School asks kids to bring in guitars - returned vandalised
School asks kids to bring in guitars - returned vandalised
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hedgefinder

Original Poster:

3,418 posts

199 months

Saturday 15th March 2014
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Not sure exactly what to do here..
Daughter takes her Guitar to junior school after her class were asked to bring them in if they had them.
I picked her up from school and on returning to the car she tells me that another kid in her class deliberately kicked a broke her guitar whilst it was in its cover saying there isnt anything important in there and laughing,
she reported this to her teacher who did absolutely nothing,not even confront the kid responsible - all he told her was to tell her parents!
I had a look at the guitar and the headstok is cracked and broken in several places.

I was planning to have a word with the deputy head on Monday, but unsure what course of action to take.... I feel on principal that the childs parents should pay for a replacement.
Anyone had anything similar happen at all?

Benbay001

5,890 posts

186 months

Saturday 15th March 2014
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hedgefinder said:
I feel on principal that the childs parents should pay for a replacement.
Me too.
But that will be very hard to see happen.
They should definately be told what their little rat did, they may even teach him a lesson.

fizmo100

175 posts

227 months

Saturday 15th March 2014
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If the class teacher was made aware and did nothing, then it should definitely be taken up a level. At the very least the kid who did it needs a rollicking, and the teacher could do with a word in their ear about not letting vandals off scott free.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cyLdtG7KZvw

bobbo89

6,010 posts

174 months

Saturday 15th March 2014
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Is it not possible that your daughter has caught it on something whilst carrying it, caused the damage herself and is covering her tracks?

A damaged headstock isn't really the kind of damage you'd think kicking a guitar would do and its unlikely the teacher would do absolutely nothing!

hedgefinder

Original Poster:

3,418 posts

199 months

Saturday 15th March 2014
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bobbo89 said:
Is it not possible that your daughter has caught it on something whilst carrying it, caused the damage herself and is covering her tracks?

A damaged headstock isn't really the kind of damage you'd think kicking a guitar would do and its unlikely the teacher would do absolutely nothing!
no definately not, I know she wouldnt even dream of it.
I even have the name of the kid responsible and the damaged headstock is more likely from the guitar hitting the floor after it was kicked!

Evangelion

8,648 posts

207 months

Saturday 15th March 2014
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Such disgusting behaviour needs to be nipped in the bud immediately or who knows what it may lead to?

Take it as high as you need to and if no action is taken, go to the press and name and shame the school and local education authority concerned.

Barryboyni

179 posts

154 months

Saturday 15th March 2014
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What kind of guitar was it?

hedgefinder

Original Poster:

3,418 posts

199 months

Saturday 15th March 2014
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my only concern is that the kid in question MAY have kicked the guitar by accident in the first instance as my daughter does say he was walking past it, but I am positive about the rest of what was said and happened afterwards...
including him laughing about it being cracked.

Edited by hedgefinder on Saturday 15th March 10:28

hedgefinder

Original Poster:

3,418 posts

199 months

Saturday 15th March 2014
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Barryboyni said:
What kind of guitar was it?
I have absolutely no idea, not into musical instruments at all.
being her first guitar it probably wasnt ahuge sum of money, probably £100 or so.

hedgefinder

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3,418 posts

199 months

Saturday 15th March 2014
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said, its more about the principal than anything else.
I would be mortified if one of my children did something like this accidentally or on purpose - and I know they certainly wouldnt be laughing about it as he was.
I am concerned that the teacher involved did nothing at all other than look at the damage and say " oh your headstock is cracked, better tell your dad when you get home ".

jonny996

2,716 posts

246 months

Saturday 15th March 2014
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If no one shows this kid that he can not damage other people's stuff then what's to stop him thinking it is ok to kick cars

Laurel Green

31,123 posts

261 months

Saturday 15th March 2014
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Ironic really, that a place of teaching feels no need to teach responsibility.

anonymous-user

83 months

Saturday 15th March 2014
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Laurel Green said:
Ironic really, that a place of teaching feels no need to teach responsibility.
I disagree a bit with this. It's a fairish point but why do school and teachers get the blame?

His parents are ultimately the people who should have taught him right from wrong.

Rich G

1,271 posts

247 months

Saturday 15th March 2014
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Topbox said:
Laurel Green said:
Ironic really, that a place of teaching feels no need to teach responsibility.
I disagree a bit with this. It's a fairish point but why do school and teachers get the blame?

His parents are ultimately the people who should have taught him right from wrong.
So it's okay for the teacher to ignore it then?

MikeO996

2,008 posts

253 months

Saturday 15th March 2014
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Topbox said:
Laurel Green said:
Ironic really, that a place of teaching feels no need to teach responsibility.
I disagree a bit with this. It's a fairish point but why do school and teachers get the blame?.
In loco parentis

Dodsy

7,175 posts

256 months

Saturday 15th March 2014
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Take it up with the head teacher. Teachers dont like to get involved in punishing kids for these kind of things.

My son was on the receiving end of some very serious physical bullying witnessed by teachers who did nothing and let it continue. When i complained they suggested excluding my son from school so he wouldnt be bullied any more! A few letters to the school governors sorted it in the end.

Teachers wont act until you wield a big stick so escalate it or the brat will just carry on.

FatSumo

15,078 posts

198 months

Saturday 15th March 2014
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Topbox said:
Laurel Green said:
Ironic really, that a place of teaching feels no need to teach responsibility.
I disagree a bit with this. It's a fairish point but why do school and teachers get the blame?

His parents are ultimately the people who should have taught him right from wrong.
What chance have parents got when a person in a position of responsibility cannot be bothered to enforce that same discipline?

Rick101

7,189 posts

179 months

Saturday 15th March 2014
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I had a similar incident when I was at school.

Class nobhead took my nice, saved up for ages, hockey stick and threw it in the gutter if the urinals. Ran out laughing.

Not morally right but made me feel better after I reached in took it out, went outside and ttted him with it.


Daston

6,148 posts

232 months

Saturday 15th March 2014
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The school/councils insurance should cover the costs of any repair/replacement.

NiceCupOfTea

25,586 posts

280 months

Saturday 15th March 2014
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Escalate it at school - I would be very surprised if the school didn't approach the parent with a request to cover damage or cover it on their insurance. It's what happened when my car was vandalised, although there was video evidence.

Worth getting insurance, British Reserve / Allianz do a very good policy and many pro musicians use them.