Girls and young women in UK alter behaviour to feel safe
Girls and young women in UK alter behaviour to feel safe
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butchstewie

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66,750 posts

238 months

Wednesday 24th September 2025
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It would be lovely if this thread didn't get closed down like the last one about the Jog On campaign because some people can't accept that migrants aren't single handedly responsible for this filth.

Shocking statistics and something that should make anyone think what the hell we are teaching our boys and men.

Majority of girls and young women in UK alter behaviour to feel safe, study finds

"Overall, 68% said they changed their everyday behaviour to avoid being sexually harassed, with one in three (32%) altering what they wear. More than a quarter (28%) of the 2,640 respondents said they had avoided places where they used to socialise and one in 10 (12%) changed where they exercise."

swisstoni

23,654 posts

307 months

Wednesday 24th September 2025
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What are your thoughts?

butchstewie

Original Poster:

66,750 posts

238 months

Wednesday 24th September 2025
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When you've got the likes of Andrew Tate being dripped in boys and young mens ears and seen by what I think are too many people as someone that should be listened to along with men that get far too defensive about some of the behaviours that cause girls and women to feel that way I'm not as surprised as I think I should be that in 2025 it's not only still and issue but in some areas it's more of an issue than it was previously.

As the article says though it's the girls and women we should be asking and more importantly listening to.

dundarach

6,168 posts

256 months

Wednesday 24th September 2025
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I'm an ugly 53 year old ginger fella who wears specs, I've ALWAYS altered my behviour to feel safe.

To be honest other than the billy big balls types I see who think they're hard men, I think most of us do don't we?

Some Gump

13,018 posts

214 months

Wednesday 24th September 2025
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All humans alter their behaviour often for various situations, unless that was a very well thought out set of questions, i'm not sure strong conclusions could come from it.



Terminator X

20,250 posts

232 months

Wednesday 24th September 2025
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dundarach said:
I'm an ugly 53 year old ginger fella who wears specs, I've ALWAYS altered my behviour to feel safe.

To be honest other than the billy big balls types I see who think they're hard men, I think most of us do don't we?
8bn people 4bn men, there are bound to be a few tts. As horrible as it is you will never get rid of them all.

TX.

Ridgemont

9,415 posts

159 months

Wednesday 24th September 2025
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I suspect I will regret this as no doubt there will be a predictable response.

However I’m not sure that random sexual assaults are Tate’s style.
He’s got all the profile of a groomer. And his cadre probably follow the same MO (look at my car, my cigar etc)

However there is an ongoing issue which may be related.

https://www.infomigrants.net/en/post/66236/uk-is-t...

Rivenink

4,292 posts

134 months

Wednesday 24th September 2025
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Not all men.

It's the immigrants innit.

And the transgenders.

What do you mean women feel threatened when a bunch of drunken men shout "get yer tits out for the lads" at them? It's just banter.

Did I do it right?

hiccy18

4,045 posts

95 months

Wednesday 24th September 2025
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Do the same study for boys and young men. Might be a while back for me, but I remember considering where and how I travelled.

Some people are dicks; last one I met was female, but certainly no lady.

Ridgemont

9,415 posts

159 months

Wednesday 24th September 2025
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Rivenink said:
Not all men.

It's the immigrants innit.

And the transgenders.

What do you mean women feel threatened when a bunch of drunken men shout "get yer tits out for the lads" at them? It's just banter.

Did I do it right?
That "get yer tits out for the lads" has been a factor for decades if not centuries.
I don’t see anything in culture that has changed that. I’m sure many of us lived through the lad mag era (loaded, nuts etc). It didn’t measurably change the metric.
Tate may have in recent years but as I say it’s not his mo.
Weird imported behaviours as Germany experienced re the Cologne nonsense, isn’t just migrant blaming. That actually happened.

BikeBikeBIke

14,372 posts

143 months

Wednesday 24th September 2025
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I parked my car the other side of a short tunnel tonight. When I went back it was dark. So I took the long way round to avoid the tunnel to avoid getting mugged/bummed/beaten up whatever.

