Would this **** you off?
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Confusedseller1

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9 posts

113 months

Thursday 13th April 2017
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Basically, work in a light hearted office and most of the time it's fine but being the least qualified and newest (still been there 2 and a half years ) I get a lot of ****, about my mum etc And I'm not bothered most of the time, but today my keys to my car got grabbed and chucked about until one of them went outside to my move my car (this has happened before), I followed to get them and my wallet was sprawled on the floor and my phone was hidden, so I ranted about what gives them the right to mess with my personal belongings blah blah and got more stick for being a bi*** about it. So yeah I'm not sure if I overreacted, would you be annoyed. This kind of thing is daily

Edited by Confusedseller1 on Monday 17th April 22:27

TimmyMallett

3,188 posts

141 months

Thursday 13th April 2017
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That's called bullying and they sound like a bunch of s.

Either get lots of evidence and sue them. Put up with it and give it back. Or leave.

I'd leave, if that's their culture.

You don't have to tolerate it.

Nickp82

3,943 posts

122 months

Thursday 13th April 2017
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Yeah sounds like it is going a bit over the top , there is plenty of piss taking at my work but it is evenly spread not focussed on one person!

MitchT

17,114 posts

238 months

Thursday 13th April 2017
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Last time I was in an environment like that was when I was at school! They sound like a bunch of bell ends but it also sounds like that's the culture. If you don't fit in, move on. I would.

ashleyman

7,284 posts

128 months

Thursday 13th April 2017
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I've worked in many places where having a bit of fun is the norm. But yours sounds like bullying and shouldn't be tolerated. I wouldn't.

Any chance you can grab a couple phones or keys yourself and hide them? Give them a taste of their own medicine for a couple hours and see how they like it?

OGR4M

889 posts

182 months

Thursday 13th April 2017
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TimmyMallett said:
That's called bullying and they sound like a bunch of s.

Either get lots of evidence and sue them. Put up with it and give it back. Or leave.

I'd leave, if that's their culture.

You don't have to tolerate it.
+1 from me, it's a 21st-century office - not a 1970s apprenticeship. Make a complaint, if nothing comes of it, threaten to 'express an interest in other career opportunities'.

Or let their tyres down, whichever you prefer.

DanB7290

5,535 posts

219 months

Thursday 13th April 2017
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Unfortunately it gets brushed under the carpet as "banter". Looks like your only option is to go up to the biggest one, knock him out, then teabag him. Go to his house, bang his wife and wipe it on the curtains, show them you ain't to be fked with.

dudleybloke

20,553 posts

215 months

Thursday 13th April 2017
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Piss on their desks while maintaining eye contact and doing your best Sid James laugh.

trickywoo

14,130 posts

259 months

Thursday 13th April 2017
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Last two posts are good advice in the circumstances.

Blue Oval84

5,394 posts

190 months

Thursday 13th April 2017
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What industry is it? Just out of curiosity.

In my head I'm picturing relatively immature staff, probably not a particularly professional industry, perhaps some form of sales?

In reality it's totally out of order but probably to be expected in certain professions/offices.

SlimJim16v

8,053 posts

172 months

Thursday 13th April 2017
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Those are the sort of things only good friends can do, which could ne workmates. However it does sound too much and good for you saying something.

See how they like it evil *

  • manually entered smilie cos the new forum is fking st on a mobile.

Wacky Racer

41,247 posts

276 months

Thursday 13th April 2017
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Send one of them out for a long stand, or a tin of tartan paint..

Seriously, nip this in the bud and confront them.

How old are they, 13?

HazzaCrawf

142 posts

155 months

Thursday 13th April 2017
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Leave, mate - they're bullies

Confusedseller1

Original Poster:

9 posts

113 months

Thursday 13th April 2017
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Well from the responses it appears I wasn't over reacting, so that's good. Not really the type of person to let tyres down or piss on desks but I get the point biggrin Appreciate all the advice! to the poster who asked what industry it's a degree required industry which requires a large amount of professionalism so nothing to do with sales etc don't want to give to much away in case someone sees this thread highly unlikely but Just to be safe.

Rich1973

1,277 posts

206 months

Thursday 13th April 2017
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Make an official complaint. It is how you are made to feel which is the issue.

hman

7,497 posts

223 months

Thursday 13th April 2017
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HR would be all over this if you wanted to go that route, however probably best to have a chat with your manager first.

Then leave.

castroses

247 posts

127 months

Thursday 13th April 2017
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Arrive early. Piss in the kettle.
Sit back and laugh.

pc.iow

1,879 posts

232 months

Thursday 13th April 2017
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Confusedseller1 said:
Well from the responses it appears I wasn't over reacting, so that's good. Not really the type of person to let tyres down or piss on desks but I get the point biggrin Appreciate all the advice! to the poster who asked what industry it's a degree required industry which requires a large amount of professionalism so nothing to do with sales etc don't want to give to much away in case someone sees this thread highly unlikely but Just to be safe.
Is it PistonTechs?

Seriously though, they sound jealous of you, unless you're just a pain in the ass?

MrBarry123

6,102 posts

150 months

Thursday 13th April 2017
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Nothing makes me more angry than other people interfering with my stuff without permission. As such, in your position, I'd have gone fking mad OP.

Your colleagues sound like s. They wouldn't last very long in many businesses so perhaps you'd be better moving from a company which refuses to condemn that kind of beahviour.

exelero

2,082 posts

118 months

Thursday 13th April 2017
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Confusedseller1 said:
Well from the responses it appears I wasn't over reacting, so that's good. Not really the type of person to let tyres down or piss on desks but I get the point biggrin Appreciate all the advice! to the poster who asked what industry it's a degree required industry which requires a large amount of professionalism so nothing to do with sales etc don't want to give to much away in case someone sees this thread highly unlikely but Just to be safe.
You can still bang the biggest bullys wife tho smile