“Essex girl” removed from dictionary
“Essex girl” removed from dictionary
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Esceptico

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8,897 posts

133 months

Sunday 6th December 2020
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Read in the paper that after lobbying the phrase “Essex girl” has been removed from the Advanced Learner Oxford Dictionary on the basis that it is offensive.

Another example of the censorship creeping into our society. People often blandly through around the term “Orwellian” (even though a good number have probably never read 1984) but such an approach truly is similar to the attempt to control people’s minds by removing offending words from language in 1984.

I wonder what words are going to be cancelled next.

Stay in Bed Instead

22,362 posts

181 months

Sunday 6th December 2020
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You can take the girl out of Essex ...

JagLover

46,183 posts

259 months

Sunday 6th December 2020
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Q. What's the difference between an Essex girl and an ironing board?
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A. Occasionally you have trouble getting the legs apart on an ironing board.

Boom Boom

anonymous-user

78 months

Sunday 6th December 2020
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Is this a parody post?

I can’t go around shouting the ‘N word’ in the street with impunity, they’re trying to control my mind!

Also, the OED is keeping the definition. ‘A victory’ etc if you want to frame it as such...

bitchstewie

64,412 posts

234 months

Sunday 6th December 2020
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I was more surprised it was in the dictionary then I was that they removed it.

Orwellian hehe

Randy Winkman

21,033 posts

213 months

Sunday 6th December 2020
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Is Essex Boy still in it?

Electro1980

8,934 posts

163 months

Sunday 6th December 2020
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Was it removed because of a campaign or is this like one of those tabloid “wins” where they claim a victory when it was going to happen anyway? Essex Girl is not a common phrase anymore so was probably removed because it’s not needed in a learners dictionary.

Also, OUP do not make moral choices or sensor. The OED is a list of definitions and an account of modern usage, not a moral judgment or guide on correct usage. I find it very strange when people get angry about what is or is not included.

67Dino

3,642 posts

129 months

Sunday 6th December 2020
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Agree, this approach to avoiding offence really bothers me too. A dictionary should cover all words and phrases in common use, and just say if the terms are considered offensive.

My main objection to Essex Girl jokes isn’t the Essex bit but the Girl bit. Seems to me they are an oblique way for men to put down women generally as promiscuous and/or stupid, and therefore misogyny. For that reason, I put them in the same category as blonde jokes, and (as a man) won’t tell them myself.

That said, I’ve no objection if, for example, women told these kinds of jokes on a hen night, as the context there would be completely different. I’d also not remove the term from a dictionary, just flag that it was derogatory and misogynistic.


Edited by 67Dino on Sunday 6th December 08:36

166 MM Barchetta

719 posts

81 months

Sunday 6th December 2020
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La Liga said:
Is this a parody post?

I can’t go around shouting the ‘N word’ in the street with impunity, they’re trying to control my mind!

Also, the OED is keeping the definition. ‘A victory’ etc if you want to frame it as such...
Is this a parody post?

4 posts in and already the launched the race card, gone from “essex girl” to “shouting the n-word in the street” in an epic display of Olympic level mental gymnastics.
Is it any wonder people can’t have a reasonable debate about these types of issues in an ever changing world if idiots immediately throw in an utterly unrelated race issue in order to get the discussion undermined.

......Essex girl to shouting the ‘N’ word in the street.......ffs......

LordHaveMurci

12,325 posts

193 months

Sunday 6th December 2020
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Through around? rofl

anonymous-user

78 months

Sunday 6th December 2020
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It was removed from 'a' dictionary (a dictionary intended for non-native English speakers) not from 'the' dictionary (usually defined as the OED).
I'm struggling to see how anyone could be upset about not teaching people an outdated derogatory term for women which nobody really uses anymore - unless of course they hadn't actually read or understood the article properly in the first place and were just desperate to take offence at *something*.

166 MM Barchetta

719 posts

81 months

Sunday 6th December 2020
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doesthiswork said:
It was removed from 'a' dictionary (a dictionary intended for non-native English speakers) not from 'the' dictionary (usually defined as the OED).
I'm struggling to see how anyone could be upset about not teaching people an outdated derogatory term for women which nobody really uses anymore - unless of course they hadn't actually read or understood the article properly in the first place and were just desperate to take offence at *something*.
There’s a huge and important difference between “teaching people” which could suggest actively going to look for a phrase and then use it, or is it surely better to leave a record of the phrase that can be seen, the context of it learnt and used to move on.....that’s where I would guess many have an issue with this type of censorship.
I don’t think it’s the phrase, more the act.