I'm astonished that 30% of women are so reckless that they never alter their behaviour. Seems like common sense to me.

sparta6

5,371 posts

128 months

Wednesday 24th September 2025
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"32% reported seeing a teacher or member of staff subjected to sexist or misogynistic abuse."

kids running the show, tragic state of cotton-wool UK

brake fader

2,543 posts

63 months

Wednesday 24th September 2025
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As numbers of people from different cultures who don't see girls and women as equals rise it's understandable that some will have to suffer for the sake of diversity as we have been told before by the labour MP Naz Shah and apparently Jess Phillips chooses to ignore it for votes no wonder there are many women who feel unsafe in fact it's not only sexual attacks but terror attacks are also a big worry for anyone.

Countdown

48,958 posts

224 months

Wednesday 24th September 2025
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Anybody with a wife or adult daughters, or female friends, will already be aware of this; in short there are a lot of pathetic blokes out there who have no idea about how to interact with women. Being perved on in public places, on nights out, or at the gym, or just going for a run is common place. And if you ignore them you get called various names or worse.

krisdelta

4,670 posts

229 months

Wednesday 24th September 2025
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If this is a surprise to any men, then fair enough. But, frankly - for women, the world doesn't feel inherently safe. I've never been shouted at when out for a run, or had people making comments from a building site, or being inappropriate in the workplace - but it happens to women all the time, and that is the "easier" end of it. When you are (or feel like) prey, anyone could be a predator.

Gecko1978

12,302 posts

185 months

Wednesday 24th September 2025
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GB news this evening rapes have more than trebled since 2015. 75% of rapes are committed by British born people....they didn't describe it that way but focused on the 25%.

Truth is if you could get a 25% reduction in rapes no one would see it as a bad thing it would stull mean we had a load of wring uns still here though

Lo-Fi

1,289 posts

98 months

Wednesday 24th September 2025
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Countdown said:
Anybody with a wife or adult daughters, or female friends, will already be aware of this; in short there are a lot of pathetic blokes out there who have no idea about how to interact with women. Being perved on in public places, on nights out, or at the gym, or just going for a run is common place. And if you ignore them you get called various names or worse.
Sadly, not just 'adult' daughters. It starts way before adulthood.

captain_cynic

16,873 posts

123 months

Thursday 25th September 2025
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Gecko1978 said:
GB news this evening rapes have more than trebled since 2015. 75% of rapes are committed by British born people....they didn't describe it that way but focused on the 25%.
Don't suppose they put 2 and 2 together and thought about who came into power with a majority in 2015 or a rather large event in 2016?

GBeeBees, the only people who could put 2 and 2 together and come up with."purple".

swisstoni

23,654 posts

307 months

Thursday 25th September 2025
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Gecko1978 said:
GB news this evening rapes have more than trebled since 2015. 75% of rapes are committed by British born people....they didn't describe it that way but focused on the 25%.

Truth is if you could get a 25% reduction in rapes no one would see it as a bad thing it would stull mean we had a load of wring uns still here though
If any country was told that rapes had more than trebled in tha last 10 years and 25% of all rapes were committed by foreigners you would expect there to be a reaction to that news.

rodericb

8,782 posts

154 months

Thursday 25th September 2025
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swisstoni said:
Gecko1978 said:
GB news this evening rapes have more than trebled since 2015. 75% of rapes are committed by British born people....they didn't describe it that way but focused on the 25%.

Truth is if you could get a 25% reduction in rapes no one would see it as a bad thing it would stull mean we had a load of wring uns still here though
If any country was told that rapes had more than trebled in tha last 10 years and 25% of all rapes were committed by foreigners you would expect there to be a reaction to that news.
Depends on who is doing the reacting and for whom such facts are an inconvenient truth. I see that a very broad brush has been used in that 75% figure to, well, obfuscate the facts. "British born" doesn't absolutely mean descended from Saxons and draped in the cross of St George but people are going to assume that, especially as self-loathing is an active Anglo pastime.

The fact is that the folk getting up to things which make girls and young women want to alter their behaviour can range from the blue-blood senior partner at some high falutin' consulting/accounting/law firm, a teenage boy who sees girls being told they can do anything and achieve anything in life while they are left with Andrew Tate to be their sole role model, a twenty-something man who has lived their whole life in a cultural silo which has views on females which are very different to western.views and many more. But that's not to say all males are like that - it's a tiny percentage.