 1st February 2017
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Hi All,

I have a friend who was involved in an argument with an acquaintance on Facebook. A single "nasty, derogatory remark" was exchanged by my friend and said recipient said he has emailed HR of my friend's employer.

The company's name or reputation was not involved in this, nor was the use of Facebook on a work machine for either person and the "friend" is not from within the same company.

My understanding is that the above circumstances can lead to no trouble at work as there's no link to work. Thoughts?

Rich1973

1,277 posts

206 months

Wednesday 1st February 2017
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My thought is that the recipient deserves to be very lonely.

MitchT

17,114 posts

238 months

Wednesday 1st February 2017
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Sounds like the "victim" needs to get out a bit more. The most I could be bothered to do on the receiving end of a "single, derogatory comment" on Facebook would be to unfriend and block the perpetrator.

Z064life

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1,926 posts

277 months

Wednesday 1st February 2017
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I wholely agree. I believe there is an element of bluffing involved too but you can never be too sure.

Friend works for a large company so any HR action would follow a proper procedure and comply to law (if there's even a law for a case like this! It's hardly harrassment or misconduct?).

zeDuffMan

4,312 posts

180 months

Wednesday 1st February 2017
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Depends on the work really.

For example, I work in the NHS, which has strict rules on social media. If you work in the public sector in a professional role registered to a regulatory body, and you can be identified hurling abuse on Facebook, you can be pulled up on it through work and/or through the professional body for bringing the department/profession into disrepute. It doesn't matter if the 'victim' is a colleague or a complete stranger, or whether it happens on a work computer - if you are identifiable then that's all the excuse they need to give you the gooner.

I think private companies would tend to only step in if you're making the business look bad. But social media is still fairly new and if your friend has an idiot manager/overbearing HR they could take it as far as they like.

If the company doesn't currently have a social media policy they will probably be drafting one up very shortly.

WinstonWolf

72,863 posts

268 months

Wednesday 1st February 2017
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Z064life said:
Hi All,

I have a friend who was involved in an argument with an acquaintance on Facebook. A single "nasty, derogatory remark" was exchanged by my friend and said recipient said he has emailed HR of my friend's employer.

The company's name or reputation was not involved in this, nor was the use of Facebook on a work machine for either person and the "friend" is not from within the same company.

My understanding is that the above circumstances can lead to no trouble at work as there's no link to work. Thoughts?
Thoughts? The complainant is a right tt.

mybrainhurts

90,809 posts

284 months

Wednesday 1st February 2017
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WinstonWolf said:
Thoughts? The complainant is a right tt.
Foo Hoo, that's you done for...

Ballistic email on its way...hehe

mybrainhurts

90,809 posts

284 months

Wednesday 1st February 2017
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Z064life said:
Protocol for disciple for behaviour outside of work?
I've asked the god botherer next door and she says Jesus expects loyalty for life, not just for Christmas...

HTH

WinstonWolf

72,863 posts

268 months

Wednesday 1st February 2017
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mybrainhurts said:
WinstonWolf said:
Thoughts? The complainant is a right tt.
Foo Hoo, that's you done for...

Ballistic email on its way...hehe
He wouldn't get far on my FB, there's never a day goes by without someone or other dropping the C bomb biggrin

Z064life

Original Poster:

1,926 posts

277 months

Wednesday 1st February 2017
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Thanks for the advice all.

zeDuffMan said:
Depends on the work really.

For example, I work in the NHS, which has strict rules on social media. If you work in the public sector in a professional role registered to a regulatory body, and you can be identified hurling abuse on Facebook, you can be pulled up on it through work and/or through the professional body for bringing the department/profession into disrepute. It doesn't matter if the 'victim' is a colleague or a complete stranger, or whether it happens on a work computer - if you are identifiable then that's all the excuse they need to give you the gooner.

I think private companies would tend to only step in if you're making the business look bad. But social media is still fairly new and if your friend has an idiot manager/overbearing HR they could take it as far as they like.

If the company doesn't currently have a social media policy they will probably be drafting one up very shortly.
Private company in this place. I did study employment law at uni as part of my wider degree and my understanding, confirmed by research, is there really must be a link between the employer and you for any real discipline.

In the case of my friend's employer, there's no social media policy.

