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Major Fallout

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5,278 posts

262 months

Wednesday 23rd September 2015
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I'm out of ideas frown

We went out and and she tried everything on, finally picked one. The guy that resizes them was away but it would only take 30 min. Fantastic!

I had the idea of proposing on the start line of a hill climb we were doing last weekend, lots of people, press and TV cameras. She would have hated it but loved it at the same time. Plus we get to drive off into the distance soon after.

The only problem was the 30min to resize, turned into 2 weeks after he broke the ring and had to start from scratch. But as an apology he is fitting bigger stones.

But this meant it wasn't ready for the hill climb.


I had an idea something like this was going to happen so I had a backup plan.

We have wanted a dog for years and were very close to getting one, we had asked the landlady (we are renting) she said yes. We fenced the garden and fitted a new gate, and have been in touch with a breeder and met the dog we want.

So my idea, ring in box tied with ribbon to the new dogs collar. She calls the dog and bingo!


Only problem is we got back on Monday to a little note from the landlady saying she had changed her mind, I went around to ask her to reconsider and she won't. (bull st reasons)

So right at this moment I still have no ring, no dog and no fking idea frown

To top it off, we are both busy in different directions after next weekend. I'm running a rally she is up in Yorkshire, then she heads over to HOYS for a week.

Pixel Pusher

10,427 posts

190 months

Wednesday 23rd September 2015
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Forgive my stupidity Major, but if I can just get this through my thick head....

She knows you're going to propose as she's chosen the ring. You just want an idea on a way to hand it over?

It'll be no surprise to her?

Impasse

15,099 posts

272 months

Wednesday 23rd September 2015
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It's a sign. Call off the engagement now before it gets even more expensive. Consider it a lucky escape.

Rouleur

7,429 posts

220 months

Wednesday 23rd September 2015
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Pixel Pusher said:
Forgive my stupidity Major, but if I can just get this through my thick head....

She knows you're going to propose as she's chosen the ring. You just want an idea on a way to hand it over?

It'll be no surprise to her?
This. If she knows it's going to happen then just let her slip her finger into your ring and be done with it.

Timsta

2,779 posts

277 months

Wednesday 23rd September 2015
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Rouleur said:
This. If she knows it's going to happen then just let her slip her finger into your ring and be done with it.
Didn't you read the OP? The jeweller broke his ring by being too rough.

Pixel Pusher

10,427 posts

190 months

Wednesday 23rd September 2015
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Timsta said:
Rouleur said:
This. If she knows it's going to happen then just let her slip her finger into your ring and be done with it.
Didn't you read the OP? The jeweller broke his ring by being too rough.
We're not disputing that bit.

It's more a case of why try to create some huge surprise statement when it's not going to be a surprise?

She picked the ring.

Impasse

15,099 posts

272 months

Wednesday 23rd September 2015
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Innuendo whoosh, PP! hehe

Timsta

2,779 posts

277 months

Wednesday 23rd September 2015
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Impasse said:
Innuendo whoosh, PP! hehe
Can someone hand that man a parrot?

Pixel Pusher

10,427 posts

190 months

Wednesday 23rd September 2015
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Timsta said:
Impasse said:
Innuendo whoosh, PP! hehe
Can someone hand that man a parrot?
hehe

Dromedary66

1,924 posts

169 months

Wednesday 23rd September 2015
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Pixel Pusher said:
Forgive my stupidity Major, but if I can just get this through my thick head....

She knows you're going to propose as she's chosen the ring. You just want an idea on a way to hand it over?

It'll be no surprise to her?
I'll second that. Bit strange to be honest.

Dogwatch

6,385 posts

253 months

Wednesday 23rd September 2015
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Just get on with it.

Major Fallout

Original Poster:

5,278 posts

262 months

Wednesday 23rd September 2015
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Its not so much a surprise, as just something nice to look back on.

Just something different than our usual free time, thats normally mucking out the horses.


At the moment its looking like a pub lunch and walk.

anonymous-user

85 months

Wednesday 23rd September 2015
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Major Fallout said:
We went out and and she tried everything on the guy that resizes them, it would only take 30 min...
Very confusing too... I would ditch her if shes like that with a resizer as shes gonna be 'resized' before you get to her... wink

Edited by V6Pushfit on Wednesday 23 September 13:22

CaptainSlow

13,179 posts

243 months

Wednesday 23rd September 2015
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Dromedary66 said:
Pixel Pusher said:
Forgive my stupidity Major, but if I can just get this through my thick head....

She knows you're going to propose as she's chosen the ring. You just want an idea on a way to hand it over?

It'll be no surprise to her?
I'll second that. Bit strange to be honest.
I was in the same position and didn't do the grand proposal...OP do the proposal, one less thing to be nagged about in later years.

Rouleur

7,429 posts

220 months

Wednesday 23rd September 2015
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Timsta said:
Rouleur said:
This. If she knows it's going to happen then just let her slip her finger into your ring and be done with it.
Didn't you read the OP? The jeweller broke his ring by being too rough.
Maybe the OP should go for a pearl necklace instead, there's less chance of something going wrong.

Grey Ghost

4,611 posts

251 months

Wednesday 23rd September 2015
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Major Fallout said:
At the moment its looking like a pub lunch and walk.
This..............pick a quiet country walk and go for a quick knee trembler against a tree as a celebratory measure...........very PH hehe

RobinBanks

17,551 posts

210 months

Wednesday 23rd September 2015
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By now I would've taken it as an omen against marriage, to be honest.



By the way, I presume that this hillclimb with the ring was vigorously uphill?

Cliftonite

8,753 posts

169 months

Wednesday 23rd September 2015
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Impasse said:
It's a sign. Call off the engagement now before it gets even more expensive. Consider it a lucky escape.
This. ^^^^

ewenm

28,506 posts

276 months

Wednesday 23rd September 2015
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Major Fallout said:
At the moment its looking like a pub lunch and walk.
Walk up a hill to a good viewpoint on a lovely autumn day and propose there (bottle of bubbly in the rucksack) - that can become your "special place" (to feed the innuendoers some more hehe).

JuniorD

9,013 posts

254 months

Wednesday 23rd September 2015
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Rouleur said:
Pixel Pusher said:
Forgive my stupidity Major, but if I can just get this through my thick head....

She knows you're going to propose as she's chosen the ring. You just want an idea on a way to hand it over?

It'll be no surprise to her?
This. If she knows it's going to happen then just let her slip her finger into your ring and be done with it.
hehe
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