Is this a scam or.....
Is this a scam or.....
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njw1

Original Poster:

2,778 posts

140 months

Friday 28th August 2020
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.....just someone being a bit thick? A few months ago I had a pair of speakers for sale on ebay and was contacted by a guy in Germany who said he'd like to buy them. He asked if he could pay via paypal and then have his son who lives in the UK come and pick them to which I said absolutely not a chance, if his son is collecting then he pays cash on collection, however, after speaking with the guy on the phone I agree he can pay via paypal as he seems very genuine and he says he'll pay as soon as we get off the phone but after the phonecall there is no payment and I hear nothing, until yesterday...

Yesterday I get a message from the guy in Germany saying that his son is having trouble finding the time to come and pick up the speakers but he should be able to do it in the next week or two, I message him back (via ebay) saying that as he never paid and I haven't heard from him I've removed the speaker cones from the cabinets and sold them to someone else. I get a very arsey reply from him saying that they were his speakers, I shouldn't have done that and I need to refund his money straight away, I reply asking when he made the payment and to confirm that my paypal address is where he actually sent the money. I have another arsey reply whereby he's adamant it's my paypal the money's gone too but he still doesn't say when he made the payment, he does say that if I put the speaker cones back in the cabinets he'll come and pick them up personally! I've messaged him again stating I've received no payment and asked again when he made the payment but haven't heard back yet.

So, I'm unsure what to think, is this;

A, Some kind of scam?

B, an idiot who's made the payment to the wrong paypal account and either doesn't realise it or perhaps now does realise but as they've sent a couple of arsey messages to me saying I've got their money they're now going along with it to see if they can get anything back off me for their mistake?

C, or has the guy in Germany asked someone else to make the payment on his behalf and they've said they've made the payment when they haven't?

Any thoughts?

CoolHands

23,433 posts

224 months

Friday 28th August 2020
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D) ignore

shtu

4,520 posts

175 months

Friday 28th August 2020
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Genuine or not, you don't need that hassle in your life over a pair of secondhand speakers.

Option D.

anonymous-user

83 months

Friday 28th August 2020
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Tell him to make an eBay / PayPal claim


38911

765 posts

180 months

Friday 28th August 2020
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Option D.

Ignore him.

rfisher

5,063 posts

312 months

Friday 28th August 2020
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Does he know where you live?

If yes - I'm bookmarking this thread.

If no - I'm oooot.

Do tell.

njw1

Original Poster:

2,778 posts

140 months

Saturday 29th August 2020
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^^He has my postcode but not the house number, he hasn't made any further contact and I've blocked the idiot now anyway.

anonymous-user

83 months

Saturday 29th August 2020
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Some get quite possessive over things they haven’t fully committed to buy. This sounds like one of those people. Moving on is usually the best thing.

LeadFarmer

7,411 posts

160 months

Saturday 29th August 2020
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Ignore him, you don't want to amplify the problem. Its amazing watt some folk try to get away with. He's obviously got his wires crossed. You could sell them to someone else for treble the price.

MXRod

2,854 posts

176 months

Saturday 29th August 2020
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LeadFarmer said:
Ignore him, you don't want to amplify the problem. Its amazing watt some folk try to get away with. He's obviously got his wires crossed. You could sell them to someone else for treble the price.
What do you bass that on

njw1

Original Poster:

2,778 posts

140 months

Saturday 29th August 2020
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Will you lot bugger off with your speaker puns, haven't you got ohms to go to?

bluezedd

1,286 posts

111 months

Saturday 29th August 2020
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He wasted your time by calling you a few months ago and then never paying for them. Ignore or wind him up if you like.

TooLateForAName

4,925 posts

213 months

Saturday 29th August 2020
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Did you give him your paypal address? If not how did he get it?

njw1

Original Poster:

2,778 posts

140 months

Saturday 29th August 2020
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^^I gave him my paypal address when I spoke to him on the phone.

dudleybloke

20,553 posts

215 months

Saturday 29th August 2020
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njw1 said:
Will you lot bugger off with your speaker puns, haven't you got ohms to go to?
The truth Hertz.

njw1

Original Poster:

2,778 posts

140 months

Saturday 29th August 2020
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dudleybloke said:
njw1 said:
Will you lot bugger off with your speaker puns, haven't you got ohms to go to?
The truth Hertz.
The frequency of these puns is just too much.