Lesson Learned. Girlfriend Content.
Lesson Learned. Girlfriend Content.
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Original Poster:

9,787 posts

165 months

Sunday 10th October 2021
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Letter in financial agony aunt pages of Times today.

Guy let's girlfriend book them a holiday using his credit card. £622.

They split up. He phoned holiday co to cancel. Told nothing to do with you booked in name of girlfriend. In fact by the time he phoned his name had been taken off and replaced with one of her pals.

Card company also told him to do one. No section 75 applied as merchant had provided service. No refund as card was used with his permission.

Sounds like he is well shot. Might be cheap in the long run.

MitchT

17,117 posts

238 months

Sunday 10th October 2021
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If that's the direction that her moral compass points in then it's £622 well spent.

TwigtheWonderkid

48,984 posts

179 months

Sunday 10th October 2021
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MitchT said:
If that's the direction that her moral compass points in then it's £622 well spent.
Definitely. He got a bargain there.

Bobtherallyfan

1,513 posts

107 months

Sunday 10th October 2021
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Why doesn’t he simply say the card wasn’t used with his permission which presumably means it’s fraud. Gets his money back and drops the ex with a criminal conviction. Sorted.

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Original Poster:

9,787 posts

165 months

Sunday 10th October 2021
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Bobtherallyfan said:
Why doesn’t he simply say the card wasn’t used with his permission which presumably means it’s fraud. Gets his money back and drops the ex with a criminal conviction. Sorted.
Because two wrongs don't make right. In any case a tough one to prove when the card was used o book a joint holiday.

J1990

847 posts

82 months

Sunday 10th October 2021
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I'm not sure I've got any sympathy really... I don't think this is an issue for the travel agent or for the credit card provider. This is a relationship problem and he allowed her to use his card to book something in her name. Regardless of whether he was supposed to be going with her or not he hasn't left himself with a leg to stand on.

£622? The man should be rubbing his hands together and thanking his lucky stars it wasn't substantially more.

EFH189

1,595 posts

70 months

Sunday 10th October 2021
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£622 for the bullet to dodge her sounds decent.

LeadFarmer

7,411 posts

160 months

Sunday 10th October 2021
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Bobtherallyfan said:
Why doesn’t he simply say the card wasn’t used with his permission which presumably means it’s fraud. Gets his money back and drops the ex with a criminal conviction. Sorted.
Because he would be committing fraud. One word against the others so no proof for conviction, more of a civil matter, so why risk committing fraud yourself especially when when there's no benefit. They would say he should have reported the fraud at the time, plus he's already told them it was with his permission.

Iminquarantine

2,168 posts

73 months

Sunday 10th October 2021
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If it was not £622, but £62,220 you could still be saying afterwards, “that could have been a lot worse”. Bargain of the year.

Enut

1,003 posts

102 months

Sunday 10th October 2021
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Yep, a bargain at £622.

He should probably make sure anyone else interested in dating her knows this story too, forewarned is forearmed.

Simpo Two

92,708 posts

294 months

Sunday 10th October 2021
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Iminquarantine said:
If it was not £622, but £62,220 you could still be saying afterwards, “that could have been a lot worse”. Bargain of the year.
Indeed, I have a friend who suffered a similar stunt maybe 15 years ago - and is still paying it off.

vulture1

13,755 posts

208 months

Sunday 10th October 2021
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Turn up at the airport and take the seat next to her

Mr_Megalomaniac

1,273 posts

95 months

Monday 11th October 2021
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Bobtherallyfan said:
Why doesn’t he simply say the card wasn’t used with his permission which presumably means it’s fraud. Gets his money back and drops the ex with a criminal conviction. Sorted.
I agree it sounds like fraud. That's the route I'd take in such a scenario at least.
Monday 11th October 2021
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Small Claims? At least he might have the satisfaction of getting a CCJ against her, even if it's only for his half of the holiday.