Credit Card Debt on Death
Credit Card Debt on Death
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the_g_ster

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379 posts

219 months

Wednesday 15th January 2025
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Hello,

Random one, but extended family member passed with some pretty hefty credit card debt, that partner didn't know about.

Partner is finding out about now, and doesn't want to pay it, as feels (understandably) that not their debt to pay.

Solicitor says needs to be paid, and if it's ignored, they will come after surviving partner on distribution of the estate.

Impact of paying means some real difficulty for the surviving partner. Has anyone ever had experience of that, guessing it does need to be paid.

Thanks in advance.

blue_haddock

4,882 posts

91 months

Wednesday 15th January 2025
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If there is any value in his estate such as property etc then it will need paying off.

Despite many people think so, debt does not die with the debtor.

Richard-D

2,028 posts

88 months

Wednesday 15th January 2025
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The 'distribution of estate' comment suggests there is money to (at least partially) pay off the debt.

The executor will probably need to change the way the partner is viewing this. There may or may not be money to distribute once the estate debts are settled.

PeteTaylor99

154 posts

20 months

Wednesday 15th January 2025
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As Blue above states

OP, to be clear this is not a creditor chasing a third party(a beneficiary or spouse). This is a creditor claiming the outstanding debt(of the deceased) against the deceased estate. The executor has a legal obligation to settle all debts before making any distributions to beneficiaries.

If the credit card balance is valid-worth checking. The bank may well negotiate re accrued interest post death.

the_g_ster

Original Poster:

379 posts

219 months

Wednesday 15th January 2025
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They died with no will.

The administrator, will of course be the surviving partner. They are looking at selling the house if need to pay, or cashing in pension to pay.

They are completely in disbelief that this could happen, knew nothing about it. Seems deceased had some kind of gambling addiction.

Pedro25

388 posts

54 months

Wednesday 15th January 2025
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My stepfather passed some years ago, credit card company bombarded my mum with threats as to paying the debt, it was around £8k I recall, all on betting at the local bookies. He left nothing in his estate, the card was in his name only, transactions all on betting. All letters addressed to him even after I supplied copies of the death certificate to them, I was visiting mum a while later when her phone rang and it was the debt collection dept of the CC company again stating mum needed to pay the debt. I asked if her name was on the card or a joint card, answer no, had any letters been sent to my mum in her name stating the outstanding debt, answer again no all letters sent in my SF name up to a year after they had seen proof that he wasn't alive anymore. Asked them not to call again, got a final letter addressed to the SF stating debt was written off. This guy was nearly 80 years old and had never paid anything back over 3 years, I did manage to find a letter from them that increased his limit to £7k despite never having had a payment from him over the previous use of the card. He played them for 3 plus years and died owing the money, they just went after the weakest link in this case my mum.

Countdown

47,629 posts

220 months

Wednesday 15th January 2025
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the_g_ster said:
Hello,

Random one, but extended family member passed with some pretty hefty credit card debt, that partner didn't know about.

Partner is finding out about now, and doesn't want to pay it, as feels (understandably) that not their debt to pay.

Solicitor says needs to be paid, and if it's ignored, they will come after surviving partner on distribution of the estate.

Impact of paying means some real difficulty for the surviving partner. Has anyone ever had experience of that, guessing it does need to be paid.

Thanks in advance.
Apologieas if I've missed something - the partner wouldn't be paying it, it would be the estate of the deceased.

the_g_ster

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379 posts

219 months

Wednesday 15th January 2025
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@Countdown, yes, my bad english. But she had no savings, so possible that will need to sell their family house to pay the debts. Hence partner is wondering about cashing in pension in order to save having to sell the house.

LimmerickLad

6,331 posts

39 months

Wednesday 15th January 2025
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the_g_ster said:
@Countdown, yes, my bad english. But she had no savings, so possible that will need to sell their family house to pay the debts. Hence partner is wondering about cashing in pension in order to save having to sell the house.
Doubt they could force her to sell her share of the house or her pension..it's was his debt not hers....get her to have a free 30 mins chat with a solicitor.

Mr Pointy

12,876 posts

183 months

Wednesday 15th January 2025
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the_g_ster said:
They died with no will.

