Memo to junior mgrs whose pretentions exceed their ability
Memo to junior mgrs whose pretentions exceed their ability
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Dr Jekyll

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23,820 posts

283 months

Tuesday 30th November 2021
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1) If you need someone to explain what’s going on, LISTEN to them, even if they are in someone else’s team, even if they are junior to you or you think they should be. Don’t interrupt every time you don’t immediately see the relevance of what they are telling you, don’t just ask questions about factors you are already aware of and refuse to listen to anything else. Just because you weren’t aware of a certain factor so didn’t ask about it doesn’t mean it isn’t relevant. If you insist on asking leading questions like ‘Did so and so find any problems when they tried it?’ then remember the bit of the answer after the word ‘but’ is not pointless waffle, it’s probably the most important part of the answer.
2) If half an hour after refusing to listen to someone, you find you have jumped to all the wrong conclusions, don’t start whingeing to me that my team didn’t give you the full facts so it’s their fault you are confused.
3) When your interference wastes time at best and probably makes things worse, it is no excuse for you to say ‘well I don’t know what’s going on’, that’s exactly why you shouldn’t have interfered.


zippy3x

1,364 posts

289 months

Tuesday 30th November 2021
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Not quite sure why you felt the need to add the word "junior"

Dr Jekyll

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23,820 posts

283 months

Tuesday 30th November 2021
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zippy3x said:
Not quite sure why you felt the need to add the word "junior"
The one I had in mind is junior. But yes it should apply to everyone, though generally it's an issue with wannabees, genuinely senior people are usually good listeners. I've sometimes advised new managers to watch the partners meeting scene in Margin call as an example of how to deal with a crisis.

BRR

1,897 posts

194 months

Tuesday 30th November 2021
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You ok hun? x

zippy3x

1,364 posts

289 months

Tuesday 30th November 2021
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Dr Jekyll said:
The one I had in mind is junior. But yes it should apply to everyone, though generally it's an issue with wannabees, genuinely senior people are usually good listeners. I've sometimes advised new managers to watch the partners meeting scene in Margin call as an example of how to deal with a crisis.
What, to panic, screw everyone else in the world over, spark a global financial crisis, sack the person least responsible and then blame it all on "it's just the way it is"

yeah, actually thinking about it, that checks out.

Dr Jekyll

Original Poster:

23,820 posts

283 months

Tuesday 30th November 2021
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zippy3x said:
Dr Jekyll said:
The one I had in mind is junior. But yes it should apply to everyone, though generally it's an issue with wannabees, genuinely senior people are usually good listeners. I've sometimes advised new managers to watch the partners meeting scene in Margin call as an example of how to deal with a crisis.
What, to panic, screw everyone else in the world over, spark a global financial crisis, sack the person least responsible and then blame it all on "it's just the way it is"

yeah, actually thinking about it, that checks out.
No, I'm taking about the meeting scene itself, the way the head honcho lets the subordinate describe the issue in his own words.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hhy7JUinlu0

bristolracer

5,870 posts

171 months

Tuesday 30th November 2021
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You never notice a good manager

A bad one on the other hand.....

Hoofy

79,224 posts

304 months

Tuesday 30th November 2021
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This isn't LinkedIn!

Dr Jekyll

Original Poster:

23,820 posts

283 months

Tuesday 30th November 2021
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Letting off steam on Linkedin might undermine my professional image.

Tango13

9,824 posts

198 months

Wednesday 1st December 2021
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C L 'Kelly' Johnson once said something along the lines of 'It's more important for a manager to listen than to talk'

Mr Miata

1,218 posts

72 months

Wednesday 8th December 2021
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4) Dont have an open forum or a question and answer session on the shop floor when the management have no intention to solve the companies problems. Especially when the same problems have been known about for years but nothings changed.

2 sMoKiN bArReLs

31,676 posts

257 months

Wednesday 8th December 2021
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4) Don't post on a motoring forum when clearly hooched hehe


Mortarboard

11,847 posts

77 months

Wednesday 8th December 2021
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Learn to "manage up". A "clarification email" is a wonderful thing wink

M.

pb8g09

2,988 posts

91 months

Thursday 9th December 2021
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Build a rapport with the senior directors so that when these 'anklebiters' come along, they message you and ask why they're getting harassed by this nonsense.

I'm a 30 year old anklebiter.

sutoka

4,716 posts

130 months

Friday 10th December 2021
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I walked into my now old job one morning, went up for a coffee and came down to hear this high pitched whiney voice dishing out orders.

Ask a workmate who that was and his reply was 'you'll know soon enough'. This 24 year old man child then approaches me and with no introduction at all say's "can you do this, that and the other by 12pm" I'd already complied a list of things and told him, that's not my department I've my weeks work organised.

"That's not what I ask" came the reply. To which I replied "NO, is that what you wanted to here"

This kid had literally worked for Daddies company as a manager followed by 10 different managerial roles in about 4 years. He hadn't a clue how to speak to people, he seemed to think he was still at the family firm. He lasted a three weeks most of which he was locked in his office.

Moral of the story is that I managers job is more than dishing out orders and if all you can do is bark then you quickly get found out and moved on.

Countdown

46,955 posts

218 months

Friday 10th December 2021
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Weren't we all "bad" managers once? I remember some of the things I did (or tried to do) when I first became a manager and still cringe smile

Most people (Managers or Employees) don't want to be aholes - it's a learning curve for both.

2 sMoKiN bArReLs

31,676 posts

257 months

Friday 10th December 2021
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Countdown said:
Most people (Managers or Employees) don't want to be aholes - it's a learning curve for both.
...and a lot of people manage it perfectly hehe



WelshPetrolhead

942 posts

157 months

Saturday 11th December 2021
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Mr Miata said:
4) Dont have an open forum or a question and answer session on the shop floor when the management have no intention to solve the companies problems. Especially when the same problems have been known about for years but nothings changed.
I've had exactly that this week. Sounds like you work where I do!

GliderRider

2,843 posts

103 months

Wednesday 15th December 2021
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WelshPetrolhead said:
Mr Miata said:
4) Dont have an open forum or a question and answer session on the shop floor when the management have no intention to solve the companies problems. Especially when the same problems have been known about for years but nothings changed.
I've had exactly that this week. Sounds like you work where I do!
The next step is for the bosses to bring in management consultants. They will go around asking the employees what is wrong with the company and what should be done about it. The answers, the same ones the bosses ignored when told directly, are then presented to the bosses as the cure-all solution that the management consultants have miraculously formulated in a few days, and for which they have justifiably earned their exorbitant fee.