This is a bad idea right?

[talkssense]

Ok, so my Fiancé has floated the idea of a threesome involving one of her friends, which in theory sounds like a cracking idea.

However, having picked my jaw up off the ground and given it a bit of thought (quite a lot of thought actually - anyway, I digress) I am really not sure it’s a good idea long term?

So, serious question. Has anyone ever done this as part of a committed and long term relationship that hasn’t then regretted it? I am struggling to see where you take your sex life from there and if there would ever truly not be trust issues in the future.

[SHutchinson]

It sounds like the worst idea ever.

[mikees]

No. Never. 99% destroy current relationship.

[Foliage]

You'll be off making a sandwich while they mott eat other out, I guarantee it..

[anonymous-user]

She will get jealous if it happens and it will fk your relationship.

But you only live once etc, so....

[anonymous-user]

Foliage said:

You'll be off making a sandwich while they mott eat other out, I guarantee it..

Her friend might be a bloke?

Give it go life is for living, just don't watch Friends.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DLcKxzLJhFs

[DaveTheRave87]

Pics of fiancé and friend so we can make an informed judgement.

[FredClogs]

If she wants it and you deny her then your long term relationship is fked anyway.

You're going to have to do it or let her go.

Out of interest, is her friend male or female?

[talkssense]

Should have made clear, her friend is also female.

I am very much of the opinion that no good could come from it, but also have a foot in the “you only live once” camp

[lampchair]

A common rule is only your girl can make you blow your load.



There's a chance she's wanting to make sure she's not a lezzer before she dooms herself to eternity with you though.

[NoVetec]

Changes the parameters a bit with you being engaged, yet one question arises regardless of relationship status - What's your sex life been like so far? Gory details optional but essentially have you discussed and/or done stuff beyond the 'usual'? If you two have already indulged in x amount of trying new things out a threesome may be something to experience together.

Make sure if you do go ahead with it do it before you get married.

[zedx19]

What sort of female? Hot? 5 pinter? 10 pinter?

[vtecyo]

DaveTheRave87 said:

Pics of fiancé and friend so we can make an informed judgement.

Seconded.

Is she hotter than your fiance?

[RTB]

I'll keep an eye out for the "my fiance has left me for a woman" thread in a few months.

[anonymous-user]

talkssense said:

Should have made clear, her friend is also female.

I am very much of the opinion that no good could come from it, but also have a foot in the “you only live once” camp

What were her actual words about it?

[MDMA .]

DaveTheRave87 said:

Pics of fiancé and friend so we can make an informed judgement.

Yes. The friend could be hotter than your fiance in which case it might not last long anyway.

[S100HP]

JFDI

[talkssense]

Pics won’t be happening. Let’s just say I am a lucky man. Mates have used the term “punching” on many occasions.

No gory details, but let’s say she’s adventurous and I do a lot of smiling.

I did know before we got together that she had previously been with women as well as men, although very much mainly men.

[RTB]

Every man's fantasy.... the opportunity to disappoint two women at the same time

- Al Murray

[CrunkleFloop]

It's a test. Beware!!