Ebay weirdos
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The Char

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382 posts

214 months

Thursday 13th December 2012
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I have had someone win an item of mine on Ebay (clothing). They immediately messaged me saying I needed to email them 'for their requests hun'. I replied saying could they pay and I don't have time for emails. They responded straight away saying 'Don't fob me off with that hun coz it's not true'. I checked the feedback they had left for others and some of it was negative- presumably to people who don't agree to their requests. Some sellers had replied to this feedback saying this person was 'disturbed'. I have reported the buyer to Ebay, and it has been acknowledged, but Ebay say they will not inform me of any action taken. Any ideas? I have not contacted the person outside of Ebay, nor do I want my feedback rating ruined by some weirdo.

Any suggestions? (hoping this oddball is not a PH'er!)

FFSport

425 posts

167 months

Friday 14th December 2012
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Hoping this is a oddball PH'er is your best bet tbh...

Sounds like you have a person with a good case of The Mental.

Although this did happen to me... I just got aload of random stupid emails asking silly questions not even about the item, I just reported it to eBay and then made eBay pay for the re-listing of my item because they didnt deal with this person before they purchased my item (They had done it to a few people before me as you said)

Just tell eBay let them deal with it then fook them off & get it re-listed.

I must admit, this is one big reason I dont sell clothes on eBay you get some odd mother fkers from really bad council estates trying to buy your stuff then they send you email's asking if you will send it to them for free.

Chocmonster

962 posts

240 months

Friday 14th December 2012
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Just wait for them to pay and ignore any messages.

A) If they haven't paid after 4 days start a non paying bidder case. Pray that they don't pay & after another 4 days close the case, get your fees back and relist. Don't forget to put them on your blocked bidders list so you don't get them reappearing.

B) If they do pay post the item as normal but still put them on blocked bidders list.

SlimRick

2,277 posts

194 months

Friday 14th December 2012
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My ex other half used to sell a lot of new clothes on Ebay. some of the requests were bizarre, from "will you tear the tights before sending them to me", to "will you put the jeans on and wee in them".......f*****g mentals, the lot of them. She soon gave up smile

Mobsta

5,614 posts

284 months

Friday 14th December 2012
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SlimRick said:
My ex other half used to sell a lot of new clothes on Ebay. some of the requests were bizarre, from "will you tear the tights before sending them to me", to "will you put the jeans on and wee in them".......f*****g mentals, the lot of them. She soon gave up smile
To be fair, I gave her good feedback and did apologise in the end.

philthy

4,697 posts

269 months

Friday 14th December 2012
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Mobsta said:
SlimRick said:
My ex other half used to sell a lot of new clothes on Ebay. some of the requests were bizarre, from "will you tear the tights before sending them to me", to "will you put the jeans on and wee in them".......f*****g mentals, the lot of them. She soon gave up smile
To be fair, I gave her good feedback and did apologise in the end.
rofl

JudgeMental

7,251 posts

262 months

Friday 14th December 2012
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philthy said:
Mobsta said:
SlimRick said:
My ex other half used to sell a lot of new clothes on Ebay. some of the requests were bizarre, from "will you tear the tights before sending them to me", to "will you put the jeans on and wee in them".......f*****g mentals, the lot of them. She soon gave up smile
To be fair, I gave her good feedback and did apologise in the end.
rofl
hehe

WetPaint

1,212 posts

210 months

Friday 14th December 2012
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I ended something early this week. It was victim to an unfortunate accident and was no longer in any condition to sell.

I had 3 emails afterwards, all opening with:

"I know your item has ended"

and with the same basic content along the lines of:

"Is it still for sale?"

Odd balls.

BMW3s6

2,877 posts

227 months

Friday 14th December 2012
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SlimRick said:
My ex other half used to sell a lot of new clothes on Ebay. some of the requests were bizarre, from "will you tear the tights before sending them to me", to "will you put the jeans on and wee in them".......f*****g mentals, the lot of them. She soon gave up smile
There's a market for this? Hummm do unwashed tights sell for more?

Heehe

.R2D2

1,475 posts

222 months

Friday 14th December 2012
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WetPaint said:
I ended something early this week. It was victim to an unfortunate accident and was no longer in any condition to sell.

I had 3 emails afterwards, all opening with:

"I know your item has ended"

and with the same basic content along the lines of:

"Is it still for sale?"

Odd balls.
Why's that odd? They must have wanted your item and simply enquired as to whether it was still for sale.

Garlick

40,601 posts

269 months

Friday 14th December 2012
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SlimRick said:
My ex other half used to sell a lot of new clothes on Ebay. some of the requests were bizarre, from "will you tear the tights before sending them to me", to "will you put the jeans on and wee in them".......f*****g mentals, the lot of them. She soon gave up smile
My Mrs flogged some shoes on eBay and blokes went mad asking for pics of her wearing them and asking if they had a smell (we didn't reply as it seemed a bit weird)

Got good money for them mind you.

