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Stevenj214

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Wednesday 8th June 2011
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More than 3.5m children live below the poverty line in the UK, which has one of the worst child poverty rates in the industrialised world. Four youngsters explain what it is like growing up when a family has little money.

"You must be kind of bad to put people in houses like this," says 10-year-old Paige. She is talking about her home, a high-rise flat in the Gorbals area of Glasgow.

"Me and my friends found needles in the bins when we were playing - it's not very nice to see that at our age when you go out to play."

Needles aside, Paige's main problem is the inside of her flat, where damp covers most of the walls.

"They make the outside of the blocks look nice, but inside it's terrible," she says.

"It's not our fault it's a mess. You can't put wallpaper and paint on it, because the damp will show through."
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The ceiling of one room fell in due to the damp on Christmas day, and Paige says day-to-day living is horrible.

"I can't sleep on my top bunk because the mould goes along and it goes on my chest. It's disgusting, we feel sick all the time."

Recent figures show 47% of children with asthma are from the poorest 10% of families in the UK, and 85% of children living in damp houses suffer from breathing problems.
Sam and Kayleigh Sam and Kayleigh have lived with their father, since their mother walked out on Sam's second birthday

This is the second home Paige and her mum and dad have lived in that has had damp, and she is desperately hoping her family will be re-housed somewhere else.

"It really annoys me because some people will bully you because your house isn't all fancy like theirs. How would they feel if they were in a house like this? They wouldn't really like it."

Sam, who is 11, lives in Leicester with his father and older sister and knows all about bullying.

"They call me 'ankle boy' because I have ripped trousers that are too small for me," he says.

"I get called 'big girl's blouse'. I have to re-use my sister's shirts and then I get called a 'girl' which gets me psyched up and I just want to punch them, but then I'd get detention."

His 16-year-old sister Kayleigh admits she is concerned about Sam being bullied.
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Courtney

My family can't do nowt that other kids can do. They get to go out of Bradford and get adventures and learn more about this world”

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"I worry about Sam all the time - once you're marked, you're marked for life."

"You have to be so worried about what you say. You tend to start merging into the background because you don't want people to know what's going on at home."

She admits to worrying about money constantly and says poverty is a burden for children.

"Sometimes it does feel like you've got a big hefty secret and you need to keep it hidden. It puts you in that mindset that you're lower than everyone else."

One in six poor children have considered suicide and Kayleigh admits she did try and take her own life when she was younger.

"I was thinking things along the lines of 'I'm not worthy enough to be here. Nobody wants me here, I'm better off dead'."

Sam says he feels "angry and frustrated" that his dad cannot find any work and fears for the future as he has heard about further job cuts coming.

"Everybody's losing jobs, we're going to have less and less money and we're going to starve to death.

"They are raising the price of food and lowering the money. How are you supposed to get a job when jobs are going away?"
Missing meals

One in five low income families report skipping meals, and children living with single parent families are twice as likely to go without.

That is something eight-year-old Courtney, who lives in Bradford, experiences every week.

"For tea we have a big version of a sausage roll.

"I go without dinner when I'm at home but when I'm at school I get free dinners," she says.

Courtney lives with her mother and three sisters. Come the school holidays paying for food for the girls is a struggle without free school meals.
Chantelle (l) and Courtney (r) Courtney (right, with sister Chantelle) admits she is scared of growing up

Summer holidays also mean they have time on their hands, as they cannot afford activities.

"There's nowt to do here, it's really boring," Courtney complains.

She and her sisters end up playing in derelict buildings and inside a ripped double bed frame in their flat.

Courtney says she feels "sick" at the thought of the long summer holidays with no money to do anything.

"I get jealous when other people go on holiday and we can't afford it," she admits.

"My family can't do nowt that other kids can do. They get to go out of Bradford and get adventures and learn more about this world."

Paige, though, has some good news. Her family have a new home, a house, a half-an-hour's drive away from their damp high-rise flat.

Looking in wonder at her new bedroom she admits: "It's amazing, I can't believe it. It's so weird you look up there and there's no dampness.

"I think my life will be much better. Nobody can talk about me and say 'She's stinking and smells of damp' any more.

"Sometimes it's hard to survive with what we've got. If you get holes in your shoes it's hard for your family to get you new shoes.

"I don't know how my mum and dad do it, but they do and I think that's very good."
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/education-13632856

I'm just catching up with this on iPlayer. It's heart wrenching.

thinfourth2

32,414 posts

234 months

Wednesday 8th June 2011
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Having a ferrari is not a right you only get one if you can afford it

Why should kids be different?

carmonk

7,910 posts

217 months

Wednesday 8th June 2011
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I saw some of that. What gets me is that never is a word uttered against the parents. To my mind, if someone is on the breadline and lives in a sthole and they choose to have kids when they know they can't look after them they should be jailed and sterilised and the kids fostered. Both parents that is. Although I understand that would be impossible to implement.

