Leaving a restaurant without paying?
Leaving a restaurant without paying?
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whitesocks

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1,006 posts

72 months

Wednesday 11th November 2020
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Has anyone ever had to do this for any reason?

I personally hav'nt (Wouldn't have the bks to do it)

Magnum 475

4,056 posts

158 months

Wednesday 11th November 2020
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I haven't personally, but I know one guy who did. This happened at a well-known Michelin Starred restaurant in London. He did what he describes as a 'Vom & Run' - he'd got rather rat-arsed, and puked over the handbag of someone sitting at the next table. He and his companion (now wife) did a very sharp runner at that point. He did telephone the restaurant the day after and paid by card, although I don't know what happened about the handbag owner.

Jimmy No Hands

5,075 posts

182 months

Wednesday 11th November 2020
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Nope - but I have unintentionally walked out of a bar without paying a tab. We were in rounds on a bit of a day time spree in Stockholm. Beers ordered, lovely. Finished them up, all three of us must've made an assumption that one of us had paid at least.

Even said thank you and bye to the barman on the way out.

Only realised about 4 hours and several bars later..

hotchy

4,805 posts

152 months

Wednesday 11th November 2020
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I was in thailand on a trip. Nobody was there to pay for the drinks I got at the pre paid meal and the show was going to start shortly. So just left to the show.


They got me at my gate entrance though so I paid them. Dont know how they found me in crowds of thousands, they dont miss a thing haha.

Alex@POD

6,454 posts

241 months

Wednesday 11th November 2020
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I did once, unintentionally. In a pub where you normally order at the bar, we walked in just before the kitchen was about to close, to the waitress quickly took our order at the table as we were sitting down, to take it to the kitchen asap (this was Christmas Eve I think). We stayed in the pub all afternoon and eventually left, having bought and paid for rounds at the bar all night.
It wasn't until the next day that we realised we had never paid for the food!

I have been tempted to walk out sometimes though, after the third time asking for the bill...

mmm-five

12,229 posts

310 months

Wednesday 11th November 2020
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Only twice, both intentionally, and not without telling the maître d'.

Both times due to either appalling service or inedible food - and both times in Brussels strangely, but we did offer to pay for the drinks/wine which were fine.

Glosphil

4,825 posts

260 months

Wednesday 11th November 2020
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Never not paid the bill but after a meal for 5 that totalled over £100 paid by credit card. Payment system was one that gave the option of a tip. I input 10 not realising the system took that as 10p! Worse than no tip.
Realised when I looked at bill & payment slip the next day. Went back a few days later for a drink & gave the waitress a £10 pound note.

BckFlash

726 posts

227 months

Wednesday 11th November 2020
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Done it twice, both times due to inedible food that took an age to arrive and no offers to replace.

Paid for the drinks and left.

One was a local Indian restaurant which has a very good name but must've been an off night. The other was a world renowned seafood restaurant in Paris - the food and service was horrendous!

FA57 VWT

1,965 posts

69 months

Wednesday 11th November 2020
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I took my wife to Rick Steins at Sandbanks for a birthday meal, it was a Thursday night and the restaurant was only about 1/3rd full.

Fast-forward 90 minutes or so and after some very underwhelming food with nonchalant service I ask for the bill.

After 15 minutes no sign of the bill so I politely ask again, another 15 minutes and still no bill and I'm aware that our sitter for the night needs to leave by 10:00pm.

I asked again, but we appeared to get a different member of staff every time, I reminded them we'd been waiting 30 minutes for our bill and that now I wasn't very happy.

We waited 10 more minutes and then I stood up, got our coats and we walked out without paying.

Without doubt it would have been the worst £100 I'd ever spent, fortunately I didn't pay so it represented excellent value for money.

Fastpedeller

4,293 posts

172 months

Wednesday 11th November 2020
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Seems this couple have turned it into an 'occupation'

https://www.edp24.co.uk/business/dine-and-dash-suf...

PurpleTurtle

8,781 posts

170 months

Wednesday 11th November 2020
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Done it once, completely by accident. My local 'Loungers' bar, had an extended Sunday lunch session in there, several bottles of Vino Tinto.

On getting home, I tweeted how great an afternoon we had, tagging them in the tweet. They responded ... "we noticed, you left your card behind the bar, pop in tomorrow to settle your tab!" .... I strolled in the next day very apologetic.

