Not wishing to be insensitive
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anonymous-user

Original Poster:

77 months

Wednesday 24th October 2012
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But would it be possible to agree a kind of NSFW tag for this forum but for Sad Stories, something like EC for Emotive Content or something?

I do appreciate the stories that people put up about their pets last days or whats happening and I understand the need to share, but I would rather read them when I am at home rather than at work or when I am in the right frame of mind, cos I do find them moving and upsetting and being a large lad sitting in work looking like the sky has just fallen in, makes me look a bit daft

If I am being a selfish tt sorry was just a thought

ED209

6,003 posts

267 months

Wednesday 24th October 2012
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I am sitting here, dog lying next to me, crying!

I am a grown man, its wednesday lunch time, I am stone cold sober and I am not a softie by any stretch of the imagination..


Jasandjules

71,988 posts

252 months

Wednesday 24th October 2012
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I have to admit I do often think "shall I read that" when I see certain titles....

Sexual Chocolate

1,583 posts

167 months

Wednesday 24th October 2012
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I don't read them. I love my dog and these kind of stories/posts just remind me that he won't be around for long and that I will eventually have to lose him. Makes me sad

I do feel for the owners of whose pets are going on the "final walk" its a very sad thing and you have my deepest sympathy.

rasputin

1,449 posts

229 months

Wednesday 24th October 2012
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It's not insensitive at all. I feel exactly the same, and I usually avoid threads on this subject unless I'm in the right mood to take them in.

And yet I still did it myself... Oops.

anonymous-user

Original Poster:

77 months

Wednesday 24th October 2012
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So what do we think?

An SS tag for Sad Story? In the title just to make it clear?

Upatdawn

2,202 posts

171 months

Wednesday 24th October 2012
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its part and parcel of sharing your life with a furry-buddy, yes, its sad, but you do the best for them, they bite you, fetch the ball, push you out of bed, dump on your garden and curl up by you ..... its a 2 way street

http://www.rainbowbridge.com/

Changedmyname

12,549 posts

204 months

Wednesday 24th October 2012
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I hate those stories the OH crys ,but still reads them.

Upatdawn

2,202 posts

171 months

Wednesday 24th October 2012
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Buy a turtle or parrot, the damn things can outlive you...


Upatdawn

2,202 posts

171 months

Wednesday 24th October 2012
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ED209 said:
I am sitting here, dog lying next to me, crying!

I am a grown man, its wednesday lunch time, I am stone cold sober and I am not a softie by any stretch of the imagination..
ya big wuss......





Defcon5

6,459 posts

214 months

Wednesday 24th October 2012
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Upatdawn said:
Buy a turtle or parrot, the damn things can outlive you...
My mum has a tortoise. It's about ten, and she is 55.

Quite what I am going to do with a dinner plate sized tortoise in 30 years time I don't know

Upatdawn

2,202 posts

171 months

Wednesday 24th October 2012
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Defcon5 said:
My mum has a tortoise. It's about ten, and she is 55.

Quite what I am going to do with a dinner plate sized tortoise in 30 years time I don't know
www.tortoise-recipies.net



Taita

7,947 posts

226 months

Wednesday 24th October 2012
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fking hell are you serious.

Emotional Content tag.

Grow a pair! Christ on a bike.

(dog owner, 17 year old cat died 2 weeks ago so I'm not completely cold.)

Simpo Two

91,361 posts

288 months

Wednesday 24th October 2012
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Upatdawn said:
Indeed, nature's version of a Fray Bentos pie.

Mubby

1,237 posts

205 months

Thursday 25th October 2012
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I must be weird as I like to read the sad stories and although the reason for the post may be sad they are usually filled with heart warming stories and photos, so a tag doesnt bother me either way!

ali_kat

32,142 posts

244 months

Thursday 25th October 2012
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Do we really need it?

RIP xxx, Final Walk, Hard decision etc are fairly obvious what they are about!

Piglet

6,250 posts

278 months

Thursday 25th October 2012
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As long as the titles are obvious "Final Walk" etc., I don't have an issue with them.

I do struggle to read the threads, we came very close to losing our 4 year old Spaniel this month and reading threads like that brings it all back BUT having said that, the amount of support I got on here and another forum made a huge difference to coping with what I was going through so whilst I struggle to read the sick dog threads I'm acutely concious of the support that they give to the poster so I try to force myself to read them*.

  • sorry, really needed some punctuation in there!

Upatdawn

2,202 posts

171 months

Thursday 25th October 2012
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I have every sympathy with the "Final walk" poster (Rasputin) , today is the dogs last day and my thoughts are with dog and owner

I still get choked up over our last dog who passed away in my arms having a seizure or stroke at 2am, no vet for her, no gentle sleep, no painless end, just an hour of shaking, whimpering and crying, then another hour afterwards waiting for the vet to arrive and take her away with me sitting with her on my lap, she was 12 YO and 100% fit, so it came as a great shock after having her from a pup.

Weve got three rescues now so thats three hard times to worry about but not for a while i hope