anonymous-user

78 months

Sunday 6th December 2020
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166 MM Barchetta said:
doesthiswork said:
It was removed from 'a' dictionary (a dictionary intended for non-native English speakers) not from 'the' dictionary (usually defined as the OED).
I'm struggling to see how anyone could be upset about not teaching people an outdated derogatory term for women which nobody really uses anymore - unless of course they hadn't actually read or understood the article properly in the first place and were just desperate to take offence at *something*.
There’s a huge and important difference between “teaching people” which could suggest actively going to look for a phrase and then use it, or is it surely better to leave a record of the phrase that can be seen, the context of it learnt and used to move on.....that’s where I would guess many have an issue with this type of censorship.
I don’t think it’s the phrase, more the act.
So should that particular dictionary also include 'dolly mop', 'dirty puzzle' or 'threepenny upright'?

The record is left in the OED, the Oxford Advanced Learner’s Dictionary doesn't serve the same purpose.

voyds9

8,490 posts

307 months

Sunday 6th December 2020
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67Dino said:
Agree, this approach to avoiding offence really bothers me too. A dictionary should cover all words and phrases in common use, and just say if the terms are considered offensive.

My main objection to Essex Girl jokes isn’t the Essex bit but the Girl bit. Seems to me they are an oblique way for men to put down women generally as promiscuous and/or stupid, and therefore misogyny. For that reason, I put them in the same category as blonde jokes, and (as a man) won’t tell them myself.

That said, I’ve no objection if, for example, women told these kinds of jokes on a hen night, as the context there would be completely different. I’d also not remove the term from a dictionary, just flag that it was derogatory and misogynistic.


Edited by 67Dino on Sunday 6th December 08:36
You mean like the term toxic masculinity.

king arthur

7,701 posts

285 months

Sunday 6th December 2020
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For a thread relating to dictionaries there's some appalling spelling going on here!

ClaphamGT3

12,066 posts

267 months

Sunday 6th December 2020
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LordHaveMurci said:
Through around? rofl
In a post primly criticising the population for not being well enough read....

Ian Geary

5,388 posts

216 months

Sunday 6th December 2020
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67Dino said:
I’d also not remove the term from a dictionary, just flag that it was derogatory and misogynistic.


Edited by 67Dino on Sunday 6th December 08:36
This.

Ps I've read 1984. The subject of the article is nothing like the events and situation imagined by George Orwell. Not in a million years.

If you're worried about important parts of our culture being lost, I'm sure there's some old Jim Davidson comedy on the internet you can watch

67Dino

3,642 posts

129 months

Sunday 6th December 2020
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voyds9 said:
67Dino said:
Agree, this approach to avoiding offence really bothers me too. A dictionary should cover all words and phrases in common use, and just say if the terms are considered offensive.

My main objection to Essex Girl jokes isn’t the Essex bit but the Girl bit. Seems to me they are an oblique way for men to put down women generally as promiscuous and/or stupid, and therefore misogyny. For that reason, I put them in the same category as blonde jokes, and (as a man) won’t tell them myself.

That said, I’ve no objection if, for example, women told these kinds of jokes on a hen night, as the context there would be completely different. I’d also not remove the term from a dictionary, just flag that it was derogatory and misogynistic.


Edited by 67Dino on Sunday 6th December 08:36
You mean like the term toxic masculinity.
Appreciate the conciseness but left me a little unclear whether you’re agreeing with me and saying that use of the term ‘Essex Girl’ is an example of toxic masculinity, or saying that the term ‘toxic masculinity’ is as offensive to men as ‘Essex girl’ is to women. Wouldn’t want to misread your point. As it is, I agree with the former, not the latter.

XCP

17,609 posts

252 months

Sunday 6th December 2020
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At work, we used to refer to such ladies as 'fill I ups'

As in 'Wayne, take I 'ome and fill I up'

(A quote from the taxi rank on Bristol city centre.)

voyds9

8,490 posts

307 months

Sunday 6th December 2020
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67Dino said:
Appreciate the conciseness but left me a little unclear whether you’re agreeing with me and saying that use of the term ‘Essex Girl’ is an example of toxic masculinity, or saying that the term ‘toxic masculinity’ is as offensive to men as ‘Essex girl’ is to women. Wouldn’t want to misread your point. As it is, I agree with the former, not the latter.
Just trying to point out the double standards. The people who object to terms like Essex girl are often the same ones who use terms like toxic masculinity.
Feminists have fought for the rights to stop boys fighting.