Pistonheads now defines our country

Pistonheads now defines our country

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lornemalvo

Original Poster:

3,036 posts

82 months

I may leave Pistonheads (cue posts from the many trolls saying "good riddance" or "you don't need to announce it"), or perhaps limit myself to the less toxic areas of discussion, car specific stuff, perhaps. It appears more and more that many members are completely incapable of putting across an alternative argument with an opinion with which they disagree. It's straight out of the traps with personal insults.
If many on here discussed things in the pub in the same way as they do on this forum, they'd probably end up in casualty.

It occurs to me that this is exactly where we are in the country as a whole. Rabid tribalism, a complete inability to understand that someone might have a different opinion and to posit a counter argument rationally. We're becoming toxic and it's depressing.

biggbn

26,902 posts

234 months

lornemalvo said:
I may leave Pistonheads (cue posts from the many trolls saying "good riddance" or "you don't need to announce it"), or perhaps limit myself to the less toxic areas of discussion, car specific stuff, perhaps. It appears more and more that many members are completely incapable of putting across an alternative argument with an opinion with which they disagree. It's straight out of the traps with personal insults.
If many on here discussed things in the pub in the same way as they do on this forum, they'd probably end up in casualty.

It occurs to me that this is exactly where we are in the country as a whole. Rabid tribalism, a complete inability to understand that someone might have a different opinion and to posit a counter argument rationally. We're becoming toxic and it's depressing.
No we are not. Idiot. smile

Spare tyre

11,146 posts

144 months

Try to let it glide over you

If you are in a high street and hear some chavs putting the world to rights you chuckle and move on

Same when some Rupert in red trousers is sounding off



bitchstewie

58,197 posts

224 months

Dear oh dear.

Whatever happened to "free speech" and "it's just hurty words" or "nobody has the right not to be offended" hehe

valiant

12,175 posts

174 months

It's a wonder he isn't blaming immigrants. He does for virtually everything else.

And besides, this isn't an airport. You don't have to announce your departure.

Pupp

12,492 posts

286 months

biggbn said:
lornemalvo said:
I may leave Pistonheads (cue posts from the many trolls saying "good riddance" or "you don't need to announce it"), or perhaps limit myself to the less toxic areas of discussion, car specific stuff, perhaps. It appears more and more that many members are completely incapable of putting across an alternative argument with an opinion with which they disagree. It's straight out of the traps with personal insults.
If many on here discussed things in the pub in the same way as they do on this forum, they'd probably end up in casualty.

It occurs to me that this is exactly where we are in the country as a whole. Rabid tribalism, a complete inability to understand that someone might have a different opinion and to posit a counter argument rationally. We're becoming toxic and it's depressing.
No we are not. Idiot. smile
hehe

Rufus Stone

9,748 posts

70 months

bhstewie said:
Dear oh dear.

Whatever happened to "free speech" and "it's just hurty words" or "nobody has the right not to be offended" hehe
You're not helping. biggrin

fido

17,710 posts

269 months

lornemalvo said:
If many on here discussed things in the pub in the same way as they do on this forum, they'd probably end up in casualty.
Even during the Referendum there were shouty arguments in the pub and at work, and rarely did they ever get to the pushing/shoving stage! But sure people were defriended on Facebook and such forms of social exclusion.

ChevronB19

7,586 posts

177 months

That’s a very odd title? PH is by definition (largely) restricted to people interested in cars, although NP&E is a different matter, and presumably why there was a (wise) restriction put on time of membership and number of posts in other sub-forums.

Unfortunately, some people who qualify for NP&E now post exclusively in NP&E to the exclusion of all else, whether through ‘grandfather’ rights or ‘grifting’ to qualify.

I don’t mind debate, and as far as I’m aware I’ve never done anything that could be considered as anything other than a challenge to something I disagree with. So I’d encourage you to stay, even if I and others disagree with some things you might say. A society where people can’t debate disagreements is not a good society.

I post in lots of other sub forums as I’m sure you do. I’m not keen on people who restrict themselves solely to NP&E. ‘We’ are a very small proportion of society but tend to think we represent the whole of society (and I’ve been guilty of that myself).

Inertiatic

1,497 posts

204 months

Its always been the way, but we are now able to speak to the other tribes via this internet thing, and hide and lie behind our keyboards.

Pistonheads is an interesting one. I'm a lefty liberal eco nutter (in PH terms) and see PH as, on the whole, centre-right.

However, there are some knowledgeable people and only a small proportion of nutters / obvious trolls that generally get called out. Being a car forum some of the views on things like climate are far from unbias as a result, but most seem to be fairly sensible.

andymadmak

15,035 posts

284 months

Lest we forget:

Justayellowbadge said:
Be excellent to one another, and party on dudes.

Funk

26,766 posts

223 months

I'm becoming more convinced by the day that there are a significant and growing number of accounts on PH created solely for the purpose of pushing specific talking points or narratives of certain interest groups/organisations/parties. They're the ones that post vociferously on certain 'hot-topic' threads but pay passing lip service to posting on other threads (if at all). Whereas if you look at my posting history it's everywhere from Lego threads to Windows tech queries, YouTube vids, health-related stuff, fragrances as well as some current affairs and news etc etc. That's a 'normal' posting pattern imo.

Edited by Funk on Monday 9th June 15:28

StoutBench

1,021 posts

42 months

PH would be a much more pleasant place without NP&E. But I imagine it makes the owners a lot of revenue so will continue.

isaldiri

21,712 posts

182 months

Inertiatic said:
Its always been the way, but we are now able to speak to the other tribes via this internet thing, and hide and lie behind our keyboards.
....
Or it's more that people increasingly are only prepared to listen to 'their' own tribe (who are telling them what they already agree on) and therefore view any deviation from that view as something only possible from someone who clearly is a 'bad' person who needs to be roundly condemned for disagreeing.

dundarach

5,638 posts

242 months

I've not noticed much of a change in my time.

Slightly less powerfully built directorial types, same amount of bedroom billionaires.

I've always found this place quite a good training ground for tackling Reddit cockwombles, but that's just me.

milesgiles

2,150 posts

43 months

Never heard of you

Countdown

44,210 posts

210 months

valiant said:
It's a wonder he isn't blaming immigrants. He does for virtually everything else.

And besides, this isn't an airport. You don't have to announce your departure.
Well you do if you have a massively overinflated ego.

Byker28i

73,728 posts

231 months

andymadmak said:
Lest we forget:

Justayellowbadge said:
Be excellent to one another, and party on dudes.
Should that be Lest we forget - Speed Matters? biggrin

valiant

12,175 posts

174 months

StoutBench said:
PH would be a much more pleasant place without NP&E. But I imagine it makes the owners a lot of revenue so will continue.
Understandable but it does keep a lot of stuff corralled in one area that's easy to avoid.

Keep the crazies in one place!



Byker28i

73,728 posts

231 months

Funk said:
I'm becoming more convinced by the day that there are a significant and growing number of accounts on PH created solely for the purpose of pushing specific talking points or narratives of certain interest groups/organisations/parties. They're the ones that post vociferously on certain 'hot-topic' threads but pay passing lip service to posting on other threads (if at all). Whereas if you look at my posting history it's everywhere from Lego threads to Windows tech queries, YouTube vids, health-related stuff, fragrances as well as some current affairs and news etc etc. That's a 'normal' posting pattern imo.

Edited by Funk on Monday 9th June 15:28
PH has a huge membership. It's to be expected there will be agitators trying to cause unrest, it's part of modern warfare now.