What are you getting your partner for Christmas?
What are you getting your partner for Christmas?
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Hippea

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3,885 posts

99 months

Thursday 22nd November 2018
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I’m pretty useless at the present buying thing. Do you guys come up with your own ideas what to get or are you pretty much told what to get by your other half?

Antony Moxey

10,714 posts

249 months

Thursday 22nd November 2018
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Nothing so far. However SWMBO's birthday is in December so for that I've got us tickets to see The Lion King (she's a BIG fan of West End shows), with a night in a hotel and train travel there and back sorted too (we're in Exmouth and I didn't fancy driving and trying to find somewhere to park). Couldn't make a full on weekend of it as both our jobs mean we're heavily restricted in taking time off during weekdays so it's only the one night away.

Her list is poor though: clothes (a near impossible task for men to buy women clothes), a table, a frying pan and perfume. FFS.

Jasandjules

72,607 posts

259 months

Thursday 22nd November 2018
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She has told me what she wants.....

anonymous-user

84 months

Thursday 22nd November 2018
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Bottle of toffee vodka.

That's what she asked for.

yellowjack

18,476 posts

196 months

Thursday 22nd November 2018
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I'm utterly useless at gift-buying.

So far she has bought herself a book she was after, and a matching necklace and bracelet. I think she'll buy herself a few other bits and bobs for me to wrap up for her on Christmas Day, and then, on Christmas Eve, I'll panic and rush out to get her some perfume that I know she likes the whiff of.

We're neither of us into expensive gift-giving, especially to each other. I'm happy with a book and some new slippers really. Christmas really is more about spending time with family, going for a walk on Christmas Day, and having a big old lunch. We frequently don't even start opening presents from under the tree until the late afternoon, after we've washed up the lunch dishes...

...in fact, I think my wife would happily go without presents at all, so long as the kids get something, lunch is a success and we get in our Christmas walk. 'Stuff' comes and goes, and most of it will eventually end up in a skip somewhere. Experiences will stay with you forever, though, and next year's Reading lineup looks good (very much her thing), so I might get us a couple of tickets for that.

g3org3y

22,487 posts

221 months

Thursday 22nd November 2018
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Probably one of these:


alorotom

12,787 posts

217 months

Thursday 22nd November 2018
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Sorted so far:
Surprise holiday to NYC for January
New Ted Baker coat
Hotel Chocolat chocolate liqueur

Possibly:
Red iPhone XR

Scabutz

8,846 posts

110 months

Thursday 22nd November 2018
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Wife and I don't get each other anything. People say romance is dead. Pah

Antony Moxey

10,714 posts

249 months

Thursday 22nd November 2018
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g3org3y said:
Probably one of these:

Got one of those a couple of years ago. SWMBO loves it and it has pride of place in the kitchen as a work top ornament...

vaderface

616 posts

170 months

Thursday 22nd November 2018
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Another that has no idea buying pressies.
We normally buy our own presents, then say thanks to each other.
Was looking at

Then realised i,am looking at things i would like.
Not lady watches, Just watches.

Do you buy hoping they like the actual present, or hope they like you've made an effort to surprise them?
Its the thought that counts etc

GetCarter

31,268 posts

309 months

Thursday 22nd November 2018
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We've given up buying crap each year, so we both get £250 to spend on-line on Christmas morning on stuff WE want, not toot the significant other THINKS we want.

Works a treat.

ST_Nuts

1,487 posts

137 months

Thursday 22nd November 2018
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Nothing. It's for kids only.

dave_s13

14,029 posts

299 months

Thursday 22nd November 2018
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We've bought each other an LPG conversion for the family bus. The gift that just keeps on giving.

GroundEffect

13,864 posts

186 months

Thursday 22nd November 2018
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How people can be bad at buying gifts is beyond me.

Do they like something in particular? Do they have a hobby, but something they might not buy themselves?

Buy that.

ST_Nuts said:
Nothing. It's for kids only.
Charmer.

Blakeatron

2,566 posts

203 months

Thursday 22nd November 2018
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All year all she has said she wanted was the front door repainting for Christmas- i did it a few weeks ago.

Also got her a fitbit and new slippers

GetCarter

31,268 posts

309 months

Thursday 22nd November 2018
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GroundEffect said:
How people can be bad at buying gifts is beyond me.
I've already bought her everything she wants and vice versa. We even bought a new Aston as a wedding present to each other (50/50). Much better to have some fun buying stuff on Christmas morning than opening yet anther shirt! ;0)

Badgerboy

1,794 posts

222 months

Thursday 22nd November 2018
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We never exchange gifts, class it as too much faff.

We normally book a night in a hotel/spa and go for a good tasting menu at a good restaurant.

Riley Blue

23,205 posts

256 months

Thursday 22nd November 2018
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Blakeatron said:
All year all she has said she wanted was the front door repainting for Christmas- i did it a few weeks ago.
Another one! Mine said that too but she wants it the same the bright blue as our car. However, that was a week ago; earlier today she said she'd like to have her ears pierced which is OK with me as that'll solve birthdays and Christmas for the foreseeable future - a women can never have too many pairs of earrings, can she....?

Hippea

Original Poster:

3,885 posts

99 months

Thursday 22nd November 2018
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Riley Blue said:
Blakeatron said:
All year all she has said she wanted was the front door repainting for Christmas- i did it a few weeks ago.
Another one! Mine said that too but she wants it the same the bright blue as our car. However, that was a week ago; earlier today she said she'd like to have her ears pierced which is OK with me as that'll solve birthdays and Christmas for the foreseeable future - a women can never have too many pairs of earrings, can she....?
Ok I will bite, why has no one made a joke about painting their misses front door.....

Welshbeef

49,633 posts

228 months

Thursday 22nd November 2018
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Antony Moxey said:
g3org3y said:
Probably one of these:

Got one of those a couple of years ago. SWMBO loves it and it has pride of place in the kitchen as a work top ornament...
I got one of these 5+ years ago seconded the MRS loves it uses it all the time.

We’ve got few extra things which bolt onto it since