How much pocket money do you give a teenager?
How much pocket money do you give a teenager?
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M4cruiser

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4,581 posts

168 months

Sunday 21st September
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As per the title, how much should a teenager get? Say for 14, 15, 16 and 17 year olds (I assume it goes up as they get older).
They have a bank account, so no "cash" as such.
Just to clarify, separate from their needs for travel to school and lunch, that's dealt with separately.

Advice welcome.

Badda

3,377 posts

100 months

Sunday 21st September
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My 14 year old gets £10/wk.

dundarach

5,816 posts

246 months

Sunday 21st September
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14 & 16 never given pocket money, tend to give them money when required.

Also they understand that things like Spotify, Apple TV, Xbox, iCloud storage and on and on ... Need paying for monthly!

Not forgetting (which I did) rugby subs, dancing subs, gym subs and on and on

Badda

3,377 posts

100 months

Sunday 21st September
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dundarach said:
14 & 16 never given pocket money, tend to give them money when required.

Also they understand that things like Spotify, Apple TV, Xbox, iCloud storage and on and on ... Need paying for monthly!

Not forgetting (which I did) rugby subs, dancing subs, gym subs and on and on
Sports subs aside, some of the ongoing costs such as PlayStation subs etc, I get the kids to pay out of their pocket money in the hope they appreciate the concept a little more. So if they cancel a sub, their ‘income’ goes up.

bristolbaron

5,293 posts

230 months

Sunday 21st September
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Mine are younger and have incentive charts where they can earn up to £7 per week completing basic chores - making bed, laying table etc. As teenagers this will be £10 with scope to earn more if they have a bigger goal.

WH16

7,553 posts

236 months

Sunday 21st September
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Mine get £1 per year per week. The boy currently on on £13/week, the girl £11, paid into their GoHenry accounts. For this they are expected to keep rooms clean, put away laundry, entertain the baby etc. They also get a school house points bonus paid at the end of each term, usually around the £50-100 mark depending on behaviour.

loskie

6,486 posts

138 months

Sunday 21st September
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Just out of curiosity why use a product that charges?

Familymad

1,440 posts

235 months

Sunday 21st September
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dundarach said:
14 & 16 never given pocket money, tend to give them money when required.

Also they understand that things like Spotify, Apple TV, Xbox, iCloud storage and on and on ... Need paying for monthly!

Not forgetting (which I did) rugby subs, dancing subs, gym subs and on and on
Same

Badda

3,377 posts

100 months

Sunday 21st September
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Anyone else tax theirs?
This latest fiscal year I’ve introduced a 90% tax regime. They’re free to live elsewhere!

TheRainMaker

7,301 posts

260 months

Sunday 21st September
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Badda said:
Anyone else tax theirs?
Ours have what I call “Opening tax”

This covers sweats, ice cream etc.

A percentage is eaten by me hehe

98elise

30,486 posts

179 months

Sunday 21st September
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I used to give mine £20 a month (about 10 years ago) and they could earn more by doing stuff around the house. It was all small stuff like making their beds, loading the dishwasher etc. Each job was marked on a tick sheet in the kitchen, and a certain number of ticks = £5.

The_Doc

5,709 posts

238 months

Tuesday 23rd September
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loskie said:
Just out of curiosity why use a product that charges?
Agree. HSBC for both mine, free banking and parallel savings acounts paying 5% I think.

Go Henry and Hyoerjar and whatever are an expensive way if doing it.

fat80b

3,034 posts

239 months

Tuesday 23rd September
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The_Doc said:
loskie said:
Just out of curiosity why use a product that charges?
Agree. HSBC for both mine, free banking and parallel savings acounts paying 5% I think.

Go Henry and Hyoerjar and whatever are an expensive way if doing it.
Same - I initially looked around for the "best" kids accounts and cards, and all the articles push the likes of Go Henry etc, but it seems mad (to me) to pay (and it's not cheap either!) for a service that is free...

We ended up with Monzo accounts for me and the kids. It took 2 minutes to setup, my account was opened and added to my iPhone immediately, the kids cards arrived in the post within 72 hours.


phil-sti

2,917 posts

197 months

Tuesday 23rd September
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Never done pocket money but they just get money as and when. if they want something thats realistically out of pocket money range then they have to do extra jobs around the house.

dontlookdown

2,255 posts

111 months

Tuesday 23rd September
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My daughter was up to, as I recall, £20 a week before she went to uni and it all got a lot more expensive;)

She paid for her (non-school clothes) and going out from that. Phone, Spotify I paid for (and still do, still working on when that subsidy should end). She also worked part time from 16 on, saved some of that and spent the rest on holidays, trips out etc.

ETA, started her on ca £5 a week when she was 10, if I remember rightly.

From a financial awareness pov, her part time jobs in a music shop and a few cafes/restaurants have made more impression on her than pocket money. Nothing like getting paid (by someone who isn't your dad) for your own endeavours to clarify the value of money.

Edited by dontlookdown on Tuesday 23 September 09:54

Benny Saltstein

739 posts

231 months

Tuesday 23rd September
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17 year old gets £20/wk, 15 year old gets £15/wk

They both have cheap SIMs which I pay alongside clubs etc.


asfault

13,341 posts

197 months

Tuesday 23rd September
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WH16 said:
Mine get £1 per year per week. The boy currently on on £13/week, the girl £11, paid into their GoHenry accounts. For this they are expected to keep rooms clean, put away laundry, entertain the baby etc. They also get a school house points bonus paid at the end of each term, usually around the £50-100 mark depending on behaviour.
Don't they lose £1.50 a month in charges from go hendry? First thing i'll be teaching my niece and nephew when they are older is about paying for things they shouldnt.

Yorkshire Dangermouse

36 posts

79 months

Tuesday 23rd September
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£50 per month for our 16 year old, by DD into his bank account.

We cover xBox subscriptions, sports club fees etc along with the other household costs. If he's not pulling his weight with schoolwork or chores, there is a 'first verbal warning'...

hacksaw

802 posts

135 months

Tuesday 23rd September
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My kids lifestyles today are very different to my own when I was their age, giving pocket money doesn't work for us.
Smaller amounts are given out as required and as requested, based on behaviour and school / college performance.
My youngest, 14, has an Iphone 16 on contract, plus PS plus subscription. On top of this he has a months trip to Peru planned for next year which isn't cheap! If he goes out with his mates or so on, I'll give him some extra spending money but giving a fixed amount on top of what he already receives, nah.
My eldest was at college at 17. Phone, driving lessons, buying, insuring and fuelling a car for her, on top of a teenage girls requests for clothes, makeup etc, meant no pocket money there either, but, we happily gave her a lump to go off and do camp America. About to start her first full time job so hopefully we will be seeing a drop in demands!

oyster

13,250 posts

266 months

Tuesday 23rd September
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WH16 said:
Mine get £1 per year per week. The boy currently on on £13/week, the girl £11, paid into their GoHenry accounts. For this they are expected to keep rooms clean, put away laundry, entertain the baby etc. They also get a school house points bonus paid at the end of each term, usually around the £50-100 mark depending on behaviour.
Gender pay gap?!!