Tsippy

15,078 posts

199 months

Wednesday 8th June 2011
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carmonk said:
I saw some of that. What gets me is that never is a word uttered against the parents. To my mind, if someone is on the breadline and lives in a sthole and they choose to have kids when they know they can't look after them they should be jailed and sterilised and the kids fostered. Both parents that is. Although I understand that would be impossible to implement.
yes

Would solve so many problems if the excess breeding of the underclass was stopped.

davepoth

29,395 posts

229 months

Wednesday 8th June 2011
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Tsippy said:
yes

Would solve so many problems if the excess breeding of the underclass was stopped.
Jahwohl, Mein Fuerher. wink

Shaw Tarse

31,900 posts

233 months

Tsippy

15,078 posts

199 months

Wednesday 8th June 2011
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davepoth said:
Tsippy said:
yes

Would solve so many problems if the excess breeding of the underclass was stopped.
Jahwohl, Mein Fuerher. wink
I think he had a point with some of his policies hehe

thinfourth2

32,414 posts

234 months

Wednesday 8th June 2011
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4 seconds in and the first satellite dish is spotted
58 seconds in the first sofa in a garden
2 minutes in the first pile of rubbish on the floor
5 minutes 22 seconds and its the big telly

My sympathy is waining

RemainAllHoof

80,138 posts

312 months

Wednesday 8th June 2011
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Why are kids playing with rubbish/bins?

Victor McDade

4,395 posts

212 months

Wednesday 8th June 2011
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If parents are pissing away their benefits on sky tv, cigarettes and other such 'essentials' then these kids need to be taken into care. But then that brings a whole new set of problems as the state does not exactly have a great record when it comes to housing such minors in a safe and stable environment.


AndrewW-G

11,968 posts

247 months

Wednesday 8th June 2011
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Looks like 13 years of the labour party in charge hasn't had much of positive effect on the people they claim to represent rolleyes

AndrewW-G

11,968 posts

247 months

Wednesday 8th June 2011
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Tsippy said:
davepoth said:
Tsippy said:
yes

Would solve so many problems if the excess breeding of the underclass was stopped.
Jahwohl, Mein Fuerher. wink
I think he had a point with some of his policies hehe
You are Bernard Charles Ecclestone AICMFP

Caulkhead

4,938 posts

187 months

Wednesday 8th June 2011
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Usual BBC story - kids suffering due to poor housing and no jobs, no mention of the piles of fags, sky plus box and 50" plasma on the wall. The kids are suffering, but they're looking in the wrong place for the problem.

Mojocvh

16,837 posts

292 months

Wednesday 8th June 2011
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Caulkhead said:
Usual BBC story - kids suffering due to poor housing and no jobs, no mention of the piles of fags, sky plus box and 50" plasma on the wall. The kids are suffering, but they're looking in the wrong place for the problem.
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anonymous-user

84 months

Wednesday 8th June 2011
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Stevenj214 said:
BBC said:
That is something eight-year-old Courtney, who lives in Bradford, experiences every week.

"For tea we have a big version of a sausage roll.

"I go without dinner when I'm at home but when I'm at school I get free dinners," she says.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/education-13632856

I'm just catching up with this on iPlayer. It's heart wrenching.
this bit is terrible frown

fido

18,920 posts

285 months

Wednesday 8th June 2011
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RemainAllHoof said:
Why are kids playing with rubbish/bins?
Exactly. My parents grew up in poorer conditions - mum was adopted by another family because her mum couldn't afford to look after her. As st as their situation may seem - they don't always help themselves either and expect the state to do everything for them.

thinfourth2

32,414 posts

234 months

Thursday 9th June 2011
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Mojocvh said:
Caulkhead said:
Usual BBC story - kids suffering due to poor housing and no jobs, no mention of the piles of fags, sky plus box and 50" plasma on the wall. The kids are suffering, but they're looking in the wrong place for the problem.
clap
A dustpan and brush can be bought from ASDA for a couple of pounds.

Tidying up when you are unemployed costs nothing and they have enough time.

Bing o

15,184 posts

249 months

Thursday 9th June 2011
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thinfourth2 said:
Mojocvh said:
Caulkhead said:
Usual BBC story - kids suffering due to poor housing and no jobs, no mention of the piles of fags, sky plus box and 50" plasma on the wall. The kids are suffering, but they're looking in the wrong place for the problem.
clap
A dustpan and brush can be bought from ASDA for a couple of pounds.

Tidying up when you are unemployed costs nothing and they have enough time.
Nothing a good house fire won't fix. Lock the doors and windows and Bob's not your uncle anymore.

superkartracer

8,959 posts

252 months

Thursday 9th June 2011
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedd...

By the way, i lived in worse conditions than the above with token alcoholic father and not being feed added to the mix

But in the 70's this was common i think?

Edited by superkartracer on Thursday 9th June 08:03

Bing o

15,184 posts

249 months

Thursday 9th June 2011
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superkartracer said:
The Korean Ant and Dec make more sense without the subtitles than the real ones do!