The administrator, will of course be the surviving partner. They are looking at selling the house if need to pay, or cashing in pension to pay.

They are completely in disbelief that this could happen, knew nothing about it. Seems deceased had some kind of gambling addiction.
I suggest that you/they get some legal advice or contact the Citizen's Advice Bureau to establish what the situation is regarding them forcing a sale of the house if that's the only meaningful asset. if you can establish a pattern of them raising any credit limits you might also find that is a lever to negotiate the debt down.

Guyr

2,524 posts

306 months

Wednesday 15th January 2025
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They need to get some legal advice. Depending on how the property is held it may pass automatically to the remaining partner without a will, if it is Jointly held.

This might lead to the situation where the deceased has no assets that can be chased for the debt and the other party is not normally liable.

LooneyTunes

9,040 posts

182 months

Wednesday 15th January 2025
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LimmerickLad said:
the_g_ster said:
@Countdown, yes, my bad english. But she had no savings, so possible that will need to sell their family house to pay the debts. Hence partner is wondering about cashing in pension in order to save having to sell the house.
Doubt they could force her to sell her share of the house or her pension..it's was his debt not hers....get her to have a free 30 mins chat with a solicitor.
That’s not what the OP is suggesting?

From the OP’s posts, the debtor has enough assets in the form of their share of the house, but the only options for the surviving partner are to sell the house (to unlock the deceased’s share) or cash in part of their pension to effectively buy out the dead party’s share of the house (leaving the deceased’s estate with cash which can then be used to settle the debt).

I don’t think they have ever indicated that the surviving partner is being pursued. Any “coming after” the surviving partner would presumable be on the basis of the estate being maladministered if they don’t deal with the debt before distributing.

asfault

13,581 posts

203 months

Wednesday 15th January 2025
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Surely if a person is married the debt is shared. otherwise youd be using your other money to live on and have fun etc all the while spending or gambling on a credit card.

DanL

6,586 posts

289 months

Wednesday 15th January 2025
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nuyorican said:
blue_haddock said:
Despite many people think so, debt does not die with the debtor.
It does if you don't have anything. How could it be otherwise?
Surely that would be the debt being written off, as the debtor’s estate didn’t have funds to cover it? That’s not the same as the debt dying…

E.g. die with 10k debt and 5k assets. The estate (from what’s written in the thread) would pay 5k to the creditor as that’s all that was left, and 5k would be written off by the creditor. Any dependents inherit nothing, but equally don’t have to find another 5k to fully settle the debt of the deceased.

DanL

6,586 posts

289 months

Wednesday 15th January 2025
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nuyorican said:
Die/Written Off. what's the difference?
Automatic vs. a decision being made.

Simpo Two

91,519 posts

289 months

Wednesday 15th January 2025
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Just want to check on something.

When my mother died there was a care bill of about £13K owing. As Attorney and then Executor I offered £10K and it was accepted.

Could I have told them to stick it where the sun don't shine?

TownIdiot

3,527 posts

23 months

Wednesday 15th January 2025
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Simpo Two said:
Just want to check on something.

When my mother died there was a care bill of about £13K owing. As Attorney and then Executor I offered £10K and it was accepted.

Could I have told them to stick it where the sun don't shine?
If she didn't have any assets yes

Simpo Two

91,519 posts

289 months

Wednesday 15th January 2025
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TownIdiot said:
Simpo Two said:
Just want to check on something.

When my mother died there was a care bill of about £13K owing. As Attorney and then Executor I offered £10K and it was accepted.

Could I have told them to stick it where the sun don't shine?
If she didn't have any assets yes
She had assets so I guess the answer is no... in which case I was quite lucky the council accepted my offer. Thanks for clarifying!

craig1912

4,386 posts

136 months

Wednesday 15th January 2025
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It’s payable from the estate. This explains it well

https://www.legalandgeneral.com/insurance/over-50-...

Dave _

209 posts

143 months

Wednesday 15th January 2025
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asfault said:
Surely if a person is married the debt is shared. otherwise youd be using your other money to live on and have fun etc all the while spending or gambling on a credit card.
No, only if it’s a joint debt. Though the estate of the deceased is still liable for their debts. All debts should be paid off before any assets of the deceased are distributed to inheritors.