Not allowed to my best friends wedding

[Desset]

Well the story goes me and my friend went with two sisters. We had both proposed to them and were due to get married later this year. I cheated on my fiancé and she found out through a friend. I admitted I did it and that I felt no remorse as we’d lost the sparkle.

Fast forward to now and my mate has informed me I cannot be at the wedding as his future wives family don’t want me there. Im gutted but I was wondering if there is anything I can do to wangle an invite. I don’t want to put my friend under pressure but don’t want to miss this.

Anything I can try ?

Edited by Desset on Tuesday 13th March 18:31

[Vocal Minority]

Strap in lad - this’ll get bumpy

If you’d have fessed up yourself without being cornered and acknowledged it was wrong but, the truth is we’ve lost something - maybe, maybe your position would have been salvageable

But you were caught and not remorseful.

Your negotiating position is spectacularly weak.

Edited by Vocal Minority on Tuesday 13th March 18:33

[SAS Tom]

What could we possibly tell you to get you an invite? It’s not up to us.

Sounds like you’d spoil their day if you turned up.

[WolfieBot]

Desset said:

Anything I can try ?

Time travel?

[NDA]

You don't want to miss a wedding you're not invited to, wouldn't be welcome at and would spoil for the bride's family?

[bitchstewie]

Why would you want to go to a wedding nobody wants you to be at?

[bazza white]

Start dating a bridesmaid and go as a +1. Timing is everything though.

[Gameface]

You fked over a member of their family and they don't want you there in case you spoil something else for them.

Weird huh!!

If you did go you'd probably get a smack in the mouth from one of them anyway after 6 hours of free bar, so think yourself lucky.

[R8Steve]

Just turn up, what could possibly go wrong?

[TooMany2cvs]

Seriously...?

You cheated on the bride's sister - fairly recently - and you're surprised that you're not invited?

[Desset]

I was thinking of asking my friend to ignore his future in laws but I don’t think that would be the right thing to do. About a year ago me and the father had a fight because I was laughing at him when he was frustrated about what had happened. I regret that but he did start it.

[Vocal Minority]

You’re not great at thinking are you?


You have no ones interest at heart but your own - you know this will create bother for your mate, but rather than spare him that you want to emotionally black mail an invite out of him ‘as you really want to be there’ presumably because you think it makes you look loyal to him in the eyes of others

Edited by Vocal Minority on Tuesday 13th March 18:45

[Gameface]

None of this really happened did it.

[Desset]

All I want is to go to the wedding and for us all to put this behind us. It’s been a cloud hanging over the family for quite a while. I wasn’t remorseful no but I do kind of wish I had thought things through.

I know I only have myself to blame and I do not wish to spoil their day but on the flip side I am his best friend and I know he wants me there.

[anonymous-user]

You sound like a self entitled child. fk off.

[anonymous-user]

Gameface said:

None of this really happened did it.

True dat.

Another idiot who likes to masturbate to opinions on the internet. What a weirdo. It's probably missjess.

[FN2TypeR]

Do you care about anybody other than yourself, out of interest?

This is a joke, right?

[Desset]

I want advice. Has anyone else been in the situation. I just feel that the family are being selfish and not taking into consideration my friends feelings towards it all.

[FN2TypeR]

Desset said:

I want advice. Has anyone else been in the situation. I just feel that the family are being selfish and not taking into consideration my friends feelings towards it all.

Yep, it's a joke.

[Joey Ramone]

Desset said:

I want advice.

My advice is to sell yourself to medical science as soon as possible, as you appear to be the world's first living brain donor.