We have no idea what other people endure
We have no idea what other people endure
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Castrol for a knave

Original Poster:

6,884 posts

113 months

Thursday 23rd October 2025
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I spotted this looking at another link and it's made my blood run cold.

https://www.theargus.co.uk/news/25547813.sussex-gi...

I hate to think we share the world with these sort of people.

Christ knows how the victim get through this. Imagine being so helpless, that every person who should protect you, is your captor and abuser. It's beyond horror.

How the police, safeguarding teams and jury personally deal with crimes such as this. I have a friend who was involved investigating such crimes, and he's almost a broken man.


James B

1,362 posts

266 months

Thursday 23rd October 2025
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Good lord. That's a harrowing read.

We can only hope the family members get the cell with Ian Watkins old cellmates......

Glassman

24,303 posts

237 months

Thursday 23rd October 2025
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Vile people.

Why haven't they been named? Because doing so would identify the victim?

98elise

31,159 posts

183 months

Thursday 23rd October 2025
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Horrific. How can one family be so vile?


ATG

22,822 posts

294 months

Thursday 23rd October 2025
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98elise said:
Horrific. How can one family be so vile?
Probably because they were all sexually abused themselves. Victims frequently become abusers. That'd explain why you've got at least three generations of abusers in one family. You've probably got at least three generations of victims too. Makes the "I hope they get bummed/murdered in prison" sentiment a bit harder to justify.

Rough101

2,928 posts

97 months

Thursday 23rd October 2025
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This is learned behaviour going back generations.

No excuses, they can rot wherever.

Twizy Warren

157 posts

8 months

Thursday 23rd October 2025
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ATG said:
Probably because they were all sexually abused themselves. Victims frequently become abusers.
This is a common myth that is often unhelpful in survivor recovery. Studies end to show about 35% of abusers were abused as a child themselves. So although there is clearly a link in some cases, its not as frequent as a lot of people think.

Chrisgr31

14,195 posts

277 months

Thursday 23rd October 2025
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ATG said:
Probably because they were all sexually abused themselves. Victims frequently become abusers. That'd explain why you've got at least three generations of abusers in one family. You've probably got at least three generations of victims too. Makes the "I hope they get bummed/murdered in prison" sentiment a bit harder to justify.
That explanation does make sense and I am sure I have heard before about abusers doing their own abusing. You’d hope that being abused would decrease the risk of abuse not increase it, but I guess it almost normalises it.