The annual struggle... what to get the Mrs for Christmas?!
The annual struggle... what to get the Mrs for Christmas?!
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fridaypassion

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11,278 posts

252 months

Sunday 3rd December 2023
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Well the time is here the annual struggle of what to buy the woman that has everything for Christmas! Looking for suggestions maybe we can get some inspiration.

Doesn't have to be a PH company director moll budget just something that shows that some kind of effort has been put into it. I got her a plate for her car last year along with the usual smellies and chocs.

Fire away with some ideas!


HTP99

24,771 posts

164 months

Sunday 3rd December 2023
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My wife is a nightmare too, she's pretty much got everything she wants, she's very particular with clothing and has a short attention span when it comes to clothes, not really into jewelery or perfumes plus I'm pretty crap with ideas, fortunately this year we've set a £20 budget as we are seeing Green Day later in the year so that's our present to each other.

it's her 50th in January, I'm bricking it lol as I've go no idea!

PositronicRay

28,663 posts

207 months

Sunday 3rd December 2023
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We're having an amnesty this year.
I'll wrap some posh chocs and pop under the tree just for tradition sake.

Piersman2

6,676 posts

223 months

Sunday 3rd December 2023
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Loving the ".. some kind of effort..." whilst asking for ideas on PH! biggrin

The OH and me are finding as each year passes that we're less and less interested in wasting good money on ste pressies that neither wants/needs so tend to buy what we want in the weeks leading up to Xmas and just agree we've bought them for each other as pressies.

So this year I've bought her a pair of posh wellies for walking the dog each day, and she's bought me another addition to my Makita cordless collection.

On the day itself we will probably buy a few odds and sods just to have something to open, but this year we're even struggling to build up the enthusiasm to waste time and money hunting that kind of rubbish down so xmas day present opening might be over pretty damn quick this year! smile

So... posh wellies. smile

markymarkthree

3,457 posts

195 months

Sunday 3rd December 2023
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I noticed that Mrs Markys jewellery box (that i bought 20ish years ago) was looking very knackered so she will be getting one of those. John Lewis so she can can change it. rolleyes

MBVitoria

2,533 posts

247 months

Sunday 3rd December 2023
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Mine is really into crafting and has expressed an interest in stained glass windows. There's a half day beginner's course at a local college for something like £80 so that will do nicely from me.

From the kids she'll get some new fluffy socks, some chocs and a book.

I hate insta / facebook quotes but to be fair the "Want, Need, Wear, Read" rule of gifting that I see doing the rounds does make a lot of sense.


Spunagain

772 posts

282 months

Sunday 3rd December 2023
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How about a dna test kit.?Got one for Xmas from my wife last year and results were fascinating.

Wololo

304 posts

59 months

Sunday 3rd December 2023
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A pair of kitchen tongs and some firelighters should do the trick.

Cold

16,437 posts

114 months

Sunday 3rd December 2023
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Not physical items, but tickets to an event (show/concert/comedy/exhibition etc) so that you two can do something together as a couple.


(It is not important for the event to be your favourite pastime)

fridaypassion

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11,278 posts

252 months

Sunday 3rd December 2023
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Show tickets is a good one

Not so much the kitchen stuff laugh

GroundEffect

13,864 posts

180 months

Sunday 3rd December 2023
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Why not just ask her?

Or are we not meant to talk to the womenfolk.

vixen1700

28,027 posts

294 months

Sunday 3rd December 2023
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Got my mrs.one of these years ago:

https://www.findmeagift.co.uk/gifts/bogey-man-egg-...

She wasn't anywhere amused by it as I was. frown

bobthemonkey

4,177 posts

240 months

Sunday 3rd December 2023
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Upmarket hair styling stuff goes down well. Dyson or GHD seem to get the nod of approval?

Kenty

5,232 posts

199 months

Sunday 3rd December 2023
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a suitcase................

Bill

57,490 posts

279 months

Sunday 3rd December 2023
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Spunagain said:
How about a dna test kit.?Got one for Xmas from my wife last year and results were fascinating.
I read this and thought you meant a paternity test, which seems a bit harsh! eekhehe

The Rotrex Kid

34,064 posts

184 months

Sunday 3rd December 2023
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Got my wife a makeup calendar thing. She can open it leading up to Christmas and gets a different thing every day. She’s over the moon about it.

CoolHands

22,433 posts

219 months

Sunday 3rd December 2023
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Bluetooth headphones so can listen to music from her phone

Hants PHer

6,501 posts

135 months

Sunday 3rd December 2023
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GroundEffect said:
Why not just ask her?

Or are we not meant to talk to the womenfolk.
This should work in theory, but in practice it doesn't. Well, not in Mrs. Hants PH'ers case anyway.
The conversation inevitably goes like this:
Me: "What would you like for Christmas love?"
Her: "Don't buy me chocolates and don't buy me fragrance or jewellery."
Me: "OK. Anything you do want, rather than don't want?"
Her: "Please don't get clothes or footwear, and definitely not underwear!"

So I give up and get her a bottle of artisan gin that always tastes weird, unlike Gordon's that she actually does like and "probably what you should have got." Although the one year I did get Gordon's she said that was a boring choice.

Ho sodding ho! For the avoidance of doubt, I love her to bits, always have, always will, but she's a nightmare to buy for.

Chris Stott

18,593 posts

221 months

Sunday 3rd December 2023
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We haven’t done Christmas presents for years… neither of us really need anything, and if we do, we just buy it. Instead we just spend the money on doing something together… a really nice dinner, a show, etc.

Having said that, I’m surprising her with a service, polish, new dial and sapphire for her watch. She currently thinks she’s lost it hehe

Jasandjules

72,024 posts

253 months

Sunday 3rd December 2023
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My wife has already obtained her presents "from me". They are by my bedside in boxes I just need to wrap them......