The "Life Goal" Thread...
The "Life Goal" Thread...
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trowelhead

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1,867 posts

151 months

Monday 11th December 2017
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Excluding the obvious "live in a nice house and drive a ferrari", what's your lifes burning goal that gets you out of bed in the morning?

Maybe owning a hotel, starting a charity, becoming a chess master... etc.


Ari

19,826 posts

245 months

Monday 11th December 2017
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Being happy. Sounds trite but as you get older you realise that all of the material crap that used to seem to important isn't really.

So I guess in terms of goals, it's being financially secure which removes a lot of worry and offers a lot of freedom.

That's more important to me than the big house and Ferrari.

SlimRick

2,277 posts

195 months

Monday 11th December 2017
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Ari said:
Being happy. Sounds trite but as you get older you realise that all of the material crap that used to seem to important isn't really.

So I guess in terms of goals, it's being financially secure which removes a lot of worry and offers a lot of freedom.

That's more important to me than the big house and Ferrari.
As much of a cliche as it sounds, my goals all changed when by son was born last year. It's gone from wanting a nice car / house / boat, to making sure my family is well looked after, now and in the future, and my kids can make the most of any opportunities they receive.

Oh, and a Ferrari, I really want a Ferrari.

Ari

19,826 posts

245 months

Monday 11th December 2017
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Yeah, well, I'm working on the basis that if I can get financially secure enough, I can buy a Ferrari with it! biggrin


bazza white

3,761 posts

158 months

Monday 11th December 2017
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Buy a boat and sail the world but 35 and single so a running rehind schedule on the family side of life so retiring abroad may be more realistic.

Nezquick

1,838 posts

156 months

Monday 11th December 2017
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I'd like to make Partner one day at the law firm I currently work for. That'd do nicely.

Puggit

49,820 posts

278 months

Monday 11th December 2017
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Nonbody's put threesome yet? This place is going to the dogs.

towser44

4,214 posts

145 months

Monday 11th December 2017
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Become a professional darts player.

LimaDelta

8,503 posts

248 months

Monday 11th December 2017
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To watch my children grow up, be happy and make the most of their lives. You can keep your poxy Ferrari.

That and finish my aeroplane build.

designforlife

3,742 posts

193 months

Monday 11th December 2017
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I don't really have any tbh, i tend to focus on being happy in the moment. Don't tend to plan life any further than a year in advance (even then, i'm talking booking holidays!).

I guess i'd like kids at some stage, and it would be nice to actually buy a house...although I doubt that's going to happen before my 40s.

drmotorsport

970 posts

273 months

Monday 11th December 2017
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Puggit said:
Nonbody's put threesome yet? This place is going to the dogs.
Having the funds for a coke n hookers threesome.
HTH

Cheeky Jim

1,276 posts

310 months

Monday 11th December 2017
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Getting the 3 kids through Uni... the first one heads off in 2.5 years..... and as they are all 3 years apart, the next 9 years of forking out a small fortune has any grand expenditure plans out the window...

After that, buy a Winnebago and go travel the world.. literally, jump in and head off into the wild unknown...

br d

9,072 posts

256 months

Monday 11th December 2017
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I have a nice house and a supercar but as someone else said as you get older it's much more important to just be happy. In my view someone who has very little but is content is in a better place than someone with a whole lot and a pile of stress.

Stay healthy, spend time with those you love, enjoy your work and be glad you woke up this morning!

Hoofy

80,099 posts

312 months

Monday 11th December 2017
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I want to build something recognisable in the health/fitness industry similar to Pilates or Spinning.

Puggit said:
Nonbody's put threesome yet? This place is going to the dogs.
Well, my fear is that my todger will look the smallest. Or isn't that what you meant?

S100HP

13,806 posts

197 months

Monday 11th December 2017
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Live forever. That what I'm aiming for.

Squadrone Rosso

3,689 posts

177 months

Monday 11th December 2017
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Retire no later than 55.

Buy a camper van, tour Europe for a year, sell it, buy place abroad where the winters are warm, keep a smaller place at home.

Live out my life with the wife & dogs.

We’ll be financially able to do this. Doubtful with my health issues though.

Dan-Fresh

131 posts

230 months

Monday 11th December 2017
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At 18 it was buy a house in the place i grew up (house prices went mental there so when dad had to sell i didn't think i'd ever get back there). Drive a Porsche and work for myself.

At 38 i was hit by a pretty decent dose of depression even though i'd accomplished all 3. It made me realise that unless your happy you won't elicit any value from any of them.

A year later my life goals are making sure i'm around to see my kids grow up and expanding my property portfolio to a point where they have something to inherit.

When i changed that mind set i accomplished more this year than i ever have before and enjoyed it far more too.

exelero

2,083 posts

119 months

Monday 11th December 2017
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Puggit said:
Nonbody's put threesome yet? This place is going to the dogs.
Happened to me on multiple occasions. Anyway I would like a 6 digit yearly wage in GBP. Not sure how am I going to do it, but everything is possible... smile

BoRED S2upid

21,069 posts

270 months

Monday 11th December 2017
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I’m firmly in the happiness, security for the kids, give up full time work before I’m too old to do stuff type goals.

red_slr

20,803 posts

219 months

Monday 11th December 2017
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Retire as young as possible and travel as far as possible.