Would you show your other half pics of you with a stripper?
Would you show your other half pics of you with a stripper?

Poll: Would you show your other half pics of you with a stripper?

Total Members Polled: 274

Yes: 32%
No: 68%
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Legend83

Original Poster:

10,436 posts

245 months

Tuesday 30th June 2009
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It was my missus hen-party on the weekend. I am not a particularly jealous or naive guy and I knew that some debauchery was inevitable.

However, once returned, my missus and her bridesmaids proceeded to show me all the pics. Most of them are hilarious.

Then suddenly I was subjected to looking at my missus being romped by the most amazing looking, latino, Mens Health bodied, well-endowed Adonis.

Obviously in front of the girls I just laughed it off, but secretly I found it quite uncomfortable (even though I knew about it and was completely nonchalant about the fact).

So, would you show your other halves "un-edited" photos of your stag/hen party?

By the way "romped" in this context means standard stripper messing about sort of stuff. Not actual penetration...smile



Edited by Legend83 on Tuesday 30th June 12:51

philthy

4,697 posts

263 months

Tuesday 30th June 2009
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Save the pictures, and if she ever throws something in your face because you are having some innocent fun with another girl, bring them out.

Play them at their own game.

Puggit

49,435 posts

271 months

Tuesday 30th June 2009
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philthy said:
Save the pictures, and if she ever throws something in your face because you are having some innocent fun with another girl, bring them out.

Play them at their own game.
Are you a woman?

Ahhh Moneypenny

4,100 posts

245 months

Tuesday 30th June 2009
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I would hate it if my other half showed me as am a total jelouse bd, somethings are best left alone, it is almost rubbing your nose in it, although on the other hand if you have nothing to hide then it is totally innocent?

Neil_H

15,407 posts

274 months

Tuesday 30th June 2009
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Don't be ridiculous man, what happens on stag nights is not a topic for discussion with OHs, certainly not with pictoral evidence.

jafoole

9,027 posts

231 months

Tuesday 30th June 2009
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Probably not, but it depends on the girl.

esselte

14,626 posts

290 months

Tuesday 30th June 2009
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Ahhh Moneypenny said:
although on the other hand if you have nothing to hide then it is totally innocent?
Ah hah..the old double bluff...smile

trophies

239 posts

215 months

Tuesday 30th June 2009
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Puggit said:
philthy said:
Save the pictures, and if she ever throws something in your face because you are having some innocent fun with another girl, bring them out.

Play them at their own game.
Are you a woman?
lol - brilliant

BaronVonVTEC

397 posts

207 months

Tuesday 30th June 2009
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My apologies for grinding your missus. Good job she didn't print the other pictures. wink

philthy

4,697 posts

263 months

Tuesday 30th June 2009
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Puggit said:
philthy said:
Save the pictures, and if she ever throws something in your face because you are having some innocent fun with another girl, bring them out.

Play them at their own game.
Are you a woman?
Nope.
If the OP's other half goes mental, like they usually do, it is useful to remember stuff to remove wind from sails.
It doesn't help, because you will never convince a woman they're wrong, but it can kill their argument stone dead.


Plotloss

67,280 posts

293 months

Tuesday 30th June 2009
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WGOTSOT

Thats the rules, break them at your peril.

james_tigerwoods

16,344 posts

220 months

Tuesday 30th June 2009
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My OH's on a Hen Weekend soon - I really don't want to know. I suspect I'll get the edited highlights...

GTIR

24,741 posts

289 months

Tuesday 30th June 2009
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It seems like your OH miss-judged you; Its all down to the indiviuals relationship with their partner, she obviously thought it would be ok but it seems she was wrong! mad

I suggest talking to her about it if its bothers you enough to post a thread about it on PH, it may have been that here friends showed them without her thinking about it first.

Personally it wouldnt bother me, but then again I didnt give a toss about my ex anyways so I am not really a good berometer to judge! laugh

Man-At-Arms

5,918 posts

202 months

Tuesday 30th June 2009
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Plotloss said:
WGOTSOT
couldn't agree more

until your in the pub one night, and your mate accidentally mentions something he shouldn't have !

CraigW

12,248 posts

305 months

Tuesday 30th June 2009
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+1

dirty boy

14,818 posts

232 months

Tuesday 30th June 2009
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Don't worry about it.

It may make you feel uncomfortable, but you're the one marrying her.




Legend83

Original Poster:

10,436 posts

245 months

Tuesday 30th June 2009
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esselte said:
Ahhh Moneypenny said:
although on the other hand if you have nothing to hide then it is totally innocent?
Ah hah..the old double bluff...smile
That's what my mates keep saying - if she is happy to show them then she clearly just had a great time and that was it.

Didn't help that all her mates kept on banging on about how gorgeous/sweet/hunky/"large" he was. Not usually the jealous type, but something about it made me feel....inadequate in a way.

I will definitely not be showing un-edited footage!


WorAl

10,877 posts

211 months

Tuesday 30th June 2009
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just voted yes as didnt read the subject. if it was a night out with the lads then yes i'd show her the pics, she'd prob enjoy them wink if it was my stag do then no, they are sacred dude.

dirty boy

14,818 posts

232 months

Tuesday 30th June 2009
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WorAl said:
just voted yes as didnt read the subject. if it was a night out with the lads then yes i'd show her the pics, she'd prob enjoy them wink if it was my stag do then no, they are sacred dude.
WGOTSOT

However, on my stag, one of my dares was to get a woman to kiss my cock.

There was a lot of fun being made about me being under the thumb, so, me being drunk, I thought it'd be funny if I phoned my wife to be up and ask if I could do this dare.

She said do what you want.

I won that dare

Twice.

NathanJones

713 posts

236 months

Tuesday 30th June 2009
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She obviously does not feel that there has been anything wrong with her having shown you the pictures. has she mentioned them? reading far too much into it. If that jealous speak to her about it, after all you should be able to discuss anything and everything in your relationship.



Edited by NathanJones on Tuesday 30th June 13:15