Excuses. I've run out...
Excuses. I've run out...
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sc0tt

Original Poster:

18,267 posts

227 months

Thursday 23rd May 2013
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I'm a serial canceller. My Missus agrees to crap I don't want to spend my afternoon doing seeing people I really don't want to see.

Today I ran out of excuses ...

Hi mate, can't make saturday.

I felt free but wrong because I didn't finish with a because.

If someone cancels do you want a reason? Personally I'd stop inviting me but these people never learn. So what have you got.

Sorry i can't finish this post because

Rawwr

22,722 posts

260 months

Thursday 23rd May 2013
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I'm quite the same. I think I'm just full of cant-be-arsed and have a lot of it to give.

rohrl

8,984 posts

171 months

Thursday 23rd May 2013
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Try "I'm sorry, but that sounds st and anyway I'm recording the Formula One qualifying on Saturday so I'd better stay in the house in case there's a power cut and the Sky box goes down".

grumbledoak

32,466 posts

259 months

Thursday 23rd May 2013
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Just say "I'm sorry but I don't want to."

iva cosworth

44,044 posts

189 months

Thursday 23rd May 2013
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"I'm in A n E after some loony through a can of red bull at me"

King Herald

23,501 posts

242 months

Thursday 23rd May 2013
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grumbledoak said:
Just say "I'm sorry but I don't want to."
But say it to the wife, let her sort it out.

sc0tt

Original Poster:

18,267 posts

227 months

Thursday 23rd May 2013
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Rawwr said:
I'm quite the same. I think I'm just full of cant-be-arsed and have a lot of it to give.
A man after my own heart. Maybe we should go for a pint, or not.

CraigyMc

18,355 posts

262 months

Thursday 23rd May 2013
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sc0tt said:
Rawwr said:
I'm quite the same. I think I'm just full of cant-be-arsed and have a lot of it to give.
A man after my own heart. Maybe we should go for a pint, or not.
I lost committment to this thread halfway through typ

Terminator X

20,072 posts

230 months

Thursday 23rd May 2013
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In a similar vein when people ask me how I am I don't tell them and then ask how they are, I simply stop after "I'm great thanks". It's amazing how many people go on to tell me how they are even though I've not asked!

TX.

mybrainhurts

90,809 posts

281 months

Thursday 23rd May 2013
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iva cosworth said:
"I'm in A n E after some loony through a can of red bull at me"
Good grief...call the spelling police

Studio117

4,250 posts

217 months

Thursday 23rd May 2013
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Why waste your or others time by agreeing to things you have no intention of doing?

Seems counter productive and you look like a knob if you do it all the time.

sc0tt

Original Poster:

18,267 posts

227 months

Thursday 23rd May 2013
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Studio117 said:
Why waste your or others time by agreeing to things you have no intention of doing?

Seems counter productive and you look like a knob if you do it all the time.
Problem is I don't mind looking like a knob because i don't want to see these people. Its the missus who has no willpower.

Bullett

11,157 posts

210 months

Thursday 23rd May 2013
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Umm, don't agree to things in the first place if you have no intention of going. If it goes in the diary, that's a commitment unless you have a really good reason.

LordGrover

34,117 posts

238 months

Thursday 23rd May 2013
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Time for new missus?

GG89

3,692 posts

212 months

Thursday 23rd May 2013
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Let her go alone.

iva cosworth

44,044 posts

189 months

Thursday 23rd May 2013
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mybrainhurts said:
iva cosworth said:
"I'm in A n E after some loony through a can of red bull at me"
Good grief...call the spelling police
Oops,what was i thunking ?

THREW

Disco You

3,746 posts

206 months

Thursday 23rd May 2013
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Terminator X said:
In a similar vein when people ask me how I am I don't tell them and then ask how they are, I simply stop after "I'm great thanks". It's amazing how many people go on to tell me how they are even though I've not asked!

TX.
Not returning the question is rude IMHO.

andy-xr

13,204 posts

230 months

Thursday 23rd May 2013
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I always go, was told a long time ago to never decline an invitation (within reason!) and I've had better experiences living by it. I do have to kick myself in the arse at a few of them though

Captain Muppet

8,540 posts

291 months

Friday 24th May 2013
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Disco You said:
Terminator X said:
In a similar vein when people ask me how I am I don't tell them and then ask how they are, I simply stop after "I'm great thanks". It's amazing how many people go on to tell me how they are even though I've not asked!

TX.
Not returning the question is rude IMHO.
Any opinion published for global consumption and specifically targeted to change someone else's behaviour isn't humble IMO.

King Herald

23,501 posts

242 months

Friday 24th May 2013
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sc0tt said:
Studio117 said:
Why waste your or others time by agreeing to things you have no intention of doing?

Seems counter productive and you look like a knob if you do it all the time.
Problem is I don't mind looking like a knob because i don't want to see these people. Its the missus who has no willpower.
As I mentioned earlier, and you seemed to neatly sidestep, why don't you tell the wife to get her act together, instead of you acting like this is all your problem??

Or maybe if you simply told her to keep her pie hole shut she'd get the message? hehe