Feels like ive ruined christmas. "overreactin"??
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Long story short,
Ive been being bullied at work, 2 members of staff and the general manager.
Text messages,tickle tackle to others. (playground)
Over a few months so deleted all contact on book face and ignored the people involved.
Anyway another episode this weekend forced me in to jacking and walking.
Spent the week feeling very down and wondering what to do with my life.
Got a job interview today, but just feel like ive let the family down by jumping.
Just want to vent and man up I suppose but instead I feel like getting back in bed and hiding away.
New year new start.......
Ive been being bullied at work, 2 members of staff and the general manager.
Text messages,tickle tackle to others. (playground)
Over a few months so deleted all contact on book face and ignored the people involved.
Anyway another episode this weekend forced me in to jacking and walking.
Spent the week feeling very down and wondering what to do with my life.
Got a job interview today, but just feel like ive let the family down by jumping.
Just want to vent and man up I suppose but instead I feel like getting back in bed and hiding away.
New year new start.......
It takes guts to walk, so credit to you for that.
Putting finances aside (I know it's hard), staying put in a situation like that is going to make you more miserable in the long run. Concentrate on the important things like family, at least now knowing you don't have to put up with s
t from work. You'll probably have a better Christmas for it.
And try not to hide away, get out and give the interview a shot. If you're available straight away that might give you an advantage.
Putting finances aside (I know it's hard), staying put in a situation like that is going to make you more miserable in the long run. Concentrate on the important things like family, at least now knowing you don't have to put up with s
t from work. You'll probably have a better Christmas for it.And try not to hide away, get out and give the interview a shot. If you're available straight away that might give you an advantage.
I'll bet your family are really glad you've quit. The situation you were in sounds horrible and no matter what you do or how you try and shelter them it will impact your relationships at home if you're unhappy at work.
Prove them right, reflect, realise you've done absolutely the right thing by removing yourself from that unhappiness. Take that positive attitude home and become yourself again.
They'll be thrilled to have the true 'you' back, even if it means a little financial hardship.
Best of luck with the job search
Prove them right, reflect, realise you've done absolutely the right thing by removing yourself from that unhappiness. Take that positive attitude home and become yourself again.
They'll be thrilled to have the true 'you' back, even if it means a little financial hardship.
Best of luck with the job search
You definitely haven't ruined Christmas.
You now have the chance to be happier, and if you do well and get the new job - I am guessing it may not start until the new year in which case, you will likely have the opportunity to spend some more time with the people who matter to you.
They will understand.
You now have the chance to be happier, and if you do well and get the new job - I am guessing it may not start until the new year in which case, you will likely have the opportunity to spend some more time with the people who matter to you.
They will understand.
Ruined Christmas? Pfft! You've got time off now to get all those last minute presents, clean the house, prep the meal etc. You can spend xmas and NY with no worries about going back to the place you hate next year, in the knowledge that things are going to get better in the new year.
As long as you've got a bit of cash to tide you over there's nothing to worry about. Make sure you set yourself a goal every day (even if it's just to get out and about) so you don't stay in bed till lunch time every day. Good luck with the interview and don't feel down about it.
As long as you've got a bit of cash to tide you over there's nothing to worry about. Make sure you set yourself a goal every day (even if it's just to get out and about) so you don't stay in bed till lunch time every day. Good luck with the interview and don't feel down about it.
Ruined it? no, you have done the best thing for your family. it might not feel like it but you have.
Being bullied at work is crap and can take a big toll out of you, I have experienced bullying by an individual which I could sort out and bullying at a institutional level which I had no chance of sorting and made me throughly miserable as essentially I was helpless until I summoned up the courage to get out.
Dust yourself down, relax over christmas and hit the job market fresh.
Being bullied at work is crap and can take a big toll out of you, I have experienced bullying by an individual which I could sort out and bullying at a institutional level which I had no chance of sorting and made me throughly miserable as essentially I was helpless until I summoned up the courage to get out.
Dust yourself down, relax over christmas and hit the job market fresh.
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