What accidental change - resulted in a permanent change?
What accidental change - resulted in a permanent change?
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The Dictator

Original Poster:

1,470 posts

164 months

Tuesday 5th September 2023
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To elaborate slightly as the title isn't long enough.

What accidental or enforced change, has then led to you making that change permanent THROUGH CHOICE?

i.e at the lower end of the spectrum, as an example:

The brand of coffee you usually buy isn't available, in order not to go without, you buy an alternative and then discover you much prefer it, initiating a permanent unplanned change.

This question is designed to capture those situations forced upon us, that result in a better option/solution resulting.

So something that initially starts out being a negative, turning into a positive.

Go :-)


simon_harris

2,701 posts

58 months

Tuesday 5th September 2023
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I got diagnosed with incurable cancer, made me decide to be somewhat less of a , as a result I am happier.

The Dictator

Original Poster:

1,470 posts

164 months

Tuesday 5th September 2023
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simon_harris said:
I got diagnosed with incurable cancer, made me decide to be somewhat less of a , as a result I am happier.
st, I am very sorry to hear that!

cheesejunkie

5,252 posts

41 months

Tuesday 5th September 2023
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That escalated quickly.

Simon I don’t mean to be flippant, I hope you’re as well as can be. My wife’s better than me at this. I’m crap. I’m glad you’ve found peace. That sounds awful, it’s meant well! I’m crap at sentiment.

Accidental change is mostly up shifting and not liking going back down. Real butter, I can never go back to margarine. I was raised on margarine.

Nethybridge

1,146 posts

36 months

Tuesday 5th September 2023
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Not sure of its accidental-ness, but a personal tax on income was a temporary measure to help fund
the Napoleonic Wars and has been with us ever since

cheesejunkie

5,252 posts

41 months

Tuesday 5th September 2023
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Nethybridge said:
Not sure of its accidental-ness, but a personal tax on income was a temporary measure to help fund
the Napoleonic Wars and has been with us ever since
Lol. Not a joke, I’m currently reading this https://www.theguardian.com/books/2022/mar/13/lega...

I have no intention of bringing up any of the arguments on PH but we have some history on taxation.

gotoPzero

20,099 posts

213 months

Tuesday 5th September 2023
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Closed my business during covid for the second lock down. Forced upon us by the staff really, several all went off with covid at the same time and that lost us a lot of customers all at once. We were closed for nearly 3 months in the end. After the first month I really started to enjoy it and wound down a LOT and realised I was pretty stressed out and really other than more money was getting nothing from working.

Life is short so why work to a set age because society says so.

Money wasn't a factor so decided to call it and 18 months later I was done and have been retired now for just over a year.

If it wasn't for covid I would 100% still be working.


pork911

7,365 posts

207 months

Tuesday 5th September 2023
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Breeding
(At least according to some breeders)

Blue62

10,316 posts

176 months

Tuesday 5th September 2023
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simon_harris said:
I got diagnosed with incurable cancer, made me decide to be somewhat less of a , as a result I am happier.
I think that’s as good as it gets. Brave post and great to read it, thank you.

littleowl

898 posts

257 months

Tuesday 5th September 2023
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Only a small one in the grand scheme of things, but during that strange time of lockdown #1 all the days seemed to blur into one & as a result, I stopped wearing a watch

Haven't worn one since.

egomeister

7,525 posts

287 months

Tuesday 5th September 2023
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Nethybridge said:
Not sure of its accidental-ness, but a personal tax on income was a temporary measure to help fund
the Napoleonic Wars and has been with us ever since
Many such cases!

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Daylight-Robbery-Shaped-C...


Skyedriver

22,491 posts

306 months

Tuesday 5th September 2023
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EmailAddress said:
I left my toy cars at the top of the stairs when I was three and it angered my mother so much I've had two step-dads, three step-mums and one of my sisters is estranged.

I'm sorry mom, I tidy up now I promise.
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SimonTheSailor

12,926 posts

252 months

Wednesday 6th September 2023
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I got kicked out of work after going a bit mental ten years ago.
Went sailing, travelled/travelling the world, got a boat, live on the boat, don't work much, f*CK it.
Would still be a civil servant now with 5 more years to go until the end.

ARHarh

4,892 posts

131 months

Wednesday 6th September 2023
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Got pissed off with my boss putting demands on me to sort out stuff he should have done months ago, walked out after being asked to cancel my holiday to finish a job he should have started 8 weeks earlier. Got used to not working and decided not having loads of spare cash was fine. Now just starting my 6th year of retirement.

simon_harris

2,701 posts

58 months

Wednesday 6th September 2023
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simon_harris said:
I got diagnosed with incurable cancer, made me decide to be somewhat less of a , as a result I am happier.
I should have probably put a smile in this post!

It is true I was diagnosed in 2013 with Follicular Non Hodgkin's lymphoma which is considered incurable, it is also true that it was a massive wake up call that how I was living my life was pretty st for me and for everyone around me so I made a conscious effort not to be that person any more and as a result 10 years later I am a much much happier person and the people around me are happier as well.

It is no longer an effort to not be a and following some pretty brutal chemo in 2017 I am currently free of any symptoms, sadly the type of cancer it is means that it will come back at some point but that could be 5 years, or 30 years we just don't know so in the meantime I just get on with living life.

On my first diagnosis meeting I was told I most people are dead within 5 to 10 years of diagnosis so I have already beat that...

Spare tyre

12,119 posts

154 months

Wednesday 6th September 2023
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simon_harris said:
I got diagnosed with incurable cancer, made me decide to be somewhat less of a , as a result I am happier.
What a stter

Similar for me, got cancer, made me realise what matters and it’s not possessions

Eric Mc

124,962 posts

289 months

Wednesday 6th September 2023
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cheesejunkie said:
Nethybridge said:
Not sure of its accidental-ness, but a personal tax on income was a temporary measure to help fund
the Napoleonic Wars and has been with us ever since
Lol. Not a joke, I’m currently reading this https://www.theguardian.com/books/2022/mar/13/lega...

I have no intention of bringing up any of the arguments on PH but we have some history on taxation.
So we can blame the French for that one too. They are also responsible for VAT.

Grrrrrr.

CRA1G

7,186 posts

219 months

Wednesday 6th September 2023
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OMITN

2,921 posts

116 months

Wednesday 6th September 2023
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A diagram drawn on a whiteboard by a colleague resulted in me having a career change for a few years.

I’m back in my original profession these days but that chance conversation and him explaining something technical with a diagram accelerated my career enormously.

cheesejunkie

5,252 posts

41 months

Wednesday 6th September 2023
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Eric Mc said:
So we can blame the French for that one too. They are also responsible for VAT.

Grrrrrr.
Blaming the French has served us well, some politicians are still at it smile. We're far too similar in so many ways but at least we don't smell like garlic. Or maybe I watched too many carry on films in the past.