New kitten - help!
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jjcd

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115 posts

147 months

Sunday 13th December 2020
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Hi,

We have a new kitten (12 weeks old) - he has come from an RSPCA center as he was abandoned as a newborn kitten.

He arrived yesterday and we followed all the advice we'd read online - leave him in one room to let him get used to the surroundings etc and let him venture further at his own pace. He is very nervous and doesn't lie in his basket, he prefers being hidden behind some coats or down the side of a shoe cupboard.. I think that's normal for a new kitten though? He eats like a machine though which is good and is happy to play or let you stroke him in the utility room.

We've let him into the main house a few times and he finds a hiding spot but you can coax him out with some toys etc but is very nervous when not in his home/utility room!

Should we be letting him out into the house? He is much more relaxed when we are with him in the utility room but i assume this is just nerves that will go away with time?

Sorry for the basic questions - I think we're doing the right things but appreciate any advice! smile

bigandclever

14,191 posts

260 months

Sunday 13th December 2020
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jjcd said:
let him venture further at his own pace
Do that.

benjipeg

247 posts

227 months

Sunday 13th December 2020
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we had a really nervous kitten/cat, i found just sitting on the floor and letting the cat come towards a treat and strokes, not approaching from above when handling really helped, she never was friendly towards anyone but us though would run as soon as anyone else came in to the house, i think some are just nervous,

BoggoStump

317 posts

71 months

Sunday 13th December 2020
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Do NOT let it out of the house

Sorry misread the post. Yes let him into the house.

Chubbyross

4,831 posts

107 months

Sunday 13th December 2020
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We have a couple of rescue kits and its best to let them go at their pace. If he wants to go into the house then let him. He’ll slowly find spaces where he feels safe and know the best places to find you when company is needed. Just be very patient. You can’t force cats to do anything!

Jumpy Guy

449 posts

241 months

Sunday 13th December 2020
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Sit on the floor , ignore the kitten. Read a book, drink a cuppa. It'll adventure when it's ready, and having you around will reassure

sc0tt

18,227 posts

223 months

Sunday 13th December 2020
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All of the above advice. Let them go at their own pace. Have had about 7 rescue cats before and they have all turned out great.

Well done for rescuing.

dudleybloke

20,553 posts

208 months

Sunday 13th December 2020
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Pics!

jjcd

Original Poster:

115 posts

147 months

Monday 14th December 2020
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Thanks everyone - sounds like we’re doing the right things by just letting him wander/explore and come to us as and when he feels safe..

And a photo - only had him two days but we love him! Starting to see how inquisitive he is.

Chubbyross

4,831 posts

107 months

Monday 14th December 2020
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jjcd said:
Thanks everyone - sounds like we’re doing the right things by just letting him wander/explore and come to us as and when he feels safe..

And a photo - only had him two days but we love him! Starting to see how inquisitive he is.
Oh my word! What a cutie!

ali_kat

32,133 posts

243 months

Monday 14th December 2020
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love

Others have already given great advice - I’d add - make sure you have blocked off areas you do not want him to go.

Back of fridge, cooker etc

You’d be amazed what tiny gaps a scared kitten can hide in (& a cat for that matter!!)

Perhaps get a big crate & put him in it in the lounge so he can get used to noises in there before you let him put?