Splitting assets
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bluesandtwos

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357 posts

284 months

Sunday 20th August 2023
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Can anyone offer any advice?
Two main questions.

1. Couple are separating and want to split their assets.
There isn't anything complex except one thing. Several years ago the in laws gifted some money.
I, ahem, I mean my friend, wants to give that money back to the other half.
Say the estate is worth £500,000 and the in laws gifted £50,000.

Does she get 250+50. So 300 and I get 200. Or does she get 250+25 (my half?) and I get £225?
Bit confused by all this. Tried to excel it but I cant fully figure out if I should give the full sum or if her "half" of the estate already has half of it in it? If that makes sense?

2. Is there a good / preferred way to record all this? I need to sell car, various physical assets, split up savings and what not.

Everything is 50/50 and there no debt etc so other than point 1 it should be simple?

Would rather not pay solicitors etc...

2 GKC

2,266 posts

129 months

Sunday 20th August 2023
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Take the 50 out and split the rest. 275 and 225

bluesandtwos

Original Poster:

357 posts

284 months

Sunday 20th August 2023
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So say its 500.
Take 50k and put in her account.
Then split the remain 50/50 so 225 x 2.

Thats the right way yes?

secret_stu

61 posts

64 months

Sunday 20th August 2023
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Her: ((500-50)/2)+50=275
Him: ((500-50)/2)=225

BoRED S2upid

20,996 posts

264 months

Sunday 20th August 2023
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Sounds fair to me. If she accepts that you’ve won.

Countdown

47,791 posts

220 months

Sunday 20th August 2023
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bluesandtwos said:
2. Is there a good / preferred way to record all this? I need to sell car, various physical assets, split up savings and what not.
Rather than sell the physical assets you might be better off if you both agree to a value and then one of you keep it in lieu of cash. i would suggest the car is probably worth more to you than the cash which you might get from selling it.

DaveRed08

44 posts

104 months

Monday 21st August 2023
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I've not been married or been through any of this, but my advice would be to spend a bit of money on a solicitor. It sounds like it's an amicable decision which would arguably save some time (and therefore money?) but that way you know any agreement is binding in law and nothing will come back to bite you

Murph7355

40,984 posts

280 months

Monday 21st August 2023
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bluesandtwos said:
So say its 500.
Take 50k and put in her account.
Then split the remain 50/50 so 225 x 2.

Thats the right way yes?
Yes.

Did they both contribute equally to the upkeep and general input into the "estate"? Where houses are concerned, for example, this is at least as important as the end value.

rigga

8,801 posts

225 months

Tuesday 22nd August 2023
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BoRED S2upid said:
Sounds fair to me. If she accepts that you’ve won.
It does sound fair.

Not sure the second point will materialize.


Does anyone, ever have an amicable split ?