Daughters rent dilema
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Bit of help and advice please.
My youngest moved into her aunt and uncles (wife's brother and his wife) house on the 27th August 2025, aunt and uncle were moving to Malaysia on a 3 year contract with a view to staying longer. The rent is below the market value and covers the mortgage with a bit left over, a rental contract was drawn up and signed by both parties citing a 2 month notice period.
Over the year my daughter and her BF have realised that as much as they love the house, the commute is a nightmare so have been looking elsewhere closer to work and family. That have started looking with the problem being most available rentals want someone in within a month. My daughter, wanting to be transparent, contacted her aunt asking for a bit of leniency regarding the termination, citing a month, with aunt basically saying no as they cannot afford for the house to be empty for a length of time with no income coming from it, with her suggesting a 2 month notice starting straightaway, hoping that they could get someone in within that time period, however this leaves the issue of my daughter finding somewhere within that 2 month notice period.
Now this is where things get a bit spicy:
My youngest, bless her, wants to use the angle of the rental payment of £1600 covers the mortgage payment, she has found out today the mortgage is £1430, leaving a £170 surplus, in her eyes, "they have lied to us".
What say you PH landlords and others in the industry, what's the best angle to resolve this?
My youngest moved into her aunt and uncles (wife's brother and his wife) house on the 27th August 2025, aunt and uncle were moving to Malaysia on a 3 year contract with a view to staying longer. The rent is below the market value and covers the mortgage with a bit left over, a rental contract was drawn up and signed by both parties citing a 2 month notice period.
Over the year my daughter and her BF have realised that as much as they love the house, the commute is a nightmare so have been looking elsewhere closer to work and family. That have started looking with the problem being most available rentals want someone in within a month. My daughter, wanting to be transparent, contacted her aunt asking for a bit of leniency regarding the termination, citing a month, with aunt basically saying no as they cannot afford for the house to be empty for a length of time with no income coming from it, with her suggesting a 2 month notice starting straightaway, hoping that they could get someone in within that time period, however this leaves the issue of my daughter finding somewhere within that 2 month notice period.
Now this is where things get a bit spicy:
- the mortgage on the property isn't BTL, which as far as I can tell is fraudulent.
- there is no declaration of income to HMRC from the property, rent is £1600 pcm.
- when my daughter moved in, no gas or electric safety certificates were issued and they still have yet to receive them.
- no Renters Rights act paperwork has been received, which I believe was a legal requirement up to a certain date.
- there is no landlords insurance in place.
My youngest, bless her, wants to use the angle of the rental payment of £1600 covers the mortgage payment, she has found out today the mortgage is £1430, leaving a £170 surplus, in her eyes, "they have lied to us".
What say you PH landlords and others in the industry, what's the best angle to resolve this?
HTP99 said:
Bit of help and advice please.
My youngest moved into her aunt and uncles (wife's brother and his wife) house on the 27th August 2025, aunt and uncle were moving to Malaysia on a 3 year contract with a view to staying longer. The rent is below the market value and covers the mortgage with a bit left over, a rental contract was drawn up and signed by both parties citing a 2 month notice period.
Over the year my daughter and her BF have realised that as much as they love the house, the commute is a nightmare so have been looking elsewhere closer to work and family. That have started looking with the problem being most available rentals want someone in within a month. My daughter, wanting to be transparent, contacted her aunt asking for a bit of leniency regarding the termination, citing a month, with aunt basically saying no as they cannot afford for the house to be empty for a length of time with no income coming from it, with her suggesting a 2 month notice starting straightaway, hoping that they could get someone in within that time period, however this leaves the issue of my daughter finding somewhere within that 2 month notice period.
Now this is where things get a bit spicy:
My youngest, bless her, wants to use the angle of the rental payment of £1600 covers the mortgage payment, she has found out today the mortgage is £1430, leaving a £170 surplus, in her eyes, "they have lied to us".
What say you PH landlords and others in the industry, what's the best angle to resolve this?
Sounds like the uncle & aunt have approached this a bit less formally than required, due to it being family, and have given your daughter a bit of a bonus by taking below market rent. My youngest moved into her aunt and uncles (wife's brother and his wife) house on the 27th August 2025, aunt and uncle were moving to Malaysia on a 3 year contract with a view to staying longer. The rent is below the market value and covers the mortgage with a bit left over, a rental contract was drawn up and signed by both parties citing a 2 month notice period.
Over the year my daughter and her BF have realised that as much as they love the house, the commute is a nightmare so have been looking elsewhere closer to work and family. That have started looking with the problem being most available rentals want someone in within a month. My daughter, wanting to be transparent, contacted her aunt asking for a bit of leniency regarding the termination, citing a month, with aunt basically saying no as they cannot afford for the house to be empty for a length of time with no income coming from it, with her suggesting a 2 month notice starting straightaway, hoping that they could get someone in within that time period, however this leaves the issue of my daughter finding somewhere within that 2 month notice period.
