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Twice in the last 3 days I have caught her in doors looking at webpages which she clearly does not want me to see her looking at.
I don't know what they are because as soon as I walk in the room she closes the page. I have never seen her act like this before and neither of us are generally that bothered about what we look at on the internet as we are grown adults so the "flinch and click" is not normal for either of us. After today her behaviour changed quite noticeably for a few hours after. I acted like I had not noticed but its really bugging me now as its the second time in a few days. We share devices and I know her passwords and she knows mine but I am loathed to go and look at her browsing history as that's just wrong IMHO. Any suggestions?
I don't know what they are because as soon as I walk in the room she closes the page. I have never seen her act like this before and neither of us are generally that bothered about what we look at on the internet as we are grown adults so the "flinch and click" is not normal for either of us. After today her behaviour changed quite noticeably for a few hours after. I acted like I had not noticed but its really bugging me now as its the second time in a few days. We share devices and I know her passwords and she knows mine but I am loathed to go and look at her browsing history as that's just wrong IMHO. Any suggestions?
Ask her what she's looking at, but do it in an "interested" way, rather than in a way that sounds like you're accusing her of something.
If she's still evasive, go and look at her browsing history.
The way I see it, you've given her the opportunity to tell you - if it's perfectly innocuous, she won't have an issue letting you know what she's doing.
If she's still evasive, go and look at her browsing history.
The way I see it, you've given her the opportunity to tell you - if it's perfectly innocuous, she won't have an issue letting you know what she's doing.
MorganP104 said:
Ask her what she's looking at, but do it in an "interested" way, rather than in a way that sounds like you're accusing her of something.
If she's still evasive, go and look at her browsing history.
The way I see it, you've given her the opportunity to tell you - if it's perfectly innocuous, she won't have an issue letting you know what she's doing.
I almost did that today in a "what you up to" kind of way but in that split second I thought better of it. Things are a bit fragile at the moment so I just asked what I went in there to ask and acted normal like I had not noticed. It was after that she acted strange for about 4-5 hours I would say.If she's still evasive, go and look at her browsing history.
The way I see it, you've given her the opportunity to tell you - if it's perfectly innocuous, she won't have an issue letting you know what she's doing.
If the relationship was otherwise a good one previously I would have thought she might have been looking into something for yoU, like buying something in the sales that she couldn’t afford before Christmas.
But if the relationship isn’t good, then it could be she’s trying to make it obvious she’s up to something online as she wants out of the relationship.
But if the relationship isn’t good, then it could be she’s trying to make it obvious she’s up to something online as she wants out of the relationship.
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