Trick or Treaters - how old is too old?
Trick or Treaters - how old is too old?
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richatnort

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3,204 posts

160 months

Sunday 31st October 2021
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We've recently moved house and area and didn't know the deal with Halloween. We have a 2 year old so thought we'd take part in Halloween (lite pumpkin in our area means stop by). However I'm a bit disappointed because although we got 80% little kids but I can't believe how many secondary school age kids we had knock on the door. Most not even dressed up or just some fake blood on their face. Found the experience quite intimidating and so did my wife who's friendlier than me so we decided to stop and take the pumpkin down.

I thought trick or treating was for kids under 10? It's so disappointing we felt we had to stop but we were getting more and more teenagers and didn't want to say no sorry you can't have any incase egging began.

Anyone else get loads of teenagers?

FWIW

3,924 posts

126 months

Sunday 31st October 2021
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No advice, I just hate it.

  1. grinch

Hol

9,316 posts

229 months

Sunday 31st October 2021
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We have had none visit our house thus far tonight and we have a big bowl of Cadbury’s finest to give away.

When my kids were pre teen and we were out walking with them we would often be told by houses that they had run out of treats as the older kids had come round and dug in with both hands, so what you are seeing is not unusual IMHO.

BoRED S2upid

21,047 posts

269 months

Sunday 31st October 2021
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We must have had about 30 80% young kids with a parent but now more and more teenagers but very polite ‘happy Halloween’ ‘thank you’ and dressed up so I’m happy with giving them some harribo.

Narcisus

9,071 posts

309 months

Sunday 31st October 2021
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My 16 year old has gone out tonight with some of her mates. We have similar ages come to our door and always have. Don't have a problem with it and have never had a problem.

I've certainty never felt ' intimidated '.

richatnort

Original Poster:

3,204 posts

160 months

Sunday 31st October 2021
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I don't really understand it though. Why do teenagers want to knock on someone's door and ask for a sweet? I remember when I was a teenager I couldn't think of anything more boring to do with my time.

T5SOR

2,030 posts

254 months

Sunday 31st October 2021
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We managed to get 3 this year. Quite an achievement!

Wacky Racer

41,290 posts

276 months

Sunday 31st October 2021
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Just had some kids half an hour ago. I opened the door and said "Sorry, I'm isolating due to covid"

I've never seen anyone run so fast. hehe

zetec

5,195 posts

280 months

Sunday 31st October 2021
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I just don’t get Halloween. All year kids are told not to talk to strangers, don’t accept sweets from strangers etc etc. Then all of a sudden it’s ok!

anonymous-user

83 months

Sunday 31st October 2021
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richatnort said:
Anyone else get loads of teenagers?
Yes, as well as the tots.

It’s a dressing up/make up fest with free sweets. Why on earth would it be restricted to under 10s? Are you getting my confused with believing in Father Christmas?

anonymous-user

83 months

Sunday 31st October 2021
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I hung two dead sheep and a headless lama on my porch this year.

Lovely and quiet.

BoRED S2upid

21,047 posts

269 months

Sunday 31st October 2021
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zetec said:
I just don’t get Halloween. All year kids are told not to talk to strangers, don’t accept sweets from strangers etc etc. Then all of a sudden it’s ok!
That’s why the kids love it. Imagine if the pubs were closed for a year then boom you’re allowed a pint. Same with kids and free sweets best day of the year!

zedstar

1,784 posts

205 months

Sunday 31st October 2021
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Went with our 4 and 6 year old tonight, plenty of houses giving sweets and really nice to see how some of the home owners had dressed up and having fun with it all, the kids loved it.

Can't see why any teenagers would bother though, all seems very child centric.

arfur

4,015 posts

243 months

Sunday 31st October 2021
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I had kids when I was a lot younger ... they are in their mid/late20's now

A good few of friends and work colleagues were later in life on the kids front

I see their posts today on FB etc

TBH if the costumes, makeup and "Halloween" had really been so in your face back then I'd have been up for the full on fun as well

It wasn't ... it was bks then and very dull

No harm in the kids and teens having a laugh

Kebab and vodka is what I'd be expecting !

ArnageWRC

2,334 posts

188 months

Sunday 31st October 2021
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When did Hallowe'en grow 'out of control?' It just used to be duck apple/ bob apple, and maybe 'trick or treat' for school kids up to about 12-13 years old.
Guy Fawkes/Bonfire Night was more of a thing....

I can't remember the last time I saw kids collecting for 'penny for a guy'. Is it the influence of our friends across the Atlantic going mad for Hallowe'en?

zetec

5,195 posts

280 months

Sunday 31st October 2021
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BoRED S2upid said:
zetec said:
I just don’t get Halloween. All year kids are told not to talk to strangers, don’t accept sweets from strangers etc etc. Then all of a sudden it’s ok!
That’s why the kids love it. Imagine if the pubs were closed for a year then boom you’re allowed a pint. Same with kids and free sweets best day of the year!
I agree. But as mentioned in the OP we are talking about teenagers. Say a couple of 13yr olds (unsupervised as they are old enough to be out alone), knock on say Gary Glitter’s door and get invited to step inside while he gets the sweets. He then says ‘mind the puppies though……would you like to see them’……

Sheets Tabuer

21,411 posts

244 months

Sunday 31st October 2021
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garyhun said:
I hung two dead sheep and a headless lama on my porch this year.

Lovely and quiet.
Or they know a guy called Gary lives there.

Rh14n

1,126 posts

137 months

Sunday 31st October 2021
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Call me an old grump but I don't get it. Fine for small children supervised by parents going around their friends or people who invite it but otherwise, keep away. It seems to me it's an excuse for feral older kids to be running around in gangs throwing eggs and flour and generally being a pain in the a$^e.

It seems to have replaced the tradition of children dressed in jolly, colourful woolly scarves and hats singing carols at Christmas time. Can't remember the last time I saw or heard of carol singers. I'm not remotely religious but I know which I prefer.

cliffe_mafia

1,732 posts

267 months

Sunday 31st October 2021
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We’ve had about 10 lots tonight - all nice kids. My 6 year old went out earlier dressed as a dragon to the other houses on our street. He loved opening our door to the other kids to give them sweets smile

Yesterday afternoon though, the missus answered the door to a couple of older kids, not dressed up and on the blag - said they were busy on Halloween so had to come round early. She told them to do one and they even asked for sandwich when she said she had no sweets! They weren’t happy so nicked one of our pumpkins and kicked it to bits down the street.

Sheets Tabuer

21,411 posts

244 months

Sunday 31st October 2021
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As much as I'd like to be curmudgeonly about Halloween we're not putting that genie back in the bottle so I think for little kids it's wonderful, imagine being 5 and you're being taken around all dressed up. They're not sure if vampires and zombies are real, their little hearts are beating like the clappers everytime they see a shadow. Is it a Werewolf? perhaps a ghost, omg!!!! phew it's a bush, for that split second they are terrified and squeeze mums hand tight. How lovely.

For the older kids that know better, feck em. tell them to bugger off.