RIP My Brother (A True Petrolhead)
RIP My Brother (A True Petrolhead)
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plasticpig

Original Poster:

12,932 posts

247 months

Wednesday 17th June 2009
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It was my brothers funeral yesterday; he was only 41. Cars were a big part of his life. From getting his first car at 17 ( a bright orange Mini) he loved cars and driving.

I was a late starter in learning to drive and wasn't very confident. Soon after passing my test I was giving him a lift and made a very stupid error at a roundabout. "Don't worry " he said "thats why cars have brakes". The lift turned into a two hour training session on observation and cue's to other drivers intentions.

He didnt manage to turn me into a petrolhead until a year or so later. By this time he had set up a sucessful prestige and perfomance car dealership with a partner. It was the blast he gave me in an bright yellow Alpine A610 that did it (Alpine's were their speciality). After that I was hooked. He always gave his little brother a good deal!

More recently he was giving me a lift to pick up my Scimitar from a specialist. This included going along the Cat and Fiddle. I mentioned seeing videos on youtube of cars and bikes doing this in under 10 minutes. "I can do that" he says and proceeds to put his foot down. We didnt quite make the under 10 minute mark but it was very close. He was driving a diesel LWB Landrover Defender. He knew the road really well and it was obvious he knew the last possible moment he could apply the brakes for each bend. It was a wonderful piece of driving.

So bye bye bro; Thanks for showing me the light; sharing your passion and converting me from a state of indiffrence to the love I have for all things automotive today and is now such a big part of my life.


Vixpy1

42,697 posts

286 months

Wednesday 17th June 2009
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41 frown Sorry to hear of your loss

Stu R

21,423 posts

237 months

Wednesday 17th June 2009
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Sorry to hear that chap.

Catz

4,847 posts

233 months

Wednesday 17th June 2009
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Very sorry to hear this, 41 is too young an age to say goodbye.

H_Kan

4,942 posts

221 months

Wednesday 17th June 2009
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condolences OP, thoughts are with you and your family.

As somebody said on here, brothers are special, and this rings true with yours.

Flanders.

6,432 posts

230 months

Wednesday 17th June 2009
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Sorry Pal frown. Makes me realise how good of a brother I have.

NiceCupOfTea

25,527 posts

273 months

Wednesday 17th June 2009
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Really sorry to hear that chap. I don't speak to my brother enough frown

central

16,745 posts

239 months

Wednesday 17th June 2009
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Sad news cry

fluffnik

20,156 posts

249 months

Wednesday 17th June 2009
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41 is far too young. frown

Remember the good times.

Jimbeaux

33,791 posts

253 months

Wednesday 17th June 2009
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Sorry. frown I have two younger brothers and that would gut me. Thanks for reminding us to take no one for granted.

Zad

12,935 posts

258 months

Wednesday 17th June 2009
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So sorry to hear that frown

I lost a really good friend last year who was a bit younger than me, and have been thinking about our mortality quite a bit. You must be devastated. frown

Lil' Joe

1,548 posts

208 months

Wednesday 17th June 2009
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My thoughts are with you and your family.

Exige77

6,523 posts

213 months

Wednesday 17th June 2009
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Really sorry to hear. 41 !!

May I ask what happened ?

Ex77

Mr POD

5,153 posts

214 months

Wednesday 17th June 2009
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My vibes are sent.


becksW

14,690 posts

233 months

Wednesday 17th June 2009
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Just reading your post has made me teary, it's a genuine and heartfelt posting you were obviously close, I'm sorry for your loss, hang on to those dear memories frown

Working Class

8,973 posts

209 months

Wednesday 17th June 2009
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My thoughts are with you

crofty1984

16,790 posts

226 months

Wednesday 17th June 2009
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Christ, sorry to hear that.

Adenauer

18,944 posts

258 months

Wednesday 17th June 2009
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Very sorry to hear that, far, far too young frown

isee

3,713 posts

205 months

Wednesday 17th June 2009
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Never had a brother but if I did, I'd want one like yours.

My sincere condolences...

escargot

17,122 posts

239 months

Wednesday 17th June 2009
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My profoundest sympathies are with you.