Best area to live in the south east for £250k?
Best area to live in the south east for £250k?
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Leicesterdave

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2,288 posts

209 months

Tuesday 27th December 2022
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Yep…. Budget is extremely limited!

We just want a change from the North and Wakefield… I want a better life for the kids.

One is 14 and the other 3. My other half is Eastern European.

We’d consider anywhere from Southampton to Kent. It’ll clearly have to be a 2 bed somewhere.
I like the idea of being closer to the sea… the continent… and London occasionally.

The downside is clearly the cost! The south is horrendously expensive but I guess for a reason?

Any advice, pointers, etc much appreciated!

Alorotom

12,780 posts

216 months

Tuesday 27th December 2022
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Leicesterdave said:
Yep…. Budget is extremely limited!

We just want a change from the North and Wakefield… I want a better life for the kids.

One is 14 and the other 3. My other half is Eastern European.

We’d consider anywhere from Southampton to Kent. It’ll clearly have to be a 2 bed somewhere.
I like the idea of being closer to the sea… the continent… and London occasionally.

The downside is clearly the cost! The south is horrendously expensive but I guess for a reason?

Any advice, pointers, etc much appreciated!
What makes you think the SE will give your kids a better life?

Wakefield isn't really North - it's not even North Yorkshire.

What constitutes a 'better life' as being close to the sea and the continent are somewhat meaningless?

I would argue that moving further North with less financial pressures, bigger open spaces, less crime and violence, dark sky, etc. would provide better.


ETA - with a low budget the resultant area for living will likely be worse too and therefore a big negative esp for the kids.

Edited by Alorotom on Tuesday 27th December 07:39

trickywoo

14,134 posts

259 months

Tuesday 27th December 2022
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2 bed with a 14 and 3 year old?

Kent is cheaper than central south east for sure but won’t necessarily be a good place to be.

I’d be wary of thinking any move south is positive:

Louis Balfour

28,176 posts

251 months

Tuesday 27th December 2022
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Leicesterdave said:
Yep…. Budget is extremely limited!

We just want a change from the North and Wakefield… I want a better life for the kids.

One is 14 and the other 3. My other half is Eastern European.

We’d consider anywhere from Southampton to Kent. It’ll clearly have to be a 2 bed somewhere.
I like the idea of being closer to the sea… the continent… and London occasionally.

The downside is clearly the cost! The south is horrendously expensive but I guess for a reason?

Any advice, pointers, etc much appreciated!
The South East is not all milk and honey. Furthermore, with a limited housing budget, you'll have a less nice place to live than you have currently.

The South East is busier, less friendly and has a less good work-life balance, in my experience - and it's where I am from.

However, if you are determined to head off down there, the Medway Towns have relatively low-priced housing, whilst being fairly near to London and the coast.






GranpaB

19,807 posts

65 months

Tuesday 27th December 2022
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£250k?

laugh

I've got a nice Bluebird you can have for that.

Royal Jelly

3,974 posts

227 months

Tuesday 27th December 2022
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I can’t see it as a good move for the reasons the OP states.

For a better quality of life on a more restrained budget, I’d wager getting into the countryside further north - the Dales/Moors etc.

Wide open spaces, more house for less money, nature, less congestion, friendlier folk, good driving roads (this is PH).

The dealbreaker there is probably the job market. If you can make that work, I’d suggest it’s worth consideration.

The SE is not somewhere I’d generally subject my family to without either family ties/background there, or a big step up in budget for the equivalent living standard.

JQ

6,782 posts

208 months

Tuesday 27th December 2022
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What’s wrong with where you currently live and what are you looking to achieve with the move?

Vanden Crash

832 posts

79 months

Tuesday 27th December 2022
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Do or that budget the south west is a better bet. I moved down from the other side of the moors to the south west.

Wakefield has its issues but so do all places. For 250 you can get a nice place near places like Weston but it’s not the south east. 250k will get you a significant down grade in that region.

Why not relocate to your wife’s homeland?

Magooagain

13,390 posts

199 months

Tuesday 27th December 2022
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Or France!

lrdisco

1,729 posts

116 months

Tuesday 27th December 2022
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Mate you will not be happy wherever you live-
https://www.pistonheads.com/gassing/topic.asp?h=0&...

It’s not the place you live but the place your in mentally.

Leicesterdave

Original Poster:

2,288 posts

209 months

Tuesday 27th December 2022
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lrdisco said:
Mate you will not be happy wherever you live-
https://www.pistonheads.com/gassing/topic.asp?h=0&...

It’s not the place you live but the place your in mentally.
My other half does not want to leave the UK. I have no idea why. It's overpriced for what it offers but she feels safe here. We've had numerous arguments about it so the UK it has to be...

V1nce Fox

5,508 posts

97 months

Tuesday 27th December 2022
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Vanden Crash said:
Do or that budget the south west is a better bet. I moved down from the other side of the moors to the south west.

Wakefield has its issues but so do all places. For 250 you can get a nice place near places like Weston but it’s not the south east. 250k will get you a significant down grade in that region.

Why not relocate to your wife’s homeland?
The south west is full!

It is one of the better parts of the uk tho imho.

Alex_225

7,730 posts

230 months

Tuesday 27th December 2022
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I live in the South East, just inside the M25 so I'm 30 minutes by train into central London and about 45 minutes by car to Brighton. I can't comment on where you live as to how it compares but we are looking to move West towards my eldest daughter in Gloucestershire. That area seems nicer, greener but there are undoubtedly less amenities at your disposal.

There are lots of nice places between where I live and the south coast, I'm not sure what you'd get for £250k though. Two bed new build flats round here are £300-400k but as you go south it gets cheaper.

What kind of changes you hoping for OP? smile

croyde

26,311 posts

259 months

Tuesday 27th December 2022
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My plan after 60 years in London is to move up North, or Southern Europe.

£250k would get you into the crappiest places in Kent, well rough, or some South Coast place with no easy connections to the outside world and full of people down on their luck.

I'm on the outskirts of London and you'd need £350k minimum for a tiny one bed flat but it's an ok area.

I've mates who came from Wakefield and have said how much they wanted to leave. They came to London, good jobs etc but in the end the prices drove them back North.

Surely there are nice areas outside of Wakefield that will be great to live in and not cost a bomb.

Also the SE is horribly crowded. I've given up trying to get anywhere at the weekends as all the roads are rammed and the trains non existent, even before these perpetual strikes.

I'm just about to head to the Peaks for a short break, the first 20 miles of driving could easily take a couple of hours but at least once I'm there, I might be able to afford a pint.

My local charges nearly £7 a pint, just a normal pub, nothing fancy.

hammo19

7,681 posts

225 months

Tuesday 27th December 2022
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I was born in Kent and couldn’t wait to get out and move to the North East. It’s the London overspill. People are not as friendly in the South. My advice would be to look further North. You could get something reasonable for £250k.

Gallons Per Mile

2,205 posts

136 months

Tuesday 27th December 2022
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I was born and bred in Medway and wouldn't recommend it as a place to move to from the North. It'll be a culture shock! If you do move there then please PM me as I can guide you to affordable areas that aren't horrible to live in. Some bits are cheap but for good reason!

Thats What She Said

1,180 posts

117 months

Tuesday 27th December 2022
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Sorry OP, but £250k will not get you a better life in the SE. It will get you a 2 bed semi in a not so nice area, or a 2 bed flat in a slightly better area.

The SE is full up, thats the reason why it's so expensive. You'd be mad to consider a 2 bed with 2 kids. Thats going to get very awkward very quickly.

Leicesterdave

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2,288 posts

209 months

Tuesday 27th December 2022
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Doesn’t read very positive so far!

The south has a slightly better climate for starters if I’m not mistaken? Proximity to the continent has an appeal as my family is from Strasbourg so not too far at all, Poland is nearer too for the other half.

The sea proximity too is great.

The downside is undeniable, the houses are pricey.
Hastings looked affordable?

Louis Balfour

28,176 posts

251 months

Tuesday 27th December 2022
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Leicesterdave said:
Doesn’t read very positive so far!

The south has a slightly better climate for starters if I’m not mistaken? Proximity to the continent has an appeal as my family is from Strasbourg so not too far at all, Poland is nearer too for the other half.

The sea proximity too is great.

The downside is undeniable, the houses are pricey.
Hastings looked affordable?
If somewhere is "affordable" there is a reason. Hastings is a dive.

Jamescrs

6,351 posts

94 months

Tuesday 27th December 2022
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Leicesterdave said:
Doesn’t read very positive so far!

The south has a slightly better climate for starters if I’m not mistaken? Proximity to the continent has an appeal as my family is from Strasbourg so not too far at all, Poland is nearer too for the other half.

The sea proximity too is great.

The downside is undeniable, the houses are pricey.
Hastings looked affordable?
Honestly your reasons for wanting to move seem pretty flimsy if I may say and I think it would be to the detriment overall of you and your family.

Being closer to.Strasburg and Poland is pretty marginal in the great scheme of things, climate in the SE sure at times is slightly better but it would be quickly offset by being overcrowded in a w bed semi at best.

The South West is nice and a little cheaper overall but ive looked into moving there myself but then the wider issue is future employment especially when the kids grow to adults, the main reason I didnt move there.