Early 40s ladies should come with a health warning...
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I seem to have been struck by the early 40s lady implosion for the second time 
Firstly my wife went off the rails in her 40th year in the hunt for greener grass - it was never there but the train crash that followed still has wreckage all around. I moved on as best I could and have been in a great relationship with a fantastic lady for the past 6 years(it's had its wobbles but we got through those blips with a few changes), I really thought it was for good, we both fitted like gloves...until a few days ago
The common factor seems to be the "is this as good as it gets, is this it for the rest of my life" questions that arrive in their birthday cards and leaves them questioning everything around them. I had a really good chat with our Occy Health Manager a few years ago and she told me a whole chunk of her friends had done just the same in their early 40s. It seems everything has to go up in the air, wreckage ensues and then it's all back to normal(apart from the disaster that's left behind).
Ok, I realise it might be just me and I'm crap at love and families but FFS, will you please stop this behavior and just buy a TVR(or handbag, or whatever presses your pretty little buttons).
Gutted and broken-hearted again of Cambs.
Firstly my wife went off the rails in her 40th year in the hunt for greener grass - it was never there but the train crash that followed still has wreckage all around. I moved on as best I could and have been in a great relationship with a fantastic lady for the past 6 years(it's had its wobbles but we got through those blips with a few changes), I really thought it was for good, we both fitted like gloves...until a few days ago
The common factor seems to be the "is this as good as it gets, is this it for the rest of my life" questions that arrive in their birthday cards and leaves them questioning everything around them. I had a really good chat with our Occy Health Manager a few years ago and she told me a whole chunk of her friends had done just the same in their early 40s. It seems everything has to go up in the air, wreckage ensues and then it's all back to normal(apart from the disaster that's left behind).
Ok, I realise it might be just me and I'm crap at love and families but FFS, will you please stop this behavior and just buy a TVR(or handbag, or whatever presses your pretty little buttons).
Gutted and broken-hearted again of Cambs.
Very good.
TEKNOPUG said:
tonyvid said:
The common factor seems to be the "is this as good as it gets, is this it for the rest of my life" questions that arrive in their birthday cards and leaves them questioning everything around them. me.
Women in their 40's are best sampled when you are in your 20's.
I wish I'd known that when I was 20
(even when I was 40 too)
Does this mean I need an 80 yr old?
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