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TazR6

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1,186 posts

273 months

Wednesday 14th March 2012
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Had to have my Rottweiler put to sleep yesterday. She was 9 and a half. She has had a few problems ongoing since October. I thought she would be gone before Xmas, so I bought a 7 week old pup for her to be friends with, and then when she went, I would have her mate still.
I now just have her mate. He is a massive comfort to have.
Deefa had enlarged glands and a shadow on her lungs most recently, which has been treated with Antibiotics. Prior to that, she had a mystery illness, that was dragging her down, but she pulled out of it.
She was booked for a checkup yesterday morning, and when I got up, I noticed that her breathing was very shallow. When I took her, the Vet said right away that she looked poorly. Her abdomen was full of free fluids, and her blood count was so low it would not have been possible to sort. With what she has been through, I decided not to be selfish, and I authorized euthanasia.
It was the single hardest thing I have ever done. I was with her throughout. She would not have left me in those circumstances, so I could not leave her.
It was a shock to say the least.
It is only now that I am able to talk about it. It has hit me hard.
My other dog knows there is something wrong. He is off his food, and he will not leave me alone. If he cant see me, he cries. He is 27 weeks old tomorrow.
I am lavishing him with as much love as I can give him, and he seems reassured. He is missing Deefa though, as he keeps looking at her bed and the back door.

Very very sad indeed. She was every bodies friend.
R.I.P. Deefa. 01 Oct 2002 to 13 Mar 2012

Not sure why I am writing this other than getting it off my chest.

TazR6

Original Poster:

1,186 posts

273 months

Wednesday 14th March 2012
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My dogs, and best friends. They were inseparable. This picture was only taken last week.


Davey S2

13,389 posts

277 months

Wednesday 14th March 2012
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Sorry to hear.

Console yourself with the thought she had a good home and was loved.

jontymo

844 posts

173 months

Wednesday 14th March 2012
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Sorry matey, dreading the days when my 2 jacks get old.

Great picture, get it framed.

Jon

K77 CTR

1,652 posts

205 months

Wednesday 14th March 2012
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Made me cry frown sorry to hear the sad news but I'm sure Deefa had many happy years with you. That puppy is huge!

Who me ?

7,455 posts

235 months

Wednesday 14th March 2012
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Hard to see. My old pal is not almost 11. I't will break my heart to see him go .

mrsimmers

189 posts

189 months

Wednesday 14th March 2012
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I know how you feel my freind.

I had to have my 11year 5 month old Dalmatian put to sleep 2 weeks ago after he had a massive stroke.

Me and the wife have never cried so much in all lives

R.I.P Patch


ali_kat

32,141 posts

244 months

Wednesday 14th March 2012
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y2blade

56,264 posts

238 months

Wednesday 14th March 2012
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Sorry to read this frown

Jasandjules

71,929 posts

252 months

Wednesday 14th March 2012
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So sorry to hear that OP. It is never easy letting go of our friends, but take comfort that you gave her a fantastic life.

bexVN

14,690 posts

234 months

Wednesday 14th March 2012
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:-( so sorry that you had to say goodbye to your friend. From what you have described it does sound like it was the right decision (doesn't make it any easier though)

In time the memories will be less painful.

Mubby

1,237 posts

205 months

Thursday 15th March 2012
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awww they leave footprints on our hearts thats for sure,

R.I.P Deefa and R.I.P Patch

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Rollcage

11,345 posts

215 months

Thursday 15th March 2012
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Time is indeed a great healer, and eventually you will be able to look back with happiness and fondness, rather than the pain and sorrow you now feel.

Such a hard time to deal with, yet one that we all sign up for. You both have my sympathy.

celticpilgrim

1,965 posts

266 months

Thursday 15th March 2012
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Taz,
you loved your dog and did the best, even if it included making the decision no dog owner wants to make, but at least you ended the suffering for your best freind. remember all they joy you had beause that dog shared their life with you

As for why you posted, people grieve in different ways, if that's how you deal with your loss, than folks can sod off!!

Rollcage

11,345 posts

215 months

Thursday 15th March 2012
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Posting on here certainly helped me bear the loss of my two GSDs a couple of years ago - the support and advice I received was tremendous. The loss of a loved pet is something that can only really be understood by those that have been through it.

Pistonheads - Pets Matter!

C3BER

4,714 posts

246 months

Friday 16th March 2012
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Lost my Rottie 17 years ago but i still miss him. Time does heal but loved ones are always with you. Last year we lost our Newfoundland a true gentle giant and one amazing dog. Now we have a springer pup and
In a few weeks a Bernese mountain dog. You do move on.

I must add Deefa will be the name for the Bernese.

k15tox

1,680 posts

204 months

Friday 16th March 2012
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when i was a teenager we had to have our Rottie put down due to terminal cancer. 'Kass' she was the softest friendly thing ever.

I grew up with her and still miss her to this day, vet came and did it at home and my dad buried her in the back garden.

the only time ive ever seen him cry.

We had some great times with her but came to realise death is a part of life, we are all going to end up there sometime.

just cherish the memories smile

Donatello

1,035 posts

184 months

Tuesday 20th March 2012
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Sorry for your loss frown

When I lived with my parents we rescued a 3 year old Rottweiler I had come across during my time working in a dog kennels.

We have had and known MANY family dogs but I don't think there are many better than a 'Rottie'. We lost him at 8 due to cancer and I had to leave work to go to the vets and make the final decision at 17 frown Was very difficult. Parents at work and couldn't get away, he had been in for more tests and the Vet advised he was pain free due to injections and it was probably the best way... I could cry now frown

My partner and I now have a 14 month old Rottweiler and she is incredible. Along with our 5 month old Victorian Bulldog, they are our best friends. I dread the day something happens to them.

highflyer

1,899 posts

249 months

Tuesday 20th March 2012
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blimy im in tears reading this thread, I am at this point in time, we have mum Jazz 15 son Murphy 12 and little Amber 7 all working Cocker Spaniels
Unfortunatly Jazz has lost a lot of weight and going off her back legs which the vet sais is due to old age and can't do anything about it apart from give her a dose of metacalm for any pain that she may be in, and a tablet twice a day for the blood circulation, she eats fine and everything works fine and doesn't seem to be in any pain whatsoever but when do you call it a day ? I thought it was going to be Friday last week and had actually booked the vet to come out to us but with the weather being so nice she has picked up quite a bit and has been ok all weekend and still ok now, all I think about is when, a couple of friends have said you will know. She patheres in and out of the sitting room into the kitchen for a couple of hours at night while we are watching tv i pick her up and she settles with me on the settee, cuddling and stroking her where she must feel safe, because she closes her eyes and goes to sleep until I have to get up for a pee. She isnt in pain but the quality of life isnt great I carry her out to the garden where I support her back legs until they wake up and she walks around to do her thing, then call her back in, This is the hardest time of anybodys life, knowing when to call it a day and do the best for your beloved trusty friend, I just wish I knew. Dont even know why I am writing this maybe somebody can help ?

bexVN

14,690 posts

234 months

Tuesday 20th March 2012
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Knowing when is incredibly stressful I've been there myself and often have to try and help people at this difficult time.

All I can say is that if you decided tomorrow was the dreaded day no one could say it was the wrong decision and no vet would refuse.

However she does sound fairly contented with what she has - love, safety, support and comfort provided by you. For as long as you feel you can provide this for her and she is still eating, wagging her tail, not incontinent, likes the fresh air, greets people, she has a quality of life.

Of course if she is at potential risk of falling because of her legs this could be a factor.

I don't know if this helps but I hope it does a little.