PH Foodies - HELP me decide on my evening wedding menu
PH Foodies - HELP me decide on my evening wedding menu
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Pferdestarke

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7,192 posts

215 months

Friday 28th January 2011
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I've decided on my wedding 'breakfast' but we are struggling to think of something fitting for the evening reception.

I'll set the scene:

Registry office service

Boutique hotel for the reception

Brick-arched pub cellar function room for evening celebrations

So, they cater at the pub and can do anything in reason but we don't want a scummy buffet with grated cheese open sandwiches and vol-au-vents.

As we are having a 3pm service the breakfast won't be over until around 7pm so we will be full and won't want to eat until around 11pm. We are considering the following but would welcome your foody suggestions.

Bacon sandwiches
Pork, apple, stuffing baps
Pie and peas

and that's as far as we've got.
confused

Lemmonie

6,314 posts

283 months

Friday 28th January 2011
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I had bacon butties and bowls of chips.....everyone loved it

grumbledoak

32,540 posts

261 months

Friday 28th January 2011
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You may well all be in the mood for bacon/sausage/chip butties by then. yes

calibrax

4,788 posts

239 months

Friday 28th January 2011
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Pferdestarke said:
the breakfast won't be over until around 7pm so we will be full
I'm confused... breakfast ends in the early evening? and you'll be full... ahh, hold on... does the breakfast last all day because it has Cotty sized portions? wink


21TonyK

13,227 posts

237 months

Friday 28th January 2011
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Let me have a good think about this. I've catered more weddings than I can count and every one has been unique and perfect.

Send me some of your favourite cuisines and I'll come up with some ideas. Key questions are numbers and budget. The 11pm means evening guests will have already eaten to it's going to be pretty light.

/congrats!

Pferdestarke

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7,192 posts

215 months

Friday 28th January 2011
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Tony, you have email.

fphsecretservice

956 posts

194 months

Friday 28th January 2011
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proper fish and chips served wrapped in newspaper qwith lots of vinegar!


mad4amanda

2,410 posts

192 months

Friday 28th January 2011
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fphsecretservice said:
proper fish and chips served wrapped in newspaper qwith lots of vinegar!
This!

Pferdestarke

Original Poster:

7,192 posts

215 months

Friday 28th January 2011
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We looked at a mobile fish and chip van but it was expensive. I'd be loathe to allow the pub chef to do 60 portions well as they probably won't have suitable fryers to accommodate say three lots of twenty.

jessica

6,321 posts

280 months

Friday 28th January 2011
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Depends on the guests.
If you are inviting more guests later for the evening do. Then they will be expecting to be fed. So hot food etc would be good.
If you are running on from the wedding breakfast with those guests. and you have all eaten lots i would suggest canapes.

condor

8,837 posts

276 months

Friday 28th January 2011
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My brother had a 3pm afternoon wedding - wedding breakfast for approx 80 guests of starter, roast beef and pudding took from 5pm to 8.30pm. It overran by a couple of hours, mainly because it took that time for the waitresses to serve the tables, people nipping out for cigarette breaks...and then the speeches.
The buffet organised for later in the evening with the disco barely got touched as everyone was full from the main meal and most people don't like eating late at night. Most of it was wasted, we took stuff that could be frozen back to the house.
Just a heads up to not go mad on a late night buffet.

Pferdestarke

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7,192 posts

215 months

Friday 28th January 2011
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2 additional guests - we are getting married 250 miles away from home on the South Coast.

Shaolin

2,955 posts

217 months

Friday 28th January 2011
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Last wedding I went to had a hog roast in the evening which seems to be one of your options - it went down very well.

zakelwe

4,449 posts

226 months

Friday 28th January 2011
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Pferdestarke said:
I've decided on my wedding 'breakfast' but we are struggling to think of something fitting for the evening reception.

I'll set the scene:

Registry office service

Boutique hotel for the reception

Brick-arched pub cellar function room for evening celebrations

So, they cater at the pub and can do anything in reason but we don't want a scummy buffet with grated cheese open sandwiches and vol-au-vents.

As we are having a 3pm service the breakfast won't be over until around 7pm so we will be full and won't want to eat until around 11pm. We are considering the following but would welcome your foody suggestions.

Bacon sandwiches
Pork, apple, stuffing baps
Pie and peas

and that's as far as we've got.
confused
To be honest I don't think you can have a breakfast at tea time and then have a supper ( or is it brunch?) at 11pm. As Dougal out of Father Ted would say

"That's completely mad Ted"

All the girls will be too full up to appreciate the supper, or is it elevenses?

How about this for radical. You take people out for a meal before the wedding, as a proper breakfast and to get people to know each other.

Then an interlude as you get married

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hQ4-hDKorQE

Then you go for the evening meal where everyone now knows each other already due to the breakfast and people feel ready for another nosh session.

Looking back, I wish I had done my wedding like that.

Andy



Edited by zakelwe on Friday 28th January 21:04

Mrs Pitstop

4,289 posts

230 months

Saturday 29th January 2011
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We had a 3pm wedding and the evening food was served at around 9.30pm.

We had pork baps with all the trimmings and cones of chips. The veggies had roasted veg baguettes instead of the pork. It went down very well and at that time of night it helped soak up the booze!

Catz

4,863 posts

239 months

Sunday 30th January 2011
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I went to a wedding where they had rounds of various cheeses, platters of various cold meats, bread, biscuits and olives.
It looked pretty impressive and tasted even better.

Tommy Saxondale

1,357 posts

222 months

Sunday 30th January 2011
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donner kebabs!!!!

cramorra

1,689 posts

263 months

Tuesday 1st February 2011
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As I remember you are a bit of a foody - so you would appreciate things a bit different
If you have a meal after reception you won't need much but it should soak up some alcohol and be reasonable nice
Speak to your landlord and see what they do best of those suggestions (which every pub should be able to provide)
goulash soup
chilli
chicken soup (spanish style with mint)
get what ever they do better (suggest you go through the hard work of trialling this....)
and make sure they have PROPER fresh bread (not the bake up stuff vomit)
warm food done
then agree permission to bring in some cheese yourself (and get a board from your fave deli) with 3 to 4 ones you both like (plus crackers and condiments to suit your taste and the booze)in enough amount
cold food done
last get the pub to produce an adequate amount (could be placed on the buffet in a big pan(s)) of your favourite crumble and make sure you arrange for them to buy in proper ice cream (or bring that yourselv as well) to place on the buffet
sweets done
3 simple courses which should cover everybodies' taste (and cover meat/veg/allergies), not too expensive but well done and in the right amount perfect - and the cheese can be done to last the whole evening for latecomers(add some serrano/parma ham and melon/figs or salami to the cold cuts if you have dedicated carnivores amongst the guests...)
And most importantly ; ENJOY

Edited by cramorra on Tuesday 1st February 16:27

grumbledoak

32,540 posts

261 months

Tuesday 1st February 2011
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With the wedding breakfast post 3pm + service I don't think a 'sit down' meal at 11pm will be too welcome. But they might want something to mop up the alcohol from the reception.

I like the goulash/chilli suggestion, though. A small bowl with Nachos or pitta bread would work well.