During the summer we were chatting to the landlord of a popular gastropub in the New Forest, he reckoned that he was seeing 10 'walkers' a week, an increase on previous years. He attributed it to people either taking advantage of more people being outdoors because of Covid, or just forgetting because of all the additional faff you have to do at the moment just to go to the pub.

I see his point: I drove our car from Gordano services to Reading with the fuel filler hanging out last week, because I was distracted by my wife obsessing so much about me putting gloves on to handle the fuel hose, I momentarily lost concentration and forgot to put the cap back on, first time ever in 31yrs of driving.


alorotom

12,719 posts

213 months

Wednesday 11th November 2020
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Ive done it a couple of times

First time was when we ordered and waited and waited and waited ... 90 mins and no starters (and it wasn't particularly busy) so got up and walked out. Technically we didn't eat but did have a drinks bill.

Second time, I had asked for the bill 5 times. Again it wasn't that busy, prob 60% occupancy, always an excuse etc... so we got up and left. If the staff can't be bothered to sort out a simple bill after asking the same person 5 times for it they are in the wrong job.

Neither place exists anymore (unsurprisingly)

whitesocks

Original Poster:

1,006 posts

72 months

Wednesday 11th November 2020
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Fastpedeller said:
Seems this couple have turned it into an 'occupation'

https://www.edp24.co.uk/business/dine-and-dash-suf...
Hopefully the plod catch them.

thewarlock

3,285 posts

71 months

Wednesday 11th November 2020
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Once.

At a steakhouse.

Wife and I had a chateaubriand and a bottle of barolo, it was delicious.

Asked to see the desert menu, and waited, and waited.

Eventually a waitress came over and asked us if as we were finished, would we please leave, they need the table for someone else.

I told her I'd asked for the desert menu half an hour ago, and was yet to see one, but of course, I'll happily get up and walk out now.

So we did. Still not sure if she thought I'd already settled the bill.

thebraketester

15,618 posts

164 months

Wednesday 11th November 2020
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Yes... once.

Italian restaurant in Newcastle with a friend... we asked for the bill about 6 times and it never arrived, so we just walked out.

LeadFarmer

7,411 posts

157 months

Wednesday 11th November 2020
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Done it an a black cab taxi once, before they had the auto locking doors. Pre planned so the taxi would stop next to a gennel for us to run down. We were too drunk to account for the snow and it was so slippy that for every step forward we took, we slid two steps back. We finally managed to get away when we turned around to walk back to the taxi biggrin

LeadFarmer

7,411 posts

157 months

Wednesday 11th November 2020
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My mates did it at a Harry Ramsdens chip shop restaurant in Blackpool. I didn't want any part in it but told them I would stand across the road and watch. I got fed up with waiting for them to come out and got distracted by their takeaway counter which I went to, completely missing the waiter chasing them out and down the road. Nice chips though.

BoRED S2upid

21,011 posts

266 months

Wednesday 11th November 2020
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FA57 VWT said:
I took my wife to Rick Steins at Sandbanks for a birthday meal, it was a Thursday night and the restaurant was only about 1/3rd full.

Fast-forward 90 minutes or so and after some very underwhelming food with nonchalant service I ask for the bill.

After 15 minutes no sign of the bill so I politely ask again, another 15 minutes and still no bill and I'm aware that our sitter for the night needs to leave by 10:00pm.

I asked again, but we appeared to get a different member of staff every time, I reminded them we'd been waiting 30 minutes for our bill and that now I wasn't very happy.

We waited 10 more minutes and then I stood up, got our coats and we walked out without paying.

Without doubt it would have been the worst £100 I'd ever spent, fortunately I didn't pay so it represented excellent value for money.
To be honest if he knew about that appalling service he would have waved the bill anyway. Seems a very nice chap when I met him.

matchmaker

8,973 posts

226 months

Wednesday 11th November 2020
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Once, intentionally. We'd been to the cinema with the kids and went for a pizza in Pizza Shed. We ordered and after some delay our starters and drinks came. Once we had finished the empties were collected then - nothing. I went up to the servers three times asking about our mains - they are on the way, I was told. After 30 minutes we walked out and went for a chippy.

thebraketester

15,618 posts

164 months

Wednesday 11th November 2020
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That's a real shame. We have been to his Padstow restaurant twice and the service has always been amazing. In fact, the last time we went my wife realised that she went to school with the restaurant manager. #coolstory etc. etc.