Selling to a friend after estate agents have got involved.
Selling to a friend after estate agents have got involved.
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Bill

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57,429 posts

279 months

Wednesday 27th April 2011
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We're just selling our house and are just sorting out the estate agent (Not seen the contract yet, which is why I'm asking here.) and have a friend who is very interested in buying... But they have said they will match our best proceedable offer so want us to continue marketing the house.

The estate agent hasn't introduced us so where do we stand regarding fees? I know estate agents are the people everyone loves to hate, but it seems rude to let them do all the "work" (such as it is wink) without paying them.

Or am I just too nice for my own good?

UpTheIron

4,057 posts

292 months

Wednesday 27th April 2011
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So you want the EA to spend money marketing your house, organising viewings etc etc, but will then sell to your mate?

A tad harsh don't you think?

Edit! Sorry, you DO think it is a tad harsh. So do I!

Why doesn't your mate just make you an offer?

Brother D

4,350 posts

200 months

Wednesday 27th April 2011
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The agent is there to introduce you to a buyer via marketing.

If someone wants your property without being introduced by the estate agent then it is legal. But ensure they are not registered with the estate agent in question.

I have sold a property without involving an estate agent. Although the buyers were a pita...but worth it for 4k saving.

Bill

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57,429 posts

279 months

Wednesday 27th April 2011
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A couple of reasons: the house is hard to value as it should blow the current ceiling price fairly comprehensively and he'd like to be sure it'll be easy to sell as he probably only wants it for 5 years or so.

It does seem like a good way to work out a fair price and avoid a load of unseemly haggling biggrin

JonRB

79,417 posts

296 months

Wednesday 27th April 2011
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Bill said:
It does seem like a good way to work out a fair price and avoid a load of unseemly haggling biggrin
Most agents will give a free valuation. Why not get as many as will do one and take an average value? Maybe adjusting up a bit should you feel that it is worth more.

mrmr96

13,736 posts

228 months

Wednesday 27th April 2011
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Check the EA contract.

burwoodman

18,718 posts

270 months

Wednesday 27th April 2011
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Bill said:
We're just selling our house and are just sorting out the estate agent (Not seen the contract yet, which is why I'm asking here.) and have a friend who is very interested in buying... But they have said they will match our best proceedable offer so want us to continue marketing the house.

The estate agent hasn't introduced us so where do we stand regarding fees? I know estate agents are the people everyone loves to hate, but it seems rude to let them do all the "work" (such as it is wink) without paying them.

Or am I just too nice for my own good?
The contract will most certainly state that if you(the vendor) are aware of any interested parties you must direct them to said agent.

dazp

679 posts

213 months

Wednesday 27th April 2011
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why not just get 3 or 4 estate agents to come on value your house and then take the averages price?

louiebaby

10,885 posts

215 months

Wednesday 27th April 2011
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JonRB said:
Most agents will give a free valuation. Why not get as many as will do one and take an average value? Maybe adjusting up a bit should you feel that it is worth more.
If you haven't signed a contract with the estate agent, this is probably the way to go. If you have, you'll probably have to go through them now, their contracts are usually pretty binding.

rah1888

1,586 posts

211 months

Wednesday 27th April 2011
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burwoodman said:
The contract will most certainly state that if you(the vendor) are aware of any interested parties you must direct them to said agent.
I'd be surprised, I've never seen an EA contract with a clause like that in it.

Important to check that the contract is for sole agency and not sole selling rights, which is where the EA can claim a fee from you regardless of how the purchaser was introduced to the property. In order to claim a fee under sole agency the EA has to have made an effective introduction of eventual purchaser to property.

Although it does seem somewhat unfair to make the EA do all the hard work, when you know you're not going to eventually pay them anything. wink

Flintstone

8,644 posts

271 months

Wednesday 27th April 2011
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burwoodman said:
The contract will most certainly state that if you(the vendor) are aware of any interested parties you must direct them to said agent.
Having bought and sold my own properties over three decades or so and (for my sins) worked as an estate agent, albeit a long time ago, I've never seen this.

bennno

14,943 posts

293 months

Wednesday 27th April 2011
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Bill said:
We're just selling our house and are just sorting out the estate agent (Not seen the contract yet, which is why I'm asking here.) and have a friend who is very interested in buying... But they have said they will match our best proceedable offer so want us to continue marketing the house.

The estate agent hasn't introduced us so where do we stand regarding fees? I know estate agents are the people everyone loves to hate, but it seems rude to let them do all the "work" (such as it is wink) without paying them.

Or am I just too nice for my own good?
Why put the estate agent and buyers through a load of hoops if you arent genuine about selling. Potentially sounds like your friend doesnt want to offend you with what he thinks the house is worth.

I think earlier posters have suggested get 4 agents to view and realistically price house for a quick sale, then ask your friend to make an offer (given 1 to 1.5% saving based on not engaging an agent). If he doesnt want to then you will be tied to estate agent and should just therefore ask your friend to deal via them.

Bennno

JonRB

79,417 posts

296 months

Wednesday 27th April 2011
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dazp said:
why not just get 3 or 4 estate agents to come on value your house and then take the averages price?
Blimey! If only someone had posted that an hour before you. wink

Bill

Original Poster:

57,429 posts

279 months

Wednesday 27th April 2011
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rah1888 said:
burwoodman said:
The contract will most certainly state that if you(the vendor) are aware of any interested parties you must direct them to said agent.
I'd be surprised, I've never seen an EA contract with a clause like that in it.
Now got the contract which asks if there are any interested parties and encourages you to direct them to the EA.

Lost soul

8,712 posts

206 months

Wednesday 27th April 2011
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UpTheIron said:
So you want the EA to spend money marketing your house, organising viewings etc etc, but will then sell to your mate?
Sticking it on a website you mean

Bill

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Wednesday 27th April 2011
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Lost soul said:
Sticking it on a website you mean
It would be going a fair bit further than that.

Anyway, thanks for all the advice it's helped clarify our thoughts and given me a moral barometer to work from. We're going to tell our friend that he's welcome to make an offer ahead of us fully marketing it but if he waits to see how other people are going then he's going to have to fight for it.

beer

jamescodriver

400 posts

217 months

Wednesday 27th April 2011
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Be up front with the agent and if your friend offers (99% never do in my experience) offer the agent a reduced fee to handle the sale so a) they still earn a fee b) keeps you at arms length from your friend if he starts to mess you about...

So many vendors say "all our friends have said they would buy our house if we put it up for sale" but they never do

Murph7355

40,903 posts

280 months

Wednesday 27th April 2011
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jamescodriver said:
Be up front with the agent and if your friend offers (99% never do in my experience) offer the agent a reduced fee to handle the sale so a) they still earn a fee b) keeps you at arms length from your friend if he starts to mess you about...
That's exactly what I'd do.

Keep business, business.

davidd

6,670 posts

308 months

Thursday 28th April 2011
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From our recent dealings with Agents, we had to declare interested parties at the beginning (there were none), we declared interest on the house we bought before it went onto the market, the seller still wanted to use the agent. To be fair to them they marketed the house well and we've had to pay a fair bit more for it (damm!).

944fan

4,962 posts

209 months

Thursday 28th April 2011
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I had this when I sold my last house. Our neighbour knew we were selling before the estate agent board went up. The agent did some advertisiing then our neighbour decided he wanted to buyt the place. We said we weren't going to pay the agent fees because they hadn't introduced the buyer. They went nuts and in the end we agreed on a reduced fix fee price. In the end the neighbour turned out to be a complete and the agent had to do loads of work so they earnt their money in the end.