However, if there is one already and the company has strict rules, or part of a regulated body, then I can see that what I've said is irrelevant!

mybrainhurts

90,809 posts

284 months

Wednesday 1st February 2017
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WinstonWolf said:
mybrainhurts said:
WinstonWolf said:
Thoughts? The complainant is a right tt.
Foo Hoo, that's you done for...

Ballistic email on its way...hehe
He wouldn't get far on my FB, there's never a day goes by without someone or other dropping the C bomb biggrin
Permission to call you , sir?

WinstonWolf

72,863 posts

268 months

Thursday 2nd February 2017
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mybrainhurts said:
WinstonWolf said:
mybrainhurts said:
WinstonWolf said:
Thoughts? The complainant is a right tt.
Foo Hoo, that's you done for...

Ballistic email on its way...hehe
He wouldn't get far on my FB, there's never a day goes by without someone or other dropping the C bomb biggrin
Permission to call you , sir?
Be my guest biggrin

WinstonWolf

72,863 posts

268 months

Thursday 2nd February 2017
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swerni said:
WinstonWolf said:
mybrainhurts said:
WinstonWolf said:
Thoughts? The complainant is a right tt.
Foo Hoo, that's you done for...

Ballistic email on its way...hehe
He wouldn't get far on my FB, there's never a day goes by without someone or other dropping the C bomb biggrin
Normally on my Facebook page !

Anyway, your boss is a silly old tt
So's yours now biggrin

mybrainhurts

90,809 posts

284 months

Thursday 2nd February 2017
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WinstonWolf said:
mybrainhurts said:
WinstonWolf said:
mybrainhurts said:
WinstonWolf said:
Thoughts? The complainant is a right tt.
Foo Hoo, that's you done for...

Ballistic email on its way...hehe
He wouldn't get far on my FB, there's never a day goes by without someone or other dropping the C bomb biggrin
Permission to call you , sir?
Be my guest biggrin
Thanks, you ...smile

Hoofy

79,993 posts

311 months

Thursday 2nd February 2017
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Shouldn't the victim complain to your friend's mum? After whining, "I'm telling on you!"

Sheepshanks

40,901 posts

148 months

Thursday 2nd February 2017
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Z064life said:
Private company in this place. I did study employment law at uni as part of my wider degree and my understanding, confirmed by research, is there really must be a link between the employer and you for any real discipline.
Didn't Argos quite famously fire someone for making a general (and gentle) grumble about work even though there was no mention of the company?

Eric Mc

125,606 posts

294 months

Thursday 2nd February 2017
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mybrainhurts said:
Z064life said:
Protocol for disciple for behaviour outside of work?
I've asked the god botherer next door and she says Jesus expects loyalty for life, not just for Christmas...

HTH
That's the higher level standard for "Apostles". "Disciples" don't need to be so committed.

snobetter

1,362 posts

175 months

Thursday 2nd February 2017
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Sheepshanks said:
Z064life said:
Private company in this place. I did study employment law at uni as part of my wider degree and my understanding, confirmed by research, is there really must be a link between the employer and you for any real discipline.
Didn't Argos quite famously fire someone for making a general (and gentle) grumble about work even though there was no mention of the company?
I believe so, saying that their friends knew they worked at Argos therefore it reflected on them. Or similar.

bucksmanuk

2,426 posts

199 months

Thursday 2nd February 2017
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Sorry to say- this is very real… as a friend can recently testify.
He joked on Facebook about a statue being nicked from an RAF base.
Some harridan decided to take enormous offence at this, and she traced him via his name to LinkedIn and who he worked for.
Proceeded to buy £100 worth of shares in the company, which is on AIM, and proceeded to vociferously complain as a “staunch supporter and shareholder of the company that their staff were belittling the fine efforts our armed forces in this way”
My friend was pulled in front of HR and given a right bking, and nothing further should happen on social media which would bring the company into disrepute or he would be out. The 2 dheads in HR weren’t joking.
As you can imagine he thought he was in the middle of Kafka novel. Everyone else at work just had their jaws hitting the floor.
Said harridan then boasts on Facebook as to what she’s done, with a “no-one messes with me” line.
If anyone can think of a decent revenge on this vicious bag, we would appreciate it.

Tonsko

6,299 posts

244 months

Thursday 2nd February 2017
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I guess a screenshot of the boast and sending it to the HR dept via official channels to show that it wasn't an upstanding shareholder.