Teaching assistant wouldn't let daughter go to the toilet
Teaching assistant wouldn't let daughter go to the toilet
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lkdawesy

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1 posts

112 months

Friday 16th June 2017
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Hi, just after a bit of advice.

My daughter 6 year 2, says that the TA took the class yesterday and that 5 minutes after lunch she needed a wee. She said she asked and was told no and that she should have gone at lunch. The TA made her wait all afternoon despite asking 3 more times and explaining that holding her wee was giving her stomach ache. My little girl said she was bouncing up and down and had to keep her legs crossed. They don't have an afternoon break so she had to hold on for 2 hours.

Should I speak to her regular teacher

lucido grigio

44,044 posts

193 months

Friday 16th June 2017
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lkdawesy said:
Hi, just after a bit of advice.

My daughter 6 year 2, says that the TA took the class yesterday and that 5 minutes after lunch she needed a wee. She said she asked and was told no and that she should have gone at lunch. The TA made her wait all afternoon despite asking 3 more times and explaining that holding her wee was giving her stomach ache. My little girl said she was bouncing up and down and had to keep her legs crossed. They don't have an afternoon break so she had to hold on for 2 hours.

Should I speak to her regular teacher
Do you know where you are ?......confused

This is a motoring forum.

The Vambo

7,740 posts

171 months

Friday 16th June 2017
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lkdawesy said:
Hi, just after a bit of advice.

My daughter 6 year 2, says that the TA took the class yesterday and that 5 minutes after lunch she needed a wee. She said she asked and was told no and that she should have gone at lunch. The TA made her wait all afternoon despite asking 3 more times and explaining that holding her wee was giving her stomach ache. My little girl said she was bouncing up and down and had to keep her legs crossed. They don't have an afternoon break so she had to hold on for 2 hours.

Should I speak to her regular teacher
If you move it to the Lounge you will get some good advice, and some nonsense.

And a poster will suggestion that you trade your daughter in for a 70's muscle car.

anonymous-user

84 months

Friday 16th June 2017
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I would have pissed on the floor and made TA clean it up smile

ging84

9,548 posts

176 months

Friday 16th June 2017
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This seems pretty outrageous to me.

Girls being educated ?

dudleybloke

20,553 posts

216 months

Friday 16th June 2017
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First thing Monday morning you need to walk into the classroom and take a dump on the teachers desk.
Remember to ask for a gold star too.

Stridey

342 posts

137 months

Friday 16th June 2017
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Similar happened when I was at primary school.

Girl put up her hand up and asked if she could go to the toilet.

It trickled through her fingers.

Zetec-S

6,926 posts

123 months

Friday 16th June 2017
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Sorry if I've misunderstood the question, but I think you need an MX5.

lucido grigio

44,044 posts

193 months

Friday 16th June 2017
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At least it's been moved from GG now.

Is the noob OP still with us ?

B17NNS

18,506 posts

277 months

Friday 16th June 2017
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As first posts go it was certainly peculiar smile

KAgantua

5,190 posts

161 months

Friday 16th June 2017
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lkdawesy said:
Hi, just after a bit of advice.

My daughter 6 year 2, says that the TA took the class yesterday and that 5 minutes after lunch she needed a wee. She said she asked and was told no and that she should have gone at lunch. The TA made her wait all afternoon despite asking 3 more times and explaining that holding her wee was giving her stomach ache. My little girl said she was bouncing up and down and had to keep her legs crossed. They don't have an afternoon break so she had to hold on for 2 hours.

Should I speak to her regular teacher
MX5.

Lol someone beat me to it.

Ikemi

8,610 posts

235 months

Friday 16th June 2017
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First post ... and it's this?!

Mumsnet is that way -------->


anonymous-user

84 months

Friday 16th June 2017
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Ikemi said:
First post ... and it's this?!

Mumsnet is that way -------->
This, although OP you should go and speak to the head teacher Monday morning.

rainmakerraw

1,243 posts

156 months

Friday 16th June 2017
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That's a proper odd first post. hehe Giving the OP the benefit of the doubt as lurker who decided to register to ask...

Many will scoff at this issue and we've had similar threads in the past. "Back in my day we had one pee a week and only when instructed" etc etc. I can tell you from experience, making children hold their pee like this can and does cause bilateral hydronephrosis. You're looking at very major surgery, a 14" incision, removal of the rib(s), then removal of the kidney to rebuild and replace. Several months to get back up and walking, then decades of pain, dozens more surgeries, then kidney failure.

Ask me how I know...

It may be trivialised by many, but have murder with the teacher, and the head if necessary. Making children hold their bladder in this way - especially for hours - can be very damaging to health, and permanently so.

Wacky Racer

41,371 posts

277 months

Friday 16th June 2017
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Give the OP a break, a noob would not know that GG is for car related stuff.

At least wait until someone has at least three posts before taking the piss.

MX5_Nuts

1,487 posts

137 months

Friday 16th June 2017
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Don't get these "MX5" posts confused

Does this mean I shouldn't be driving one? A farmer did shout "are you a wker" at me the other day confused

eldar

25,298 posts

226 months

Friday 16th June 2017
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MX5_Nuts said:
Don't get these "MX5" posts confused

Does this mean I shouldn't be driving one? A farmer did shout "are you a wker" at me the other day confused
Was it an insult, an observation or poor grammar? Were you looking, somewhat lustily, at a farm animal?

MX5 in isolation indicates it is the preferable car, had you the choice between that and a Nissan Micra.

lucido grigio

44,044 posts

193 months

Friday 16th June 2017
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MX5_Nuts said:
Don't get these "MX5" posts confused

Does this mean I shouldn't be driving one? A farmer did shout "are you a wker" at me the other day confused
MX5 is the standard PH answer to everything.


Ikemi

8,610 posts

235 months

Friday 16th June 2017
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Wacky Racer said:
Give the OP a break, a noob would not know that GG is for car related stuff.

At least wait until someone has at least three posts before taking the piss.
Indeed, but Pistonheads is inherently a car related website with forum. The sub-forums are used by members who originally joined to talk about cars. No matter whether you post in the photography, animals or computing sub-forums, most of us share a passion for cars. The OP could have at least mentioned his or her garage! :P

poing

8,743 posts

230 months

Friday 16th June 2017
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Which genius mod moved this to the lounge? Now the poor OP can't even reply to it, although that does mean it's funnier for the rest of us.

My serious bit. She had just been for lunch, go to the toilet at that point. Teacher was teaching. Your daughter now knows to plan more than 5 minutes ahead.