supermarket argument: abadoned trolley, thoughts?
supermarket argument: abadoned trolley, thoughts?
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Kirito101

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7 posts

60 months

Saturday 30th October 2021
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Today I was waiting in car at the supermarket. The women (car parked the one after mines) leaves the trolley beside the pavement or beside my car as i was parked at the end so I horned and went to tell her to put trolley back. Then her other half started defending to say mind my own business and the car beside also butts in like assholes and defends the women.


Seriously, after some arguments back and forth, I decided to just get back into my car and they drove off then a minute later, a elderly woman approaches me and said I done the right thing as its bad manners to leave abadoned trolley.

Still a bit hot headed with the argument which took place afternoon


It was 2 vs me and what is your opinion and what would you have done in the same situation.

WonkeyDonkey

2,582 posts

132 months

Saturday 30th October 2021
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Wouldn't usually share 'memes', let alone ones from 4chan. Sums it up quite well for me though.




For me there is no excuse to not return your trolley. Its a pure selfish act to just dump it close to where your car is. People like to have excuses like having children. Guess what? I've got children and have always returned the trolley. OP you are in the right but the majority of the public are just so self absorbed that they see it as someone else's job.


Edited by WonkeyDonkey on Saturday 30th October 17:56

Nickp82

3,952 posts

122 months

Saturday 30th October 2021
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Why did you ‘horn’ her? Why not jump out out the car and have a quick word or failing that just move the trolley , really not worth creating an issue over.


Countdown

49,340 posts

225 months

Saturday 30th October 2021
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WonkeyDonkey said:
Wouldn't usually share 'memes', let alone ones from 4chan. Sums it up quite well for me though.

The same could be said for parking in Disabled/P&C spaces. It's the same self-entitled subset of people who don't GAF about others.

Kirito101

Original Poster:

7 posts

60 months

Saturday 30th October 2021
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Nickp82 said:
Why did you ‘horn’ her? Why not jump out out the car and have a quick word or failing that just move the trolley , really not worth creating an issue over.
I did but she couldnt hear as she was walking away pretty fast so I used the horn to get her attention.

Nickbrapp

5,277 posts

159 months

Saturday 30th October 2021
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It is very lazy and hardly takes anything to put it back but it’s not as peasantry as beeping your horn at someone and then having a argument with them about something that doesn’t concern you.

I would say you’re more of a knob than her. Mind your own, might bring your blood pressure down, do you also block 2 lanes 300 yards before merge in turns to stop people “pushing in”

Baldchap

9,624 posts

121 months

Saturday 30th October 2021
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WonkeyDonkey said:
Wouldn't usually share 'memes', let alone ones from 4chan. Sums it up quite well for me though.




For me there is no excuse to not return your trolley. Its a pure selfish act to just dump it close to where your car is. People like to have excuses like having children. Guess what? I've got children and have always returned the trolley. OP you are in the right but the majority of the public are just so self absorbed that they see it as someone else's job.


Edited by WonkeyDonkey on Saturday 30th October 17:56
I agree wholeheartedly.

swisstoni

23,933 posts

308 months

Saturday 30th October 2021
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Good for the Op.
Maybe she might even consider taking 10secs to put the thing back next time.


Chubbyross

4,974 posts

114 months

Saturday 30th October 2021
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Some people deserve this...


Terminator X

20,543 posts

233 months

Saturday 30th October 2021
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At our local Tesco people even leave the trolley not 10 foot from the trolley park, un fking believable!

TX.

elanfan

5,527 posts

256 months

Saturday 30th October 2021
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I challenged a woman in a garden centre car park. She was going to leave the trolley on a slope. So I wound down the window and asked whether she would pay for the damage when it rolled into someone’s car door. She glared at me but put it back.

The spinner of plates

18,084 posts

229 months

Saturday 30th October 2021
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The problem with ignorance is that it’s ignorant to its own existence.

steve_naive

161 posts

110 months

Saturday 30th October 2021
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Always try and bear in mind that she might have been ill/about to pish her kecks/depressed.

Obviously your immediate thought was towards her being a complete bunghole of a human being. Well, maybe...

jhonn

1,697 posts

178 months

Saturday 30th October 2021
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Kirito101 said:
...what would you have done in the same situation.
Unless it was likely to roll in to my car, probably nothing, and this is why...

Kirito101 said:
Still a bit hot headed with the argument which took place afternoon
The only thing you've achieved is that it's got you upset. You're unlikely to change their minds, they're more likely to get defensive/argumentative if you confront them, blowing your horn at them would be seen as aggressive.

Try and forget about it and move on.

CoolHands

23,404 posts

224 months

Saturday 30th October 2021
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It keeps people employed

wibble cb

4,148 posts

236 months

Saturday 30th October 2021
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Went to a DIY store, parked away from other cars, but came back to find not one, but two trolleys nestled against the side of my car, actually touching it….the trolley parking was 15 ft away, if I had been there I would have said something, or more likely wouldn’t have had to, as no one could be that dense, could they?

Gretchen

19,786 posts

245 months

Saturday 30th October 2021
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steve_naive said:
Always try and bear in mind that she might have been ill/about to pish her kecks/depressed.

Obviously your immediate thought was towards her being a complete bunghole of a human being. Well, maybe...
If she and her partner had the energy to argue back then probably not. If she’d said something along the lines of “I’ve just strapped my baby in the car and don’t want to leave them” fair enough. But doubtful since the OP is wound up enough to share.

Don’t shop at said supermarket anymore. Clearly chavtastic. Or probably Waitrose.


Gtom

1,892 posts

161 months

Saturday 30th October 2021
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https://m.youtube.com/channel/UClMUlr8yHymYgSe58Dp...

This is you right?

In fairness, it’s just plain lazy and ignorant to walk away from your trolley. Decency and respect for others is non existent now. The same applies for filtering traffic.

MikeM6

6,034 posts

131 months

Saturday 30th October 2021
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It is true that you would have to have sub human levels of consideration to not put a trolley away, but I would favour a friendly conversation pointing out why they should put it away. It's more effective and less likely to give you blood pressure issues

swisstoni

23,933 posts

308 months

Saturday 30th October 2021
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MikeM6 said:
It is true that you would have to have sub human levels of consideration to not put a trolley away, but I would favour a friendly conversation pointing out why they should put it away. It's more effective and less likely to give you blood pressure issues
Not when you get told to F off in the end, all the same hehe
It’s why most people don’t bother to do what the op did; they know how it’s going to end up.

And with a seeming growth in violent nutters, it’s not necessary only a verbal abuse you might have to deal with.