The Beaver King

6,095 posts

224 months

Friday 14th December 2012
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Garlick said:
SlimRick said:
My ex other half used to sell a lot of new clothes on Ebay. some of the requests were bizarre, from "will you tear the tights before sending them to me", to "will you put the jeans on and wee in them".......f*****g mentals, the lot of them. She soon gave up smile
My Mrs flogged some shoes on eBay and blokes went mad asking for pics of her wearing them and asking if they had a smell (we didn't reply as it seemed a bit weird)

Got good money for them mind you.
A guy at work is a bit of a fashion queen. He will only wear the 'in thing' and then sells them on eBay a couple of months later when they are out of style.

Some of the requests he gets are beyond belief. He had a guy from Germany buy 4 pairs of his jeans for £150 a pop and then messaged him asking if he could wear them a bit, without pants. He then apologised for coming across as weird (never...) and asked if he was willing to make 'man smells' or let out some 'fluid' while wearing them....

He even offered to pay extra.

I suppose it takes all sorts....

chunkymonkey71

13,169 posts

227 months

Friday 14th December 2012
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The Beaver King said:
Garlick said:
SlimRick said:
My ex other half used to sell a lot of new clothes on Ebay. some of the requests were bizarre, from "will you tear the tights before sending them to me", to "will you put the jeans on and wee in them".......f*****g mentals, the lot of them. She soon gave up smile
My Mrs flogged some shoes on eBay and blokes went mad asking for pics of her wearing them and asking if they had a smell (we didn't reply as it seemed a bit weird)

Got good money for them mind you.
A guy at work is a bit of a fashion queen. He will only wear the 'in thing' and then sells them on eBay a couple of months later when they are out of style.

Some of the requests he gets are beyond belief. He had a guy from Germany buy 4 pairs of his jeans for £150 a pop and then messaged him asking if he could wear them a bit, without pants. He then apologised for coming across as weird (never...) and asked if he was willing to make 'man smells' or let out some 'fluid' while wearing them....

He even offered to pay extra.

I suppose it takes all sorts....
Make man smells? You mean 3 in 1 oil and WD40, yeah?

WetPaint

1,212 posts

210 months

Friday 14th December 2012
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.R2D2 said:
Why's that odd? They must have wanted your item and simply enquired as to whether it was still for sale.
The listing says the item is no longer available. They start out stating they know the item is no longer available, then they ask if they can have it.

shtu

4,521 posts

175 months

Friday 14th December 2012
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Chocmonster said:
Just wait for them to pay and ignore any messages.

A) If they haven't paid after 4 days start a non paying bidder case. Pray that they don't pay & after another 4 days close the case, get your fees back and relist. Don't forget to put them on your blocked bidders list so you don't get them reappearing.

B) If they do pay post the item as normal but still put them on blocked bidders list.
All that. Follow ebay's process to the letter for NPB, and ignore any "requests" the buyer sends through - there is no communication required as you will be informed when they pay, and you will have their address via eBay.

Take many, many pictures of item condition (datestamped) before you send.

bobtail4x4

4,409 posts

138 months

Monday 8th June 2020
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as an odd request,
Im selling an engine, just had a question, saying he also has one, if I get more people asking can I sell his?

Steamer

14,183 posts

242 months

Monday 8th June 2020
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bobtail4x4 said:
as an odd request,
Im selling an engine, just had a question, saying he also has one, if I get more people asking can I sell his?
Thats not odd - it's just:

A: Very feckin' Lazy

B: A man who can't face dealing with the ebay weirdos anymore himself hehe

LaurasOtherHalf

21,429 posts

225 months

Monday 8th June 2020
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Had it this morning! Won an electric quad bike for the kids (yeah I'm so council), got it for £21. Bargain.

Turned up and the dorris said they weren't selling the charger for it as they didn't get enough for it, cheeky cow. What am I supposed to do with an electric quad bike with no charger-buy one at Maplin was the answer.

After pointing out Maplin no longer existed, the advert didn't say no charger and that I had two very excited girls she was going to let down she relented and gave me the charger.

To be honest, I was just going to take it and scam the money back via PayPal. I might still do it just to be an arse.

I've had the perverts thing before too. I used to have loads of trainers that were really rare so I thought I'd get shot on eBay. I didn't think too much of it to begin with but I was always perplexed that the mint condition hardly worn examples used to sell for not too much money but the well worn examples flew out the door.

The penny dropped when I started getting requests for photos of them being worn, without socks. As the saying goes, it takes all sorts but whacking one off while sniffing a sweaty trainer? Bampots the lot of them.

Must admit, the thought did occur to me that buying some cheap frillies from the pound shop and selling them as worn underwear would be an easy way to some free money!

Smitters

4,415 posts

186 months

Monday 8th June 2020
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LaurasOtherHalf said:
Must admit, the thought did occur to me that buying some cheap frillies from the pound shop and selling them as worn underwear would be an easy way to some free money!
I love the idea that some kinky dude orders a pair of frillies from ebay, imagining them to be well worn by some husky voiced sexpot, when in fact an enterprising bloke has bunged 100 pairs in a bin bag with his minging gym kit and left it in the sun for an hour.