Now this is where things get a bit spicy:
- the mortgage on the property isn't BTL, which as far as I can tell is fraudulent.
- there is no declaration of income to HMRC from the property, rent is £1600 pcm.
- when my daughter moved in, no gas or electric safety certificates were issued and they still have yet to receive them.
- no Renters Rights act paperwork has been received, which I believe was a legal requirement up to a certain date.
- there is no landlords insurance in place.
My youngest, bless her, wants to use the angle of the rental payment of £1600 covers the mortgage payment, she has found out today the mortgage is £1430, leaving a £170 surplus, in her eyes, "they have lied to us".
What say you PH landlords and others in the industry, what's the best angle to resolve this?
This was perfectly fine for the daughter, until now, when it is no longer fine, and the daughter now wants to s
t on the family, for reasons not entirely explained.Mandat said:
Sounds like the uncle & aunt have approached this a bit less formally than required, due to it being family, and have given your daughter a bit of a bonus by taking below market rent.
This was perfectly fine for the daughter, until now, when it is no longer fine, and the daughter now wants to s
t on the family, for reasons not entirely explained.
Indeed, they were happy with the cheap rent whilst it suited them, now it seems that OP and his daughter want to fThis was perfectly fine for the daughter, until now, when it is no longer fine, and the daughter now wants to s
t on the family, for reasons not entirely explained.
k them over, a lesson in not helping family for the renters.greygoose said:
Mandat said:
Sounds like the uncle & aunt have approached this a bit less formally than required, due to it being family, and have given your daughter a bit of a bonus by taking below market rent.
This was perfectly fine for the daughter, until now, when it is no longer fine, and the daughter now wants to s
t on the family, for reasons not entirely explained.
Indeed, they were happy with the cheap rent whilst it suited them, now it seems that OP and his daughter want to fThis was perfectly fine for the daughter, until now, when it is no longer fine, and the daughter now wants to s
t on the family, for reasons not entirely explained.
k them over, a lesson in not helping family for the renters.Surely the right thing to do is find a suitable renter to move in when your daughter leaves. You have no idea if the
Aunt ask the mortgage company for permission to rent the property. No mention of a deposit either. Regards missing paperwork maybe arrange with the aunt to get this resolved at their cost.
Aunt ask the mortgage company for permission to rent the property. No mention of a deposit either. Regards missing paperwork maybe arrange with the aunt to get this resolved at their cost.
FlyVintage said:
greygoose said:
Mandat said:
Sounds like the uncle & aunt have approached this a bit less formally than required, due to it being family, and have given your daughter a bit of a bonus by taking below market rent.
This was perfectly fine for the daughter, until now, when it is no longer fine, and the daughter now wants to s
t on the family, for reasons not entirely explained.
Indeed, they were happy with the cheap rent whilst it suited them, now it seems that OP and his daughter want to fThis was perfectly fine for the daughter, until now, when it is no longer fine, and the daughter now wants to s
t on the family, for reasons not entirely explained.
k them over, a lesson in not helping family for the renters.I wonder how much they saved over the year with the below market rate. Probably at least a months rent, ie the 2nd month on the notice period
Edited by NumBMW on Saturday 15th August 18:12
FlyVintage said:
greygoose said:
Mandat said:
Sounds like the uncle & aunt have approached this a bit less formally than required, due to it being family, and have given your daughter a bit of a bonus by taking below market rent.
This was perfectly fine for the daughter, until now, when it is no longer fine, and the daughter now wants to s
t on the family, for reasons not entirely explained.
Indeed, they were happy with the cheap rent whilst it suited them, now it seems that OP and his daughter want to fThis was perfectly fine for the daughter, until now, when it is no longer fine, and the daughter now wants to s
t on the family, for reasons not entirely explained.
k them over, a lesson in not helping family for the renters.Puzzles said:
FlyVintage said:
greygoose said:
Mandat said:
Sounds like the uncle & aunt have approached this a bit less formally than required, due to it being family, and have given your daughter a bit of a bonus by taking below market rent.
This was perfectly fine for the daughter, until now, when it is no longer fine, and the daughter now wants to s
t on the family, for reasons not entirely explained.
Indeed, they were happy with the cheap rent whilst it suited them, now it seems that OP and his daughter want to fThis was perfectly fine for the daughter, until now, when it is no longer fine, and the daughter now wants to s
t on the family, for reasons not entirely explained.
k them over, a lesson in not helping family for the renters.Add to that, I can imagine the slagging off of the aunt and uncle had they not